Dear AsianGee,
I recently encountered a similar situation, and even though I am a VIP member here, my various attempts of everything from kind, to pleading, to frustrated, and more, with someone that gave me a wayyyy less than desirable review have not been responded to at all... not even the most basic courtesy of *any* response at all - even after I offered a full service at n/c to make sure that all expectations were met for him, if not totally exceeded...
...and it *definitely* has clearly had an affect of driving people away from me, as I tend to be pretty lucidly aware of my types and levels of inquiries here in DC, at different times of the year...
Like your own issue, it was not a "bad" review, per se, but FAR from positive in my view, and also much like your own issue, it was a combination of somewhat flattering to extremely insulting, and *was* literally very contradictory / all over the place, and in several glaring ways, if anyone is really looking at details...
My initial reactions were also like yours, in having a weird feeling of being set up to look bad, or written for someone else, and, the person only had 1 review online here prior to mine, so clearly a lack of experience, as well...
I even wrote about this earlier in the year in a couple of postings where I was extremely forthright about being more aware & considerate to us girls, specifically in having the forethought before sitting down to write something, to think about how certain ways of writing about our shared experiences can really have a very real affect on the lives and arts of truly good companions...
I wish I could help more, as I *really* share in your feelings at this moment (mine went from surprise to shock to frustration to fear of my arts and repute being irreparably damaged, and I lost sleep for weeks after that was published and my inquiries mentioning TER literally just dropped off the map...
This sucks for any of us that *know* we are not BS artists, or look better, share better, play better, and are *ONLY* totally, absolutely, respectfully, lovingly, and totally committed to trying always in only doing everything right that we can to the very best of our hearts and minds...
..and like yourself, clearly from your reviews and obvious intelligence) the extreme opposite of any of the many fakes or flakes.... We absolutely **Know** that we are better than potential inconsideration like this, and it doesn't make the pain or the frustration any better, unfortunately, especially if someone does not have the courtesy or kindness to respond in return and share additional thoughts or feedback...
How does one begin a review with: "all in all very pleasant and I would consider seeing her again, and end it with: "however, she is a little weird, and some of her conversation made me uncomfortable".... that just took my breath away, after I saw that in mine...
I have NEVER been referred to in those terms, or known such discomfort in a decade of utterly committed, elegant, intelligent, and generally mind-blowingly awesome shared experiences that I am going to say have exceeded the expectations of 90+ % of all I have ever known...
(and I do mean in *Every* way - intellect, looks, respectfulness, cleanliness, no drugs, gentle hearted, completely open and forthright, *totally* non-transactional/non-clockwatching, non-sketchy, genuinely passionate, no VIP games, naturally well adjusted, comfortable in my own skin, no dramas, no games or indiscretions, in extremely good fitness, looks that I have *Always* been told exceed in person than my photos, etc etc etc etc....of almost all the people I have ever connected with...(and unfortunately, most of which, due to discretion, social demographic, or societal position have never even posted here, or written reviews)....
....or, knowing going into it that I am a mature and 100% natural woman, yet then slapping me for my age, voice, looks, fitness level and more, after the fact ?.... whew.. hard to erase that kind of pain from an otherwise excellent repute as being well more than average, or worse... I have to have respect for everyone's unique perspectives as being valid, but at least be consistent and not all over the place contradictory if your going to write something...
I know this pain all too well now, and maybe continuing to try to reach the person will help, maybe what you wrote here will get a response, maybe they will call you again... seems there is no way to know...
...what I do know is your repute stands before you, any of us that really give our all to this sometimes crazy erotic world, and just the way you write should tell most people something about your level of real commitment to your arts on all kinds of levels that are clearly "above average" in many many ways... I enjoy reading your posts, and utter respectfulness to you always as a peer and fellow companion that seems to be much more than just another "here one minute, gone the next" type.
Keep moving forward, keep recommitting yourself to blow away all expectations and just keep doing what you clearly do awesomely well... if they never respond, then that is all any of us can ever do after a black mark on a repute, or a bad day that just happened to be the one, that for some reason we got hammered about in the worst of ways.
You know you are better than that... and from the way you write, Far better, I would imagine.
Continuing to be an exceptional playmate and companion is always going to be your very, very, best response.
You absolutely have my respect always.
Sincerely,
TheAngelaGir