do you make a provider wear a cover when your performing oral? what about when you recieve oral? im not talking about sex that is obvious,im talking oral.
uncleevan

i cant believe no would answer such a important question.this is a safety issue.cover of course meaning condom.
uncleevan

Occasionally we date guys who prefer a covered bj.  But I would say the majority of guys who play with t's prefer to give or recieve oral uncovered.

There is certainly nothing wrong with requesting a cover whether giving or receiving, and I keep a box of flavored condoms for just such situations!  I personally don't care one way or another and frankly when gent requests it I appreciate his concern for his SO, and me.

With the proliferation of drug resistant std's  it's becoming more of an issue.  I know a lot of gg's are going cbj only.  But for most ts's it's still bareback (oral only) or quit the biz.

Sigh,
TS Jamie

PS: I also think that while street workers run a higher risk of std's and hiv, that quality "call girl" type escorts are not much higher than regular girls run.  This is because (for us anyway, and I think for most other pros) the majority of the men who see us are married, many are fisrt timers, ets. who have had limited partners.  Which may be different from the guy who picks up street walkers who may have drug and needle sharing issues, etc.

So I feel for the time being that uncovered ORAL is still as safe as possible so long as resonable precautions are taken. (No floss cuts, canker sores, stomach ulcers, etc.)

-- Modified on 8/8/2007 9:44:06 PM

you have answered a very importand question and i appreciate it.i still cant believe not one poster was concerned with this very importand question.thank you again for havings the guts to answer
uncleevan

"the guts to answer"?
are you serious?
it's your dick and your life and your decision.
this is a provider and hobbyist board, my friend.
if you come here for MEDICAL advice, you are in for trouble.
there are SO many more authoritative websites available with a ten second google search i find it absurd that you follow up such a naive post with such an accusatory tone.
i would be insulted if i weren't so bemused by your pomposity.
oh, btw, i know some of you guys (and gals) ride bikes, so i was wondering - should i wear a helmet during short rides with no vehicular traffic or only when i might get mowed down by a semi on an interstate?
i hope someone is brave enough to answer!

i know of providers such as topaz who dont wear anything even during sex. i dont know for sure i read thos on the board,do a name search this has been brought up before which i think is a major concern if that happened to me i would walk out asap
uncleevan

"PS: I also think that while street workers run a higher risk of std's and hiv, that quality "call girl" type escorts are not much higher than regular girls run.  This is because (for us anyway, and I think for most other pros) the majority of the men who see us are married, many are fisrt timers, ets. who have had limited partners.  Which may be different from the guy who picks up street walkers who may have drug and needle sharing issues, etc."

Man are you naive!  Most of those married men see a range of Tgirls from streetwalkers to paper advertisers to eros providers.  Your risk is closer to street than you think.

I absolutely agree that some hobbyists see a range of girls.  But I'm pretty confident the majority (no, not all) of the guys my partner and I see are honest about their experience.

Most of our dates are professional, married first timers, seasoned high end hobbysits and the occasional regular.  There are a few who get around and are unsafe, and I end my exposure to them when I find out.

I'm no angel, would I be in this biz if I was?  There's nothing wrong with some raunchy car sex. I've done it before (love those rest areas...)

And there is a risk to being in this business, but I do believe it's considerably lower for a health concious professional who takes protective action and is selective of partners, than for a crackhead.

And I hope that I'm right... that's the best we can do. But is it better to live and love well and die young, or to live and die alone?

Have fun, play safe.

Hugs,
TS Jamie

thank you for your response.as you read the board there have been reports that providers such as topaz have tried bareback .you can find it when you hit search.anyway im glad you have adressed it ,it is very important issue thank you
uncleevan

first you ask a bunch of hobbiests and providers if you should suck dick without a condom and now you promise to walk out before you get bottomed bareback.
good for you.
thanks for sharing.
but how do you "know" Topaz "do(es)n't wear anything even during sex" any more than you "know" that any other provider *always* does?

because you  "read thos (sic) on the board"??
yikes.

how's this: i "know" that virtually every provider listed on TER has at some point in their life had intercourse without a condom. the only variables are how often and with whom.  

the only thing - the ONLY thing - you can control is which of them do what with you.

and the only way to be 100% safe is to stay home and jerk off.

then again, i read on a board somewhere that that will make you go blind.

interesting posts about this. but my comment is about what you said, in regards to "live and love well and die young, or live and die alone". in all honesty, tis better to live, period. therefore, if you so choose to be in this hobby, practice safe sex, and require that your partners do as well.

Car sex in Rest Areas?  Where do you live?  In what wilderness?  
I'm talking about raunchy car sex parked along a sidestreet in Hollywood...densest city in the west...fucking and sucking with a heightened awareness...really letting loose and enjoying the intensity of the sex...wild passionate sex...it happens...bareback even...high risk...no knowledge of each others' history but going for it regardless...in the considerable heat of the moment.
It happens, you know.
In many and varied venues.
Two days later, in the lair of an eros girl...a dumbass with money.
Danger?

great post hung 4 if you [proverbial you] are seeking advise along these lines ask a doctor or a health professional, wtf do we know about such an imortant health issue?? [you were a little hard on unclevan though  lol]

Rest areas, side streets - in the parking lot of a t-girl bar (which will remain unnamed).  Behind the counter of a jewlery store - don't even talk about the old days in Key West... should I go on...

Yeah I was a pretty bad girl.  But I didn't do such things very often, and I was really dumb.  And thank God I dodged the bullet.

Now that I'm older and wiser, and not high, and a professional provider I exercise restraint and responsibility.  It's my job to protect both myself, my lover and my clients.

Would I bareback if there was a vaccine for AIDS, Syphillis, Gonorreah, etc.  Sure in a minute.  There is nothing better - nothing that brings two people closer.

But right now there isn't - and those of us who enjoy multiple sex partners MUST play safe.

While the chance of std's is remote, it's still there and hiv will surely ruin your sex life.

Have fun, play safe,
TS Jamie