Straight men, how did (do) you get over your reluctance/fear in going to see a ts? It's odd for me because I am definitely straight, but my desires and fantasies to be with a sexy, seductive ts have gotten very strong. I know it's weird to say, but the cock intrigues me and I'm sure is a big reason for the attraction. I am super turned on by a feminine looking, busty ts. Those of you straight men that have seen a ts, have you ever shared your feelings with any one close to you? What did they say? Yeah, I know. A lot of questions and a lot of you are probably saying, just go for it, but I'm sure you were once right where I am in thought. Thanks for any insights you can give me.

Grow some balls and MEN up little by little because obviously you lack on that. We are in 2012 come out of the closet you puss.

just go for it but pay up for a high quality provider especially for first time that means with reviews don't chance it

Pretty uncalled for response by jamiethewild. What's up with that?

Thanks gargoyle! Appreciate the constructive feedback. Unlike the other responder.

Jamie is our wild child on the board...correct me if I'm wrong Jamie. She is a TS escort who happens to be straight. Realizing
That her youth and her looks have a monetary value she has turned to escorting because there's real money to be made there. But like your kid brother, or your son who's a jock she has that kind of boastful straight identity which includes contempt for fags. Around my house the phrase "that's gay" became a mantra at one point w my football maniac kid.
In this view your either straight, gay, or bi...simple categories. When I was a teenager whatever straight was I knew I wasn't. I experimented w a few guys and found that experience was a letdown...frankly boring. Then came the day when I
Saw an attractive TS walking down the street and I was just mesmerized ... Soon I was experimenting w that kind of sex.
I got very lucky and found someone, an escort, who was smoking hot, smart, funny and great in the sack. There's probably
Some moments for all of us who find ourselves in this situation when we doubt ourselves and feel like "wait a min am I
Gay" This is where Jamie jumps in and points the finger..."hell yeah your gay...you suck cock, your taking mine up the ass,
Man up and claim the category." Or laugh, and realize that categories don't matter any more. My advice is to find someone
You can really have fun w and stick w her for a while. Let the board know where you are and I'm sure some of the guys will be glad to jump in and help w a recommendation or two...and Jamie, you crack me up. I'm glad you're here.

I was confused and it was recently suggested to me by a provider when we held each other after an amazing session, that it could possibly be a a fantasy resulting from an encounter form our youbger years. I had a friend in elementary school that I used to "sword fight" with. I am happily married now, and clearly straight. After discovering Eros and the TS section and then finding this forum, I was immediately struck with almost uncontrollable desires that I have quenched many times. You are not weird, or strange, it's just something inside you, you have to decide if you want to explore. Good Luck.

I have always had an attraction to taller, and bigger women, back in the mid 80's I would watch GLOW
Gorgeous Ladies Of Wrestling and had a huge crush on a wrestler named Matilda The Hun who was around 6' 3" tall and about 275lbs. A few years later I was driving thru Manhattan and passed 14th Street and 9th avenue and saw some street walking girls who looked amazing but were just physically bigger than most women. I told a friend of mine about this and he told me they were all TS! Curiosity got the best of me and I had to start seeing these women. I guess another factor is that most TS try hard to be more passable and try so hard they actually look better than many women. I'm submissive by nature and the thought of being dominated by a tall, strong, aggressive TS is such a turn on. I have been seeing TS now for 23 years and have never done anything with a TS cock, but my attraction to physically bigger women drove me to TS. On a side note back in late 2010 by accident I actually got to meet Matilda The Hun and lo and behold she does sessions and I had an incredible 2 hour session where she totally dominated me.

Really appreciate the feedback, dopra!

Thanks! Love the support.

Appreciate the honesty and congrats on being able to live out your fantasy.

