SO i was wondering... If its okay to call your clients out of the blue... Meaning when your just at home bored, wanting to see them...

LIke i called one of my guys and he didnt answer....  SO idk i was curious to know why he didnt answer..

CULD HE HAVE BEEN BUSY OR WITH HIS WIFE??

Give me sum feedback people!!

If i were available to talk, i'd love it. by you calling me (whoever it would be) means that our time was as hot for you as it was for me and not just going through the motions. I've got one provider that i call when im horny. sometimes she answers, sometimes she doesn't. when she does, we usually have some quick phone sex, talking  about what we did to one another or what we're going to do. i think it's hot personally. But, i'm single and don't have anyone to answer too!

I would say only if you KNOW there is no risk of a wife or girlfriend answering the phone.  A text message would probably be better, just to "test the line"...easy to explain and/or easy to delete.

I don't think so considering I have been informed that a large majority of clients are married.  Also, many clients may utilize their cell phone as their work phone, so they may be working when you call and possibly have a coworker or customer/client with them.  

Think about it.  The client has a fancy car, he has a speaker phone in his car, he answers and you say "Hi Baby" and his wife is in the car.  Not a good idea.  Thats my take.

How was Inglewood? Did you stay there?

ask if its ok to contact them.  On a side note, I am not married, but I met a girl awhile back and about every three days, I get a text "Hola Papi, como estas".  Its my work phone so glad her english is limited

that can be pretty scary for a guy if he is attached.

that it wasn't me you called
Could be a million reasons he wouldn't answer - at work, at a loud restaurant/club with friends, etc...It is a sketchy thing, cause you're right he could be with his wife or who knows what.  As a general rule, guys are paying for it in many cases so they don't have to worry about the lady calling them or expecting anything beyond the hour or whatever they spent together.
That said, you can call me whenever you want!

...you both need to respect each others privacy...the hobbyist could lose everything if you called and the wifey picks up his phone...many providers have a stage name and many hobbyists have an alias(funny when they can't keep them straight), because they both desire a certain level of discretion...it is a different matter if the boundaries are mutually blurred by both parties, especially when he is single or has the ability to answer the phone at his own liberty or can be seen out about town with a woman who is not his wife...I personally would be furious if I was sitting home and a client called just because he's bored...isn't that what cable TV is for and would he call his dentist, doctor, lawyer, barber, or salesperson at Saks Fifth Avenue just because he's bored? I should pray not, because as a business professional time is money and hopefully he understands that...hugs, Rachel

No.  With rare exceptions.

Remember the reason a gentleman dates an escort instead of keeping a GF on the side is because when the date is over they want you to go away and not show up at work wanting to get married a week later.

Many gents have to keep their interests very quiet.  Also guys aren't very bright (LOL   and do dumb things like calling from their home or work phone.

An exception might be a close "regular" who has given permission.  When I was active I dated several gents who kind of moved to friend status.  We would often call each other just to chat, like with any friend.  The only difference was they had the class to take care of me.

So, NO, don't cold call former dates.  Also, don't keep people's phone numbers.  Ever hear of the DC Madam...

LOL,
TS Jamie

You summed it up pretty good Jamie.

Selena:

Good question, good responses.  As usual Jamie summed it up well.

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