okay, I need some advice. I'm not gay, but I'm totally attracted to the TS's I see on Eros and elsewhere, and I feel like I have the itch to let one of them "bend me over" ...  so to speak. Can someone let me know what it feels like to "take"it? Does it feel good? Are there receptors down there that send good feelings out? Will it be painful? What do I need to do to prepare? I'm in Texas, any suggestions for a not too big TS who will accamodate me?

Thanks.

Re: first time--the first of a few suggestions

Getting Ready......

Yay!  Now that you've decided to take the plunge, there are a few things to prep, especially for us versatiles and bottoms:

(1) Namely, your ass!  As a bottom, you definitely need to do an enema to be clean.  You won't get everything, but it'll be clean, AND have a clean scent.

(2) Shave.  I don't know if other girls like this, mind this, or find it repulsive (I would).  Shave your ass down there for a few days before--use baby powder to reduce inflammation.  However, it may not be any big deal to most girls.  But, shaving is way cleaner.

(3) If you don't already, start flossing your teeth on a daily basis.  On the day of your visit, don't floss unless your gums are healthy (i.e., no bleeding).

(4) Of course, bathe!  Wear comfortable clothes that make you feel sexy.

(5) Go very light on any cologne you might wear.  If it's a scent she doesn't like, it'll be too light to be a turn-off.  If it's a scent she likes, well, she'll have to get closer to enjoy it!  Some girls might prefer no cologne at all.  Why not ask her when you call?

(6) An unmarked envelope for tribute/donation.

(7) Be ON TIME.  If you're seeing a top-quality girl, then BE ON TIME.  It's o.k. to arrive early, but wait until 3-5 minutes before to make the 2nd phone call.  She is probably still getting ready.  If traffic is unexpectedly bad and will make you late, give her a call and tell her what is happening.

(8) Remember: you're on a date!  Treat her with respect, honesty, and lots and lots of passion!

There ya go, boy--now go have a good time and report back!

Here's a helpful link:

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=48417&boardID=19&page=1

If you let her "bend you over" so to speak, prepare for it to hurt like hell.  Unless you've practiced a lot with dildos, you will feel like you're being split in half.  I have experienced this about four times, and it still hurts.  The first time, I didn't know what I was getting into.  She said "do you want me to fuck you" and I thought, well, ok, and I lasted all of about 3 seconds to her disappointment.  My advice to you is that you buy a vibrator or a dildo that is roughly the size of a penis and see if you like the sensation.  Make sure you use a lot of lubricant because unlike a vagina which produces a natural lubricant an ass doesn't.  Also, make real sure she is wearing a condom.  Don't get caught up in the moment and do something you regret.

If you have the itch, then it is time to scratch it, yeah deeply....the cat gave good advice, maybe a little too good, but if you want to really know what to do, it is a good idea to learn how to get yourself clean with a water enema,a series of flushes until the water runs clean. A vaginal douche with a rubber bulb is the easy way and you can reuse it, then get a rubber dildo about seven inches long, lube it and ass with cream (KY jelly is good for beginers) or liquid, and practice inserting the dildo until you can take it all in, this will give you some idea of the sensation. A real cock in the ass is a little different, what does it feel like? well it is warm, it is self propelled and attached to a whole body that if breathing hot on your neck as the cock fills your ass and as it enters and exits it has a very nice feeling, sweet and tender and a bit of pain as it plunges deep. Some guys will cum when they are fucked for a long time but a beginmer might position himself so he or the provider can jerk him off while he is being butt fucked in order to truly have the whole experience. Believe me, a good fuck is fabulous, It won't make you gay but you will have a good idea how it feels to a woman when you give it to her. That will make you a better lover no matter whom you are fucking or being fucked by, Good luck, prepare yourself for a world of new experience.

Thanks to everyone who has given me some advice on taking the plunge, or perhaps receiving it. Is the better position for a first time on the bottom in mish (on my back)?

Good question---most providers, especially those with large cocks, will prefer that you take the on fours position which usually allows for an easy rear entry and then they will give it to you doggie style which permits their long cock to take your ass cushioning in stride and still have the inches left to penetrate.  
On your back with feet held back, with ass lifted is ideal for being jerked off while being fucked, here the one fucking you will hold you legs down, this position works well if the person fucking you has a shorter cock.
Fool around with the dildoe and you will find what works best. The two first positions are classics and work for most people, and are not too stressful unless the person fucking you is very powerful and then you will be knocked from all fours to flat out which is a nice close way to get fucked as well.
Some folks find it is romantic to fuck standing up, in the old sex clubs you could find a target standing up and fuck right there in the center of a room of people, this is very exciting but not as easy to cum, but keep at it if it is you style. Not too common however.

Straddling a cock as good way to go also, called sitting on it, as you can control the depth and time needed to stretch for penetration, and some guys have a hard time taking it in to quickly, but it can be hard on the back if you don't do it all the time, then again maybe you should.
Depending on how your ass is built, don't worry you will find the position you prefer.
Also, when you get the hang of it you can take a large cock with little warm up, a butt plug is a great way to loosen up before the penetration of a big cock. But if it hurts to much and you cannot relax, maybe you decide that it is not you cup of tea and that you should just act as a top or a cock sucker. Time will tell....

Didn't mean to send a flame. I was trying to make light of the post and all the discussion regarding "gay or not gay" when talking about our hobby. Wish you the best, everything thats been posted is right on.

Re: first time--the first of a few suggestions

Great advice. I had my first experience last week. I had done all those things to prepair. The experience was fantastic. This is also coming form someone that has never done this before. I am hooked. I just love the TS ladies.