My thinking is this. If I know the provider is a proven, honest provider, with a large number of clients who have had good experiences, I will do a deposit. But a newbie with no track record, no way. If the provider has ever stood anybody up, and held the deposit pending rescheduling, no way. I would trust Naomi’s track record. But someone who has no reviews on TER, a new provider, no deposit.
As a trans provider who's fairly new and still gaining footing, I don't really screen clients, and thank God I haven't run into any trouble because of it. As I continue to elevate my brand, I feel compelled to screen as many high-end biological female escorts do, but I'm unsure if clients would be willing to provide RWI to trans escorts due to shame. For those of you who have seen your fair share of TS providers, what screening information did you provide or would you be willing to provide in the future? Thank you so much.
A face picture is it.
I've been asked, and provided one.
some providers are picky on ethnicity of clients they want to see. So a picture would be one method of screening.
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'As I continue to elevate my brand, I feel compelled to screen as many high-end biological female escorts do,'
So your starting out and already your comparing yourself to high end female escorts.
You must be something special. (don't mean that in a bad way)
Got a URL(s) for your ad(s)
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After seeing my picture I wouldn't suck my dick, even if I could,
even if you paid me,
which means for $200-300 a gurl is willing to suck the dick of an overweight mutant neanderthal troglodyte (me)
so much for the screening
So because I’m trans and starting out (5 months in), I shouldn’t be afforded the same security and safety that female providers are? And you did mean it in a bad way, just be real. The same way you meant to be snarky when you told me you wouldn’t see me unprovoked on my last discussion post.
The problem here is, she has no reviews. Asking for screening at this point will only deter most guys from seeing her.
As others have mentioned most guys are afraid of being doxxed or blackmailed. But I think a face time verification or sending a photo is fine by me. I usually send a couple of pictures of myself via Whats App. The pictures disappear after being viewed once. If the provider wants more, I don't mind getting on face time to verify I'm the guy in the pictures.
I don't like sending pictures via IMessage or email because the pics are there forever & I've been threatened before. A trans escort I've seen once got upset I didn't want to see her again & tried to blackmail me with the photos I had sent her previously. It seems like she was desperate for money, I sent her $100 but blocked her afterward.
I've had very few blackmail experiences overall but they're very scary then they happen.
Thats it
Is that just for trans escorts or all escorts you see?
All escorts. No need to try and play the victim game
If you want to play the victim game, this whole escort thing isnt for you.
I was just asking, not trying to play the victim.
Most trans providers I have met with don't screen or take deposits. I'd be willing to share screening information with a trans provider so long as they were reputable and proven and I really wanted to see them. However I think most gents don't like screening in general and it might be harder considering most of your competition is unlikely to have the same practices.
Most of us don't screen or ask for deposits because we know we'll get pushback and lose potential clients over it, which is completely unfair in my opinion. Screening info and deposits should be offered by the client without the provider even having to ask for them. If the provider doesn't require heavy screening or a deposit, that's totally fine, but I don't understand why clients feel like it's okay to just book us with zero security whatsoever. It's like we're expected to accept just anything because we're the scum of the Earth and should be grateful that a man even wants to be in our presence.
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get real, the idea of deposits has been done to death.
and I've never provided a picture without being asked.
after 5 years and 5'000 bj's you might start to understand what business you've chosen to be in.
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Ask for a picture of their stomachs
That way you can avoid fat overweight fucks like me squashing the life out of you when I'm on top.
Screening info and deposits should be offered by the client without the provider even having to ask for them. If the provider doesn't require heavy screening or a deposit, that's totally fine, but I don't understand why clients feel like it's okay to just book us with zero security whatsoever.
I react to all requests for screening the same way.
There is no answer that pleases everyone. When I text you for an appointment, you have my number. I identify myself by my TER name, so you can see my track record, and I may give you a picture.
In my case, that’s all you need. I won’t ever give a lot of personal information for my security. Too many bad people out there.
I don’t treat trans providers differently from anyone. We clients are taking a risk, too. If you are the girl I remember seeing in your ad lately, my best wishes in your new business.. There is something very attractive about you. Given a GFE attitude, you should do well.
There are apps that let you look up client phone numbers and emails which is much less confrontational than asking for screening outright. Regarding deposits don't let any of the men bully you into thinking you can't set a standard. There are plenty of men willing to pay deposits as long as they aren't ridiculous but I would also say ALWAYS be honorable and if you must cancel for whatever reason be willing to send that deposit back. Over time as you gain more reviews you will find men's willingness to send deposit/make exceptions increase because they know what they're getting. Also, for my incall I do a two step process. I will send the street corner and after you take a picture of the street corner I will send the exact address. Helps avoid having your address out there. Location collectors exist and are dangerous.
My thinking is this. If I know the provider is a proven, honest provider, with a large number of clients who have had good experiences, I will do a deposit. But a newbie with no track record, no way. If the provider has ever stood anybody up, and held the deposit pending rescheduling, no way. I would trust Naomi’s track record. But someone who has no reviews on TER, a new provider, no deposit.
I get it and if I were a client I’d probably think the same way. I do think for trans women the deposit process has other factors that need to be considered. These days if I’m topping and it’s a location I’m staying at I will often see a client without deposit but for me a deposit is mandatory if either I’m being asked to bottom or it’s a late night session. Nothing worse than preparing to bottom for no reason or staying up late for someone who plays with your time.
It just seems to be not that much of "A Thing" among the trans ladies.
I've seen only a very few ads asking about screening, and none of those have yet been sufficiently of interest for me to want to consider moving forward.
I can sympathize with a desire to get some extra security, but depending upon what types of "screening information" is requested, I can well imagine lots of potential clients saying, "Nope. Next ..."
What seemed pervasive in the cis woman world was things along the lines of, "Send me the names and numbers of two providers who will vouch for you OR some sort of personal information like a work business card, I even remember one manager of a quite well known porn star asking for a picture of my driver's license.
I've not seen much of (or perhaps any of) the whole "2 provider references" thing in the Trans World. IDK why!
I hear you. I know of a small handful who screen in the same sense that bio female providers do, but they’re very high end and have entered a sphere that most trans women won’t for whatever reason.