Transsexual

Re: P411 vs private party
BigNation 22 Reviews 1030 reads
posted
1 / 14

So, I've found a one ore two TS provider ads through Date-Check, but haven't been able to search for them exclusively. But it doesn't seem like there're many there.

Do TS providers not post over there in general? I have a membership on that site, as well, but maybe I'm just not using the site correctly?

Is there a way to search Date-Check specifically for TS girls?

TSRachel See my TER Reviews 883 reads
posted
2 / 14

I am on date~Check, so I did a search for other TS and if you put TS in the NAME  box and name in the SORT by box, quite a few TS results appear...sadly most TS don't use a pre~screening site like Date~Check, Preferred~411 and RS2K...dfk, Rachel

Asian-Gee See my TER Reviews 840 reads
posted
3 / 14

when they gave me a link to fill out the form, they asked for my social security number, i was going to ask the board about that, if SS number was required, but then i ignored it because I don't want to share my SS number and the invitation has expired!

TSRachel See my TER Reviews 750 reads
posted
4 / 14

I have no memory of my SS nr being requested...send an email to my website and I will have them send you a referral to both sites...hugs, Rachel

Asian-Gee See my TER Reviews 698 reads
posted
5 / 14

Rachel, thank you, but I already deleted their emails, they said i would have an access to those website for 3 months, so I tried to fill it out until I stuck when I was asked for SS number, I was wondering why they would ask that, and then I forgot to ask the board, they actually sent me those invitation twice and I ignored all of them because i thought it was scam :(, I will definitely send you if I ever get another invitation :)

xoxo

TSRachel See my TER Reviews 605 reads
posted
6 / 14

no Gisela...I am already a member of those two pre~screening sites, as well as RS2K...I wanted to send you invites...hugs, Rachel

Asian-Gee See my TER Reviews 533 reads
posted
7 / 14
veronicacross See my TER Reviews 753 reads
posted
8 / 14

Hi BigNation, this is a great question, thanks for asking!

I am on, and use, Date-Check (and Preferred411) regularly. Like Rachel mentioned, just search for names containing "TS" and sort and there are quite a few of us. The good thing is I sincerely doubt you'll find any fakes on there, however there's not a ton of us, admittedly. There are most likely 2 reasons for this. 1. As Rachel said, unfortunately many TS providers don't pre-screen like most gg providers do--and that's a whole 'nother discussion in itself. 2. D-C (& P411 & RS2K) don't make it explicitly obvious to us trans gals that we're welcome to use their site--but actually we most certainly are. Personally, I like D-C & P411 and have met a lot of great guys through them with zero hassle.    

Happy hunting!
xo,
Veronica

Asian-Gee See my TER Reviews 666 reads
posted
9 / 14

It is unfortunate that most TS provider don't really pre-screen their clients, that's because we have less clients than GG, also it is very easy to pre-screen if you have an agency you work for who would do it for you, but since most of TS providers work independently, most of us do light screening and using our instinct, most of the time we could tell how nice or respectful the clients are by listening to them on the phone, the way they talk, the way they greet and also the way they writing an email. So far I have not missed my instinct even for the bad guy i've met in SF, I didn't listen to my instict.
People have different personalities, but they do have similar habits, and that's how I can tell :)
I really hope that I can maintain that!

For me, getting clients from Date-Check and Preferred411 is not guarantee they are trusted clients but rather safe since they have information there. In fact, I had few clients who have made appointments from those sites, they even gave me their username and number, after a few exchange emails, they did not show up to their appointment, not even cancellation, I'm not sure if they forgot or lost interest and decided to blew it off. But i usually let it go if they are pass the time where they had to call to confirmed!

I think Date-Check and Preferred411 is good for those hobbyist who want trusted providers. But most of them haven't put trust in TS providers that much!
I have read a few gentlemans on the board who were outrage by TS providers who asked for their complete information such as ID, etc, and also a gentleman who mention he would not mind to be pre-screen only by trusted provider which is make sense, and how many trusted providers out there in the field, less than GG.

But until the gentleman have respect for TS Providers who prefer to pre-screen, it is unlikely that most of TS would join any pre-screen site.
They still double standard TS providers I must say, and I saw lots of GG providers who blurr their faces in almost their ad's pictures, and they are still acceptable and Hobbyist don't mind to pay thousand of dollars, but if TS blurr their faces on their add, it's a red flag for Hobbyist, I said this base on the conversation I've read on different TS board!
Hopefully in the future, those who are interested in TS provider will be willing to be pre-screen.

Last but not least, the TS hobbyist hesitant to give their info to TS providers by nature, some of them still think TS and GG are not equal maybe until the society accept TS as a third gender or as woman itself... :)

xoxo

Posted By: veronicacross
Hi BigNation, this is a great question, thanks for asking!

