Posted By: hotsamantha4fun
Wow. I'm speechless. Well said and worthy of a George Carlin Rant Award, may he rest in peace. Awesome!!! lol
Carlin Ruled....
One more thing…
I overlooked this category because I have written about it previously, although I did allude to this with the initial “arrogant and toplofty” comment. I was being general in my initial rant, but this runs to more personal observations. That category is the “I’m so gorgeous I am allowed to be rude to you”/I’m so gorgeous I can promise to be there but am allowed to not show up without any warning or explanation” Types.
This is a pet peeve of mine, having encountered both last year (actually just a few months ago), but in the interest of being even handed, must say that there are way too many weasel-freaks out there wasting girls time with annoying juvenile phone pranks and being “no-shows” after an encounter has been planned. I am reasonable, and understand that girls can be a bit ticked off by such behavior, but unfortunately it comes with the territory, just don’t assume all callers are jerks from jump street. I say one should have enough skill to differentiate the Clowns from the Gentleman who call them fairly quickly and easily. There will always be a few con-men that slip through the net, again it comes with the territory, but generally speaking, the Clowns will reveal their stupidity pretty quickly.
Now on to the personal incidents regarding this category, short version…
One “famous” and very well reviewed girl had been oversold to me by a friend who raved about her pale delicate beauty and perfection. I sought to emulate his experience and attempted to contact this L.A. based beauty. Total disaster. Phone calls were made (Her standard line is “I don’t see everyone who calls me”). I was polite at all times and tried to accommodate her requests that were asked of me (actually demands, such as sending a photo of myself, a fatal mistake I later discovered). All I received for my efforts was having the phone hung up in my face without warning multiple times, unanswered emails, and general unwarranted rudeness. Hell, I was even willing to accommodate her wildly inflated rates (that arrogant & toplofty thing again). No dice. I was to find, after doing a bit of research, that I never stood a chance to begin with, due to her upbringing and apparent mindset. Despite being treated like less than dirt by her, my Gentlemanly code of honor keeps me from revealing her identity here. Just because she was a Bitch to me doesn’t mean I have to stoop to be a Bastard in response (But Oh, the temptation to just let it fly)…
As to the other L.A. based “famous blonde porn star”?: We had met before and all was hearts & flowers. Great communication, rapport, and drop-dead gorgeous to boot. Kept in regular contact by email since the first encounter, definite dream girl for me. Made me feel like the King, and confident enough to plan an encounter she fully agreed with and knew about. I made the arrangements, rented a “Boss” vehicle, and made the long drive to L.A. On arrival, I sent an email letting her know I had made it in town. Her response was positive for a meet later. I got cleaned up and put on my black Calvin Kline suit, gray shirt and blue silk tie in anticipation, ready for action. But…That was the last communication I received from her for the next 5 days I was in L.A., before I had to head back north to home. No rhyme or reason, no explanation. Shut her phone down the entire week, turned it back on when she knew I had left town. Emails ignored. Total disrespect. Expenses out of my pocket for that trip was a bit north of $2K, something a working man cannot afford to waste. This example may be the Mother of all flaky irresponsible “No-Shows” ever (!). How can one not be a tad cynical after such an experience?. I was left with no choice in the matter but to “eat it” and move on. My first major disillusionment. Despite the pain, again, my Gentlemanly code of honor keeps me from revealing her identity here.
(Song by Annie Lennox comes to mind: “Would I Lie to You”)…
The take home lesson here (at least for me), is to never again assume you will be welcomed, despite all the gentlemanly behavior and qualities, like other guys have been, who may be or most certainly were, of lesser quality than you are. I scanned a few of #1’s reviews, and know for a fact many of these guys she has entertained were, being polite here, Fucken’ Slugs not fit to shine my boots, but she had no problem accepting them, yet all I got was the 3rd degree & monkey business.
As for #2, lesson learned is to never again assume that a girl’s word is her bond. There is no code of honor on that side of the fence, apparently. If the situation had been reversed for an outcall, she/any girl would be howling like a Banshee about how F’d up guys are, no doubt about it(!). Double standard. There have been threads posted here about such, one of recent memory by Miss Melissa Carter, which I responded to. Well, I have another view on the subject, as you can see, with $2K and wasted time to back it up with.
Bad behavior Lies and Mendacity…There is really no excuse for it IMVVHO…
Oh well, sh*t happens. I feel fully justified in relating these incidents repeatedly until made whole and/or as cautionary tales for the uninitiated.
Note to Bella: You know who both these girls are. PM me for the 411 if you want specifics…
Bis Spader…
Wulfie
