In three weeks, my wife and I are finding ourselves in Vegas, and we decided to try and set up something special and fun, so we wanted to contact two well-reviewed, established TSs to set up a double date.

After the first email proposal, we heard nothing.  We waited a week, and resent the email (assuming it got lost or something).  This time one responded, saying she was excited to join, but she hadn't been able to talk with the second.  The second never replied, and then we noticed that she updated her BP ad, so we tried to contact her through their auto-contact form.  That was last Friday.

So here's my question.  Do we send a fourth email?  Try to contact her by phone?   We don't want to be a bother, but she really does excite us both, and that's something special.

The other alternative is to find a different playmate, but we tend to be a little picky on these things, especially when setting up something so different.

I've had the same thing happen many times early on.
I don't even bother now.
Plus, I want to get a vibe by talking to her.

Good luck....

very few will respond to an email unless they have already met you.

Like the others said; phone. I prefer e-mail as well, but they usually don't (probably due to anything they e-mail being used as evidence against them if a LE check fails). In fact, one popular woman in particular had a full application on her website for people to fill out, and when I did she didn't get back to me for weeks because she never checked her e-mail and preferred the phone.