In the interest of good spirit between fellow providers, if in fact you are one, and intelligent discourse that i think serves all of us better, both seekers and providers, i would like to respectfully examine your post, Jamie.


"First Timers are weirdos".   That's a pretty broad statement, love. Harshly judgemental of many sincerely seeking gentlemen that neither you, nor i, have ever personally met or known, so therefore not remotely possible that is true for all of them.


That is opinion, not statement of fact, & likely totally inaccurate for many sincere, cautious, first time seekers, that do not fall into how you define "weirdo".


My FIRST requirement is being able to have a few minutes of mature, sensible, warm & completely down to earth intelligent dialogue as a basic qualifier. If someone is unwilling to do that, i'll politely screen them out, but never in a mean or rude manner, just because that's my own personal belief of how one treats people in general, whether as companion, or any aspect of my life.


Certainly, some new seekers  may need some "babying" as you insultingly put it... but dont you think, with the : "million horror stories", fakes, & ripoffs, that make it difficult for ALL of us, on BOTH sides of the coin, that their caution is warranted ? Especially the more mature, well established men (most of my special friends), often have a VERY high level of discretion needs. So, i think that most only wish some kindly, or very least, warm reassurance, that this will not come back to hurt them later ? Common sense to treat first time seekers with kindness, i think makes good sense as well, instead of calling them all "weirdos" as you say.


Even the most experienced seekers you have come across, ALL began as "first timers" at some point, therefore that contradicts your assertion of all being 'weirdos'. Whatever good clients you have NOW, were ALL first timers, at some point. If they never found a good, positive, or non-fake genuine experience with a good companion, then YOU would never have anyone to work with, in the first place.


"Am a good actress am not like that"....  ok ...that may be the way you relate to your arts. That does NOT mean you speak for anyone else you know nothing about, have never met, do not know what my life contains, nor know the nature or quality of my special friends and positive connections.  I would prefer to NEVER "have" to be just a "good actress". Much rather simply be myself, because gentlemen, especially taking risks to open deeply private, very intimate explorations, can usually sense lack of genuineness, fake passion, or fake committment, no matter how stupid you may think other people are.


As an educated, well spoken, extremely down to earth, very sensual-minded and mature, corporate society woman,  i actually believe in what i do, and how i do it.  Therefore my passion and committment of simply being myself, are all that i have EVER needed to do, to consistently make, & keep, exceptional connections for years, often lasting special friendships, and usually always ONLY with mature, gentlemanly, sincerely seeking people.


i prefer to think along the lines of warm guidance, or simple genuine openness, and always ONLY in a very forthright manner. Why engage in games, meanness, or acting, rather than just simply being myself, which is actually just an open & loving person in general, and truly in every aspect of my life.  That way, there will never be ANY difference between someone's impression of me in first contact, and when we actually meet. If i DON'T manufacture things about my nature, or genuine passion for my own erotic arts, then i never have to cover myself later, love.


As far as your words of : "Be realistic girl".....  You may not recognize there are actually some truly genuine people in the world, even in erotic arts. But, since you do NOT know me, or anything about my life, so therefore, what you said is ONLY opinion, but is NOT the fact of my life, nor the fact of how, or why, i continue to do what i do, as a very mature companion.


It is likely that i have been in upscale companionship/erotic arts, much longer than you've even been in "transition", & i assure you, i've had good, bad, scary, and everything else...  but, as a truly non-stereotypical woman in every sense, i have NEVER been "transactional", rude, fake, or mean, in either what i post, nor who i actually am as a woman, person, and companion.


I cannot be a mean person. Neither my spirit nor ethic will ever allow in this life to be that way, nor can i believe that is an appropriate way to treat any other human being, no matter the circumstance. Golden rule manners are the only thing that make sense to me. More than 20 years before you were even born, i'd already seen every cruel, mean, stupid, ignorant, and abusive thing, and so i cannot EVER be any of those things to anyone else. Especially Not in erotic/intimate arts.


If the kinds of connections & friendships i often make by simply being myself, then that "first timer" is always going to remember that FIRST GENUINE SHARED experience, which sets the bar in their minds and hearts, from that moment forward, as regards TS women in general.


So, i feel as though i have a sincere responsibility to treat that person with care, respect, truly discretionary professionalism, & deeply believe that can be done without EVER being cold, ruthless, mean, fake, or disingenuous. at least that is the experience i have created in my own life.  My own reviews here clearly reflect that, but i never focus on that in this forum. Sure - should i get more nice reviews - Yes - that is always awesome.


i was doing completely independant companionships for years, before i even knew the existence of the TER, much less had any reviews here,.... and i will simply continue doing what i do, as long as i have true love for it, whether i get reviews or not.


You are clearly different, but just because you say you wish to be mean, or rude, or judgemental, does not mean that everyone else in the world (7 billion and counting), could possibly also be the same thing. You are projecting & judging without fact, without perspective, without experience, and without personal knowledge of to whom you speak, or how you address yourself in such a manner.


As a fellow provider and member of the family of TS women in this world, i must respect, support, and welcome you, in any way i possibly can. i would never flame you for no good reason, as i know nothing about you, your life, your struggles as a woman, and i am NOT a personal witness to the contents of YOUR heart and mind, and therefore it's not my place to presume that.


So, Unless you are personal witness to MY life, heart, and mind, i would suggest you might serve yourself, your potential clients, & your business better, by not projecting disingenousness onto others, some of whom have already made happily experienced connections out of "first timers", long before YOU ever got to talk to them....


...and some of us, have also likely fought for your life, your rights, and your very existence as a TS female, in a society still hostile to most of us, and have even been in companionship arts many years before you, much less had not even begun your own process of transitioning.


Please be well, be safe, and i only wish you true success in what you must do on your own path. That path is not my path, and should not be judged by you to be the same as yours, as i am a different person than you are.


Safe Travels Always, no matter what,

LoveRespectAlways,

Namaste'

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TheAngelaGirl

She is the textbook defnition of an internet troll.  OK got it.