I am on, and use, Date-Check (and Preferred411) regularly. Like Rachel mentioned, just search for names containing "TS" and sort and there are quite a few of us. The good thing is I sincerely doubt you'll find any fakes on there, however there's not a ton of us, admittedly. There are most likely 2 reasons for this. 1. As Rachel said, unfortunately many TS providers don't pre-screen like most gg providers do--and that's a whole 'nother discussion in itself. 2. D-C (& P411 & RS2K) don't make it explicitly obvious to us trans gals that we're welcome to use their site--but actually we most certainly are. Personally, I like D-C & P411 and have met a lot of great guys through them with zero hassle.    

Happy hunting!
xo,
Veronica

veronicacross See my TER Reviews 544 reads
posted
10 / 14

I agree with a lot of what you said. Date-Check and P411 are simply additional tools and helpful screening alternatives when meeting someone new. They are not magical nor are they perfect. Clearly, not everyone who signs up for DC or P411 will be the ideal guy. In the end, every girl, like you said, really has to trust her instincts and assess her comfort level when meeting new guys, based on the information she has. I think for all providers, trans and gg alike, the level of the bar varies--some set it high some low; it's their prerogative. Likewise, it's also the gentleman's prerogative on how much information he is willing to provide when meeting someone new. I think that's completely fine. If there are guys that don't like to provide info or references or anything, and girls who are ok with that, then that sounds like a pretty good match. I have my own requirements for seeing someone and I provide a lot of options for the guys that would like to see me to meet them and it hasn't been a problem. I really can't speak for what most trans providers do or don't do when they meet new clients; I simply don't have that information. However, I can say that it does make me a bit sad when I hear that some trans providers feel like they simply can't pre-screen, even if they would really prefer to. I was happy to respond to BigNation's post for two reasons: 1. to say that, yes, trans providers do belong to verifications sites like DC--where the providers are verified themselves. And 2. because there is a guy who's used a verification service--because he was ok with doing that, I'm guessing--and wanted to know if/where the trans girls are. In a sense, this situation is no different than the one I mentioned above: a guy who's willing to provide a certain amount of information, to meet the girl(s) he wants to, looking for girls who are ok with this. Good luck and stay safe out there!

xo,

Veronica


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Sancho2 13 Reviews 667 reads
posted
11 / 14

I use P-411, and have found that to be a pretty good service as far as providing an escort the info she needs to feel confident in booking a date with me. After you get at least two "OK's" from a provider you've seen, don't think ladies are too worried. Some members there have over 100 oks! The feature I like about it is that it gives the client an opportunity to describe what he likes, his fantasy date scenarios, and if the lady takes the time to read them, would really give her an edge as far as doing her homework and really being able to give that client a super experience. Too bad more ladies don't read that part unfortunately. I've specifically asked my last few GG dates to read the part about DFK, and it's surprising how few do.

Although I submitted all my info, real name, drivers license number, can't recall if I had to give my social security number, to P411, don't think I'd provide that info to an independent girl for screening. There's a big difference, imo, with providing that to a business whose job it is to verify that and giving it to a private party you have not met.

Finally, as far as the blurred faces go, think Giesla has a point, to some degree about a double standard for TS and GG's who blur there faces. It's one thing if they are doing that if they don't want to be recognized by family or friends, and another if they are just plain old ugly. :) My new rule is I don't see blurry face GG's, since the last one was plain old ugly. I don't see any TS lady unless she has some great reviews, one or two so so ones don't get it.

I'd be happy to provide my P411 info if asked by a TS lady for it, but I never have. Think TS ladies that provide a good service would benefit from belonging while the ones who use fake pictures would never even be accepted, but not sure if that's true.

BigNation 22 Reviews 507 reads
posted
12 / 14

Oh well, I fear the problem may exist between the keyboard and the chair here. Either that or there just aren't many TS girls listing themselves on D-C in my area. I search "TS" in the name field and sort by name but it only brings up women with "ts" in their name. This doesn't change even when I leave the region blank. I'll just have to keep looking elsewhere, I guess.

Thanks, though!

As an aside, I have fund t hat no my TER and my D-C membership have helped me to get rolling in the hobby where iSight have had trouble, otherwise, without references. I can't endorse these sites enough.

Ray Schalk 14 Reviews 1576 reads
posted
13 / 14

Any chance your coming to DC?

veronicacross See my TER Reviews 516 reads
posted
14 / 14

Thanks Ray! I am planing a tour for the summer, and DC is absolutely going to be on my itinerary; I'd love to see you see you when I swing through. (I'll be posting all my tour info here within the next few months.) And to further tantalize, I just got back from doing a shoot in Miami, and I'll post some new pics here soon too.

xo,

Veronica

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