In a previous post you mentioned why you don't have TER reviews.  I have a good friend whose a TS who lives her life as a woman full time.  While she's a top notch provider she too does not want to show her picture in her ad or have anyone post a review for her on TER. Are there many other "good" providers that feel the same way? Should I start asking the girls first if they want a review posted?

I think that you have to have a respect for us like we have a respect for the customers.

I never like to call the clients although they ask me to do it, maybe they can be busy or with their family, I'm embarrassment to bother and I prefer to let them to decide when they want to see me again.

We can find out which is your real name and where you live, but I think is better to have a respect for the privacy.

providers can have many reasons why we don't want reviews and in my case I worry for my family and people around me who do not have any idea that I'm a ts and it will be terrible if they know that I'm doing this business, I'm sorry if I'm offending to someone, but this is my reality, so to have sucess I just do always my best, always! to keep my regulars happy and I think they are because they come back to me again, again and again.

Kisses to all of you guys.

Axpaseva........You sound like a true GFE.  Is it possible for us to talk off line?  I sent you a note through the TER VIP mail service, but if you're not a VIP member can you send me an email at [email protected]?

Axpaseva, lovely post welcome to the forum.  Please participate when you can.

For Rcky's question.  Part of the reason for TER is for you guys to post independent reviews.  However it can become a sticky topic.

If a girl is flying under the radar and a review is posted she has to request it be delisted - which in turn means she can't be listed in the future in most cases.  It's just the rules.

So, and gents please correct me if I'm looking at this the wrong way.  But I'd say if a girl doesn't have reviews I would check with her before posting one.

Me - I know mine are getting dated - I haven't been very active lately (I'm usually too tired after work to do anything but post here... LOL) but I'll be looking for some fresh reviews later this summer - if we ever get this renovation done!

Hugs,
TS Jamie

In general I think so.  There are a myriad of reasons a provider may not want to be reviewed and that is her perrogative.

On the other hand, her desire to not have reviews is trumped, in my opinion by a bad or unsafe experience that other potential clients need to be warned about.  Rip-off, robs, upsells, no service, etc are all resaons to disregard a providers no review request.

But for me, if there was nothing that others need to be seriously warned about, I will absolutely respect a no review policy.  But I need to be asked not to write a review, if I do not ask her myself after the session is over.

In general, a good review generates interest for a provider and helps her business, so if for whatever reason (not my business why) she doesn't want to be reviewed, I respect the request, absolutely.  With the caveate that there is nothing others need to be warned about.

Sometimes a provider and client don't click (yes even with delightful and charming me this can happen) and this is very much a YMMV endeavor.  That is understood and a YMMV thing does not constitute the need to "warn" others.  It would take a real breech for me to review a provider that does not wish one.