Wow! Like....wow! I .....I don't even know how to respond to that. I think you must be legally blind because your words do flatter me so!
Thank you so much!
Yeah...I really wish people in this world would just get over it already. Why does it matter to anyone what our own attractions are? Especially if they impact another person's life in no way, shape, or form.
You know, I've been incredibly lucky in this life, and especially lucky (and grateful) that I never had to endure what so many other trans folk have.
My friends and family accepted me, without question. When I first started my transition, 4 years ago, was working a VERY "manly" job. Most of my adult career was spent as a motorcycle tech (almost 10 years), then I moved on to working in a salvage yard (of all places), cutting vehicles in half, yanking out transmissions, engines, auto interiors, etc.
My bosses at that job all had my back, even convincing me to transition on the job (as I had planned to quit, start my transition, and find a new job as the new me) and going so far as to change the employee handbook to include gender expression.
I was floored!
The amount of support that I had was inspiring and overwhelmingly joyous.
I never got leered at (in a bad way), only got mis-gendered once when I was just starting out, and have never had to deal with the ridicule (except once, just recently in fact) that so many others have been exposed to.
If I were a believer in religion, I would say that I am certainly blessed.
When the world looks at us like that....with an understanding and empathetic eye, it allows us to shine as brightly as we can.
I simply don't understand why anyone would want to douse another's light, as if they were snuffing out a candle flame.
I wish that people could feel free to express themselves, whether it's attraction or showing their person, without fear of being ostracized by those who supposed "care".