My girlfriend and I would love to watch a TS masturbate, and my girlfriend would like to watch me stroke the TS a bit. My girlfriend doesn't want to participate, and she and i are willing to get off, or not get off, during the session (whatever makes the provider comfortable). We've been unable to find a provider that is comfortable with this situation. Can anyone recommend a provider, or give some advice on how to satisfy this fantasy?
Any info will be greatly appreciated.

sarabiggies:

While it is somewhat difficult to search for your specific requirements using TER’s review search function, Eros is another matter.  A search on both key words “women” and “couples” yields seven ads that offer both of these services.  A search on “couples” alone yields 20 ads.  After a quick perusal I offer you seven links below that may fulfill your requirements:

http://www.erostranssexuals.com/new_york-files/dc-victoria102.htm
http://www.erostranssexuals.com/new_york-files/la-lisa20.htm
http://www.erostranssexuals.com/new_york-files/ny-getfierce1-lauri1.htm
http://www.erostranssexuals.com/new_york-files/ny-latinas1-shantell1.htm
http://www.erostranssexuals.com/new_york-files/ny-lolly5-lolly1.htm
http://www.erostranssexuals.com/new_york-files/ny-mandi9.htm
http://www.erostranssexuals.com/new_york-files/ny-mich1-tina1.htm
http://www.erostranssexuals.com/new_york-files/to-jade72.htm

This in NOT a recommendation for ANY of the above (links are listed in alphabetical order).  I do know that some of these providers are well reviewed here on TER – you must do your own research and take your own decision.  There is also no substitute for clearly and discreetly communicating your preferences to your chosen provider.

Perhaps others with specific knowledge of New York will chime in with more specific recommendations.  

Maybe someone who knows the TER search function well can clue us in on a way to conduct this type of specific search here on TER.

Good luck,

TS Tempted

-- Modified on 11/16/2006 8:28:17 AM

thanks for the help. i've called a few women with ads indicating they will see couples, but, then, when i ask, they are not interested in it. i will keep at it, though.

Isnt it funny how provider ads (GG and TS) often say the provider likes to see women and couples but she really doesnt?  

What you are really looking for is a TS provider who treats her clients like human beings and not just ATM machines.  Good luck in NY; I havent found that person yet.  Rachel from Chicago is wonderful but I do not think she sees couples.  There's a spectacular looking young (TS) woman in Toronto named Lucy whose site says she sees couples.  Good luck.

-- Modified on 11/17/2006 8:07:54 AM

sarabiggies:

Keep at it, I am sure persistence and patience will pay off.  A search for couples is probably less on point that searching for TS who will see women.  As I said, my search yielded only seven out of 174 TS/TV listings on Eros in NY that will entertain both women and couples – I’d concentrate on those (but I am sure that you already have).  

[I am sure I will get flamed for this next paragraph but here goes anyway.]  I probably don’t need to tell you this but IMHO the essence of TS are that they are basically and in reality women (even though they may be ‘packing’).  As a result the vast majority are going to have a strong attraction to men.  That part seems fairly simple but, at the risk of opening the ‘I am not gay’ debate again, I think this also explains why so many men are attracted to TS (whether they are willing to admit it or not).  The human brain is fundamentally wired for attraction to the opposite sex or else the species wouldn’t propagate – a TS therefore is the ‘opposite’ sex to men so both their brains are getting that part right.  Admittedly it gets a little more complicated (interesting) with TS, particularly after that initial spark of attraction.  So remember, basically you want to meet a lesbian TS or a TS that retains enough of their masculinity to still have a strong attraction for women – complications compounding complications.

Unfortunately I think TS escorts get much more than their fair share of bogus inquiries – they are either too explicit, therefore inappropriate and should be ignored, or fall into one of those “Great Pretender” categories of someone who will probably not follow through and is therefore wasting their time.  Perhaps you are inadvertently stepping into one of the cues that your inquiry is not serious.  One more suggestion might be to figure out how to get a personal referral to someone so that they will know that your request is both legitimate and sincere.  Maybe the reference from a source you both have in common will keep your inquiry from falling into one of the ‘bogus’ categories and being turned down out of hand.

Alternatively you might also search for porn star TS.  Obviously many of these may have performed with female co-stars.  A search on Eros yields nine possibilities currently in NY – a few do stress men-only but even after excluding these several possibilities still remain.

You have an intriguing problem.  Again, best of luck and take care,

TS Tempted

-- Modified on 11/17/2006 8:58:49 AM

My limited experience is that TS providers are  more oriented to guys and JUST guys than GG providers.  Even more so when you find the rare TS provider who really connects on a GFE level with her clients.  Not sure where that leaves sarabiggies.  Maybe he and his wife should just see one of the more uninhibited GG providers  and just let her attack him and his wife with a strapon.  (LOL)

TS Alter Ego:

I am getting a little off topic here but I have an interesting observation.  We have each interpreted sarabiggies posts very differently.  I read the initial post to be from a female (sara) with a girlfriend, i.e. a lesbian couple.  I re-read the post to be sure and realized that, a lot like this forum, it could go either way (sorry couldn’t resist that one), but went with my first impression.  I got a big kick out of your post with the POV that sarabiggies was looking for a TS that would see a M/F couple – maybe you’re right.  Unless sarabiggies chooses to clarify for us I guess we’ll never really know either that or how things turned out…

Take care,

TS Tempted

I'm even less surprised that she's having difficulty finding a TS interested in her and her girlfriend.  Although in today's transgender and crossgender world, there's probably someone for everyone.  Or there should be!

-- Modified on 11/20/2006 10:58:42 AM

Do you have any racial preferences or non preferences?

Do you care to have a "top" girl or more of a "bottom" girl?

Do you want a girl who is "cut", "uncut", or do you not care.


Those are 3 questions that would be pertinent to me.  So if you can answer that would be great.  Also, if you can think of anything else, feel free to tell, as I may have a friend for you.  Thanks.

I too just re-read and sarabiggies could in fact be a woman.  So if so, then a F+F+TS encounter is what the OP is looking for.  Nothing wrong with that, but  for the TS that probably isn't trivial information and not something the OP should have failed to disclose in the first place considering she (if she's a she) wants a solid recommendation.

Sarabiggies, you need to come forth with more info please.  Thanks.

Sorry for the tardy reply. i am a man, and my girlfriend and i are both looking (together) to see a ts. race is less important than femininity, top/bottom doesn't matter as long as we can watch her masturbate (would love to see her cum).