Interesting thread. My attraction started with being a huge fan of anal. Back in the day you "rented"
porn videos from your local adult video store and having been through the entire straight butt sex section I saw the TS section and said to myself.."Welp they gotta be taking it in the butt"...lol. The first
girl I ever saw was "Stasha" as a blonde, poolside in a bikini...And the rest as they say is history..!! Absolutely fell in love. Don't know why, never really cared to analyze it...Kim Devine, Olivia Love, Lisa Layer, Lisa Lawrence...they just floored me. So beautiful but with a cock. Never considered my "bi-sexual" because I'm not attracted to men. Not gay either for the same reason. So call me whatever you want...just don't call me late to meet Lola Malone when she's here on the 29th!! hehe...Thanx for listening...And to the guy that started the thread a word of advice...
 (NO!! Don't ever tell any of your friends about your proclivities...it's none of there f-in business

Dopra, your pretty much correct i am a straight woman however, am not a child i may be young but am NOT stupid. I been escorting for 3 yrs so i know men's ways. Most of you guys act completely like f*gs in bed with a touch of bitch moaning and all h*mo. Go around thinking in life we all are made to act like men in bed or we are this alien or something like the OP. Whats so scary talking about it or us ? Your not man enough to deal with your own shit? this OP is going to end like "*st*vens*wens".  We not monsters or aliens from another galaxy like  pluto or uranus, etc, we are WOMEN, were you scared with a g-women? My advice to the OP is grow some balls and deal with it, if am a woman with something bothering 90%of the time, i myself deal with my own shit and am independent and strong, so if i can do it so can he, specially when he's a man. I am not here to degrade you as people but to degrade your views/opinions about us and about generalization.


PS: Top Notch escorts are good actresses ....

I agree with the post of not sharing with friends
As to exploring this attraction, one idea that helped me was a female provider with a some toys and strap ons.  If you find sex with a pretty lady with a fake dick, it might make sense to take the next step to see.  Finding a one who is "passable" is a chore.  Reviews help a lot.
Good Luck.  It was a nervous first time for me to visit with an unknown lady.
Glad I did though

Interesting thought and idea. Thanks for that, billyg.

Jamie, I appreciate your candidness. Thanks for being real.

Thanks hrdrockr

You're not a "straight woman."  You're a gay guy who wears a costume to look like a woman.  Face it.  Embrace it.  Live it.  You're a gay man.

A little late on the post but I will offer my two cents.  I think this is a place where we have all been.  It all started for me when I was caught off guard by some random pics in a cheap mens mag that I couldn't take my eyes off.  Then I stumbled upon the ts section on Eros.  Then stumbled upon the Allanah Star website and that was it.  Allanah blew my mind and from there I was obsessed.  I finally decided to set up an encounter and it really freaked me out.  In hindsight it was probably not the best choice for my first but I was so nervous it probably wouldn't have mattered.  I did not bottom but had a cock in my mouth for the first time.  Afterwards I was really shook up.  I went thru the whole "am I gay now" feeling and literally threw up outside my car.  But it didn't end there. I was still mesmerized by the pictures and thoughts of these extremely hot women.  So Within a couple weeks I met up with a provider named Maizza in Chicago.  If you see her pic's on Eros she is amazing and looks just like her pics.  If being attracted to her makes me gay so be it but I defy any straight man to not admit how hot she is.  So we met and it was the best sex I ever had.  From there it has just been a fun adventure that I have come to find is not unusual at all.  

I think the obsession stems from not just how beautiful and sensual some of these women are but the taboo and naughtiness of it.  For me it was like discovering sex all over again.  It was like being a teen age virgin exploring the forbidden.  I am single so it hasn't affected my life but I would never discuss it with anyone.  Like most I truly do not feel as though I am gay or I would admit it.  I simply have no attraction to men whatsoever.  I only like passible feminine overly sexy ts so call it what you will.

One of the biggest rushes I have ever had was being daring enough to visit a ts club.  I always wondered where you meet these girls and I don't want to go to a gay bar.  But there are a few ts clubs around the country, Chicago used to have a good one. The Vegas lounge is another way to go.  But to do that really will put you on edge but it is awesome being around all those sexy girls.  

I hate to say it but if this ever became main stream it would probably become boring and not appeal to me

Awesome post saltlake! Thanks for that!

I had many of the same feelings when I first became attracted to Tgirls. I've never shared it with anyone else and never will. My progress was slow, I'd see a Tgirl, then a couple Ggirls, then a Tgirl and so on. I still enjoy Ggirls, I don't consider myself gay and I'm not attracted to guys at all. I've also reached a point where I prefer to see Tgirls who can both top and bottom. I'm a bit submissive, even with Ggirls, so I really want the Tgirl to top me if she is into it. That's an incredible turn on for me.

Be smart, go at your pace, see girls with good reviews. Life is short - no sense denying yourself.