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Re: Screening
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Yeah I imagine screening is a tricky one because of the risk you have to take and clients not wanting to give out too much info right out of the gate. I admittedly fall into that category. Deposits I seldom do, but there are exceptions. However like I mentioned before I don’t mind doing brief video chats when requested before as a means of screening even sometimes request it myself. I actually prefer it and have found it puts us both at ease. Good luck navigating everything!

I'm hoping to ask veteran providers on here: does it get easier? How much does it take to advertise oneself before reviews eventually turn up? I've been a provider for a couple months and still learning how to grow in this field. Does anyone have advice? Cheers.

I think you'd probably get better advice about your end of the business from another provider.  

I guess from my perspective all I can say is keep at it. Or, find a reviewer willing to review you in your area or somewhere you travel and see that person.

I talk to other providers outside of TER, I'm just seeking to connect with another on this forum.

I'm going to keep working hard and stay active, buzz boards and all! I really appreciate your advice!

Id love to see and review you. Where is your ad?

My website is linked! (I believe that counts as an ad?) I live in Minnesota and create online content as well. I appreciate your interest in reviewing me.

I'm in MN and don't think I've seen you advertize. If people don't know you, they won't find your website. You need to advertize, then that will help bring in the TER reviews eventually. Good luck.

I've posted on the MN buzz boards a few times in the past month, I'm not aware of other means of advertising on this site, unless you mean outside platforms like ero. If buzz boards aren't enough, then I'm curious on what I'm missing... I appreciate you for giving your perspective.

Yes, I'd take a look at Eros, TS Escorts and TS4Rent

Personally, ts4rent is my go to. Eros I don’t even check anymore. I do occasionally look at tsescorts, but I’m less of a fan of the format and of how many post with taglines and not their name. It seems a lot more seedy.

 
As for getting reviews, it’s not easy for a TS provider. Many guys simply don’t review. But then you have guys who do, but not TS providers. They’re not comfortable having their TS experiences linked to the username that reviews female escorts.

 
And this goes both ways. Sucks for guys who like TS escorts but don’t feel great when they’re not reviewed. There are so many scams and fake pic bait ads out there. As a client, I’m afraid if I cannot verify her, I may get had. And even with honest escorts, there are important details. The biggest, IMO, is those who say they are verse but really are not. Reviews can help me figure out what she really is.

Ts4rent itself isn't very trustworthy as they're now preventing users from leaving negative reviews of bad performances or scammers. Your reviews will always get rejected if it's not a positive one unless you've talked to the girl on ts4rent's messaging system, which no one uses.

Oh, I would never use ts4rent as a review source. I only trust TER for reviews. Anyone I find on ts4rent, I need to cross check with TER. Every once in a while, I TOFT. But even then, I prefer they have online presence like on Twitter.

I just bought 1 month on ts4rent today. This field is my only source income right now, so I'm going to give this my best shot and maybe try eros after.

The concern of being scammed is valid, my heart goes to people who've gone through it, they have the right to be cautious. I hope with enough advertising that clients will be comfortable with reviewing me. I know getting established as a TS provider is difficult, but I'll keep trying and work my butt off.

Tsescorts, I'm feel iffy about the constant pop-ups and weird navigation on there, but I'd give it a try it's safe to go on.

I’d recommend using both if it doesn’t cost a lot. As someone who has seen a good amount of providers without reviews (and given them their first), I’m more inclined to reach out if I see they have ads on multiple sites. It gives me more confidence that they are a professional and take things seriously, and that they are in fact a real person. Every single site is full of fake ads, Eros included. I wouldn’t let that discourage you from posting on them since imo the fake ones are so blatantly obvious especially when comparing them to the real ones.  

Also for what it’s worth, I’ve met quite a few providers who don’t even know what this site is, mostly younger (mid 20s) ones. Some even already had reviews and didn’t know it. I know this because I ask if they want a review before writing them. The responses have ranged from indifference to happy to get a first review or added to their current number to thanks but I’d prefer if you didn’t because I’ve been doing fine without them. In terms of verifying “existence” I’ve found that a brief FaceTime hello usually puts us both at ease. It terms of verifying “performance” I have found that looking at linked content in ads has been more accurate at times than what people write in reviews here.

I guess what I’m saying is, reviews are great but I’d also think outside of that in terms of getting yourself out there. Sorry if that was too much unsolicited advice!

Don't be sorry, fam! I appreciate you offering valuable insight! I'm 27 and discovered TER after reading a Lola Davina book. I'm here to learn from well-experienced people in this field because I want to be a reliable provider. I'll take your advice to heart and save money on an ad on Eros. When I receive my first review and become verified on TER I'll be ecstatic!

Another issue I run into outside of ads is screening... other providers in my circle stress how absolutely necessary it is to screen clients, but I keep losing people whenever I bring it up. I don't ask for deposits anymore, but I'm worried about fake clients as it has happened to me before. I want clients to feel comfortable, but I also stay safe and professional in my work. I don't know if it's worth having a screening process as a TS provider.

Again, your advice genuinely means a lot to me! I'll keep at it with ads and linking my content. Thank you!

Yeah I imagine screening is a tricky one because of the risk you have to take and clients not wanting to give out too much info right out of the gate. I admittedly fall into that category. Deposits I seldom do, but there are exceptions. However like I mentioned before I don’t mind doing brief video chats when requested before as a means of screening even sometimes request it myself. I actually prefer it and have found it puts us both at ease. Good luck navigating everything!

I'll update my sites and change my screening policies to just video calls instead. You're amazing with giving advice and support! Thank you ^w^

No problem and good luck! Feel free to shoot me a PM whenever if you have any questions

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