I’m happily married but have had fantasies for a long time.  So recently I finally bit the bullet and hooked up with a TS.  I sucked her cock and took it in the ass.  We used protection for everything, even oral.  I have to admit, I loved it (after the first minute or 2 it didn’t even hurt).  I would like to do this again (as crazy as it sounds to pay someone to fuck me in the ass) but am worried about the health risks and even more worried about bringing an infection home to my family that I love dearly.

1. Am I crazy for thinking about doing this again, maybe on a semi-regular basis, even with condoms?

2. Using a condom for a BJ took away all the enjoyment.  I've given BBBJ before (years ago, when I was single), and it felt amazing in my mouth and throat.  But with a condom, even flavored, it was no fun, it was like sucking on plastic.  Am I insane for thinking about giving BBBJ to a TS provider?

I love pussy but apparently I love cock, too.

I was in the closet and took a pic of you sucking dick. I sent it to your wife, hope thats ok?

Ha, Just Kidding.

I recently got tested at the free clinic because I had had unprotected oral four months ago, and MAN, nothin' like a week to wait.... and think about one's behavior...and wait some more.

Based on my experience, I'm really hoping that I never have to go through that panic/fear/self-recrimination again, so I'll always be playing it safe.   I urge you to do the same, as LATSDog and others urge us all to do.  It's just not worth it!

The best advice I can give is always use protection. I don't when sucking cock but I would never tell anyone it is safe. There is always going to be risk. I do get tested every three months. Public health where I live does this for $20.00. Includes treatment. I sure like the tast of a nice clean ass and cock.

2 great threads - one honest one fuckin funny - "suckin on plastic "  Classic line - feel the same way ! Ok now whose next ? Where r u Melissa ?

I hate to say it but the honest answer is that putting your wife at risk is unethical particularly if she isn't aware of your hobby life.

If you want to do the right thing you should be faithfull to your wife; or at the least tell her you want "date" transexuals and stay married.

Yes, this hobby has risks. Yes, translated french is not as much fun as untranslated. The more you are into it, and the more dates you have, the more the risk you will make risky choices.

Lot's of safe sex talk, and that is the best bet safety wise, but to be honest, there is a lot BBBJ going on both ways in this hobby, as well as other examples of unsafe sex practices. You think all of the great reviews you read about here are by the safety book?

Play safe by all means, and don't do this if you a happily married family man. That is thinking with the little head.

Joe Bloe offers sound advice.

I would only add that it is not unreasonable to assume that your wife has fantasies that you may not be aware of. Rather then trying to negotiate a "hall pass" from the little woman, perhaps an approach along the lines of discussing both of your secret fantasies and if she has an unsatisfied desire of spending time with another woman you have just pushed the door open a crack to start a discussion about her fulfilling her fantasy. If it were me, I might be inclined to download some pics of a few Special Girls your attracted to and see if she is attracted to any of them (obviously the initial photos should not include everything and be of Girls that are open to meeting couples). Once she makes her selection, you then share another more inclusive 5x8 glossy of the beautiful woman she was interested in, and based on her reaction, share a bit more about your interest in Special Girls and how you could both "have your cake and eat it too".

Disclosure Statement: Bear in mind, this is not without risk, as once you open that door, it will NEVER, EVER be fully closed and the seed of doubt will have been planted. If she is not game to fulfilling her fantasy, that seed just rolls around, just waiting for an opportunity to rear its ugly.

So, depending on your negotiation skills, it is a matter of time until you both agree to mutually fulfill your fantasies...or not.

Remember, the couple that plays together usually stays together.

On the other hand, if you go forward and continue to feed your fantasy solo without getting caught, over time, you increase the risk to your wife and the break up of the family you love so much. The odds are good that you will eventually skip or forget one of the fine details of the precautions necessary to keep your activities secret.  As we learned from Tiger, complacency leads to discovery.

As you are leaving divorce court, on your way to your "new" used single wide, you will reflect back on just how expensive those hours of of sexual bliss really were. I speak from first hand experience, as the practice of family law while very rewarding financially, was depressing as hell most of the time.

Keep your thinking on this subject above the belt line.