I recently joined ER and find the forums very informative.  Although at times there seems to be a little male bashing, but that can be expected especially since I agree with most of the comments such as men thinking with the little head. No doubt women are from Venus and men are from Mars where there is nothing but pigs.  

In spite of the occasional male bashing I have decided to put myself out there and ask for some help.  First please understand my situation: My wife and I are swingers.  We have been in the lifestyle for over six years and truly enjoy the sexual freedom the lifestyle affords us.  With the professions we both have keeping our public life and our private life separate and discreet is extremely important to us.  Although we are a full-swap we are considered by most to be selective.  I have no doubt that is because the lifestyle is not a requirement for our relationship and we play when we are in the mood: We rarely play outside our circle of friends but have on occasion.  My wife is bi-sexual which always brings more to the table.

The thing is neither one of us are attracted to male bi-sexual play, but I do find myself attracted to beautiful TS women I see on the web, especially this site.  Since we occasionally have hall-passes my wife has given me permission to explore this side of my fantasy; here in is my dilemma.  For almost two years I have enjoyed watching videos of TS activity and have enjoyed masturbating to them.  I now wish to explore my fantasy in the flesh.

How do I do this?  Of course the simple answer is to make an appointment with one of the beautiful ladies on the site.  But I would like to find one that really will take her time with a true beginner/virgin.  I read all the reviews looking for that trait.  The problem is the men are writing the reviews.  I would love to see the woman write how she is with a beginner.   I don’t want to make a lot of phone calls and be taken as one who just calls.  How do I approach a TS with this request?  I am also concerned about STDs, but I know protection can help there.

Please help me and let me know how to find a TS who will take the time to really teach me what she has to offer.  I live in Palm Beach County but have no problem traveling 100 miles to have the right experience.

Thank you.

EddieBoy:

Oh my, there’s no male bashing here.  At least not without me getting in my share

More seriously, here’s an old thread you might want to check out:  

For Beginners – Who to See That First Time - Posted by TS Tempted, 12/7/2006
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=20924&boardID=19&page=

The list therein is a little dated and many more ladies have come to light that have excellent reputations with first timers, particularly in Florida which my list didn’t address at all at that time unfortunately.  Many first timers share your curiosity, nervousness and desire for a little patience and TLC with their first experience.  I suggest that you be up front about this in your contact with any potential provider.  Remember to phrase your comments/questions very discreetly as they get a lot of crank calls that are serious time wasters.  You will most probably be able to judge their suitability by their reaction to your contact.  You should also search this forum and the reviews more extensively as there have been many other great posts and reviews that address your question.

I can offer a couple of Florida suggestions since I put together the original First Timer list.  TS Kate from Miami has a great reputation with first timers on another review board and she may have a TER Profile by now but I haven’t checked:

TS Kate – Miami
http://www.miamitskate.com/

Some other highly rated ladies in Tampa might be good first time candidates but as always you should do your homework and come to your own conclusions:

TS Stacy – Tampa
http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=52451
http://www.erostranssexuals.com/tampa-files/ta-stacy63-stacy1.htm
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=26066&boardID=19&page=1

TS Nicole/Nikki – Tampa (not sure about a current ad/website)
http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=60784

TS Sidney - Tampa
http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=18388

Others may wish to comment on these ladies or provide additional suggestions.  

Most importantly please report back and let us know what you decide and how it all turns out.


Best of luck,


TS Tempted

Tempted,

Thank you so much for your response.  It really has helped.

Eddie