I've been pushing myself to act on my fantasy of being with a TS.  I'm not sure how far I'm willing to go but I want the option of it being a vesatile experience as I think I want to be topped as well as top her.  I also want it to be with someone that understands the situation and respects the client in a relaxed atmosphere.

Question is, being a rookie, is someone like Lavinia too big for a first time to "take"?  I also like Bianka or Larizza.  I have always had the HOTS for Alexis but not too sure she's the right fit for a first time as some of her reviews are a bit "off" as far as how I imagine things going.  If someone can refute that with a recent experience I'd love to hear it!

Any reccomedations or advice on these providers?  I'd like it to be someone local so if I want to repeat I don't have to wait for them to come back to town

I look forward to your replies!

Thanks,

CiB

Just remember you have to be able to walk in the morning. What is the largest item you have had stuck up your ass? It the answer is never had anything except what comes out. I would pick someone that is not large around. Anyone should be able to take 9 inches if not big around. Be sure to tell her. She will be extra careful and give you sometime to get used to it. It may still hurt a litte but it will be a good feeling hurt. Have fun. Be safe. Oh be sure to clean yourself out before you go.

Re: first time--the first of a few suggestions

    Posted by tsCAT99, 10/11/2009 7:05:04 PM

Getting Ready......

Yay!  Now that you've decided to take the plunge, there are a few things to prep.

For Versatiles and Bottoms:

  (1) Namely, your ass!  As a bottom, you definitely need to do an enema to be clean.  You won't get everything, but it'll be clean, AND have a clean scent.

  (2) Shave.  I don't know if other girls like this, mind this, or find it repulsive (I would).  Shave your ass down there for a few days before--use baby powder to reduce inflammation.  However, it may not be any big deal to most girls.  But, shaving is way cleaner.

For Versatiles, Tops, and Bottoms:

  (3) If you don't already, start flossing your teeth on a daily basis.  On the day of your visit, don't floss unless your gums are healthy (i.e., no bleeding).

  (4) Of course, bathe!  Wear comfortable clothes that make you feel sexy.

  (5) Go very light on any cologne you might wear.  If it's a scent she doesn't like, it'll be too light to be a turn-off.  If it's a scent she likes, well, she'll have to get closer to enjoy it!  Some girls might prefer no cologne at all.  Why not ask her when you call?

  (6) A white, unmarked envelope for tribute/donation.

  (7) Be ON TIME.  If you're seeing a top-quality girl, then BE ON TIME.  It's o.k. to arrive early, but wait until 3-5 minutes before to make the 2nd phone call.  She is probably still getting ready.  If traffic is unexpectedly bad and will make you late, give her a call and tell her what is happening.

  (8) Remember: you're on a date!  Treat her with respect, honesty, and lots and lots of passion!

  (9) *** If she's not the girl in the pictures, run like hell!  Just turn around and get out the door before she can throw anything at you.  Just ask Dog about the pan on the head.  Seriously, fake providers are stealing from honest providers: please do you part to help keep the integrity of our hobby, and don't put up with fake pictures.

There ya go, boys--now go have a good time and report back!

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Thanks for the tips folks...I've had a gal use a strap-on on me before and it did take some getting use to, I'm familiar with the process to clean myself out in preperation.  Hopeing to find a patient provider or one that I can start with that's not too huge.  I'm a married guy so a dildo collection in my sock drawer to prep myself isn't really an option...

Still hoping to hear some feedback on providers in Boston that might be a good fit, pun intended

Thanks!

I've seen all 4 and would go with Bianka for a first experience she's pretty, nice, and versatile.