when you see ads where visiting escorts come into town for one day (or two day) visit, would that worry you, if you're very interested in seeing her?
i've never been fond of those quick in-out visits.
i always wonder if that visiting girl wants a quick buck and could rush you out. If that girl is really popular,i would wonder if there's going to likely be a heavy load of clients and could interfere with your hopeful "non-rushed" time in seeing her.

Similar to a one day sale, many providers do this in hopes a few tire kickers might set up a session vs. procrastinate thinking they have all week to meet up, for example.

The psychology of escorting is so damned perverse sometimes . . .  

I once had a provider tell me (and I 100% believe this to be true) that multiple days in the same city had diminishing returns.  In other words, most of the hobbyists wanted to see her on the first day of the visit and there was a huge drop-off in clients on the second and third day, and no amount of advertising would change that.  Reason being . . .?  She was convinced that hobbyists viewed her as more "virginal" or "unsoiled" on her first day in a new city.  I get that no one likes sloppy seconds and I can see the appeal of getting there first, but, seriously, guys . . . let's not kid ourselves.  

I bet it drops off too.  I hate is when my girls cheat on me

There are lots of sad stories that girls cannot continue their tour since there is not enough demand on her.
Tgirls are for the minority.  Those who like and adore us, I would say is about 10%, 20% at top, depending on the country, culture, upbringing and race, though 50% of guys do not mind to fuck us, but those who are really willing to spend money on us is definitely rare.

In other words, most of us are actually not as busy as you guys think.

So not too worry, just make sure that you do your research before seeing a particular girl, and TELL THEM what you want in a session and ASK HER wether or she is WILLING AND ABLE to do so.  One last thing, ASK HER what is the best time to visit her in order to fulfill your fantasy 100%.

People think, if they want me to cum, they have to be my 1st client.  
 Is it true?  Not really.
In the morning, i'm still sleepy and a little tired, especially for those who want to see at 6 or 7 am before going to their office.

So instead of assuming, it's best to ask the girl right away, to ensure that she delivers what you want.
So go back to my example, if you want me to cum for you, tell me in ADVANCE so i can "save" it for you.

my 2 cents,

Tia Phoenixx

that;s true that those "naive" guys tend to see us on the first day.  
But the clever and more experienced ones know that we are a little tired on the first day, and prefer the last day instead

I seem to see this happening with GG and TS where an ad may be listed at the same time in 2-3 nearby cities (each within ~100-200 miles) but she obviously isn't in all at the same time (for same dates). I inquire and get an email that they are in the other city and "maybe" to the city I am inquiring about later.  I feel (in some cases) this is dishonest.    And then there are others that have ads without dates, so you assume they are in town but they email to say they will be there later. Well then post the dates!

Tia - you are thoughful.... so many ads instigate questions because they are so vague...(e.g., the discussions of "VIP" that have occured here).  Nice to know one may be a little forward in asking specifics (though with your reputation, it may not be needed). I do not think how many gals know how they lose clients (potential) clients due to the vague ads and inadequate responses to questions (generated by those vague ads).  

thanks, I appreciate those who can see my effort and my hard to raise the bar in this industry.
Most people think we are just a cheap, stupid whore wh try to get easy money and kick our clients as soon as possible.

That is definitely not the case for some of us professional providers.

Realizing that escorting is a tough profession, I'm here to be as professional and as "open" as possible with regards to my service in order to make you guys happy if not delighted.

I think that's my secret of longevity in this profession because i fully realize that escorting is indeed a service oriented profession, and clients's satisfaction is definitely one of top my priority

An example why Tia is the best there is -she's smart enough 2 know both parties need 2 b satisfied & happy always tryin 2 better the experience never assumes anything just strives 2 make u wanna crave her more & more - I know that's how I feel & no games no tricks - meanwhile she's hotter than ever & boy can she CUM lol Thought more prov would respond 2 this post  

I know for a fact that you can cum nearly continuously...3 times for you in 30 min before I got my one!!! Don't mind me though, I'm just jealous  But you are dead on about being clear with what you do and don't want with a provider...if this was done more often there'd be a lot less disappointment I think. Then again not all providers are as honest and upfront as you and a couple others I've had the pleasure of meeting

You made blush.  Yes, i'm a squirter lol.
I told you, you should write a review of me, simply because you like to top and i love being a bottom as well. I need more promotion with regards to me as being a great bottom!
I'm a girl at heart you know....of course I like to be screwed too.

Anyway, top or bottom...I can be both! I'm indeed a very sexual being (but yet a great companion too)

cheers
Tia

Best is very relative my dear friend.  I might be 10 for you, but 7 for others. But thanks anyway.

Anyway, back to the original topic:
In other to create a great session, I think both a provider and a client have to work it out.
For a client, it is crucial to do some research to find out his best match.  Once he finds her out, it is extremely important exactly to TELL what his expectation in order to avoid disappointment.

And as a provider, it is important for us, trying our best to fulfill the expectation within limits.
within limits simply means we don;t want to do things that is not our cup of tea or things that we dislike doing so.

If we both do that, i'm sure it will be more and more great  satisfaction for BOTH and  the market will be better and more "positive"...and FINALLY, hopefully the federal gov. decriminalize escorting in the states.

==happy ending==

quote]An example why Tia is the best there is -she's smart enough 2 know both parties need 2 b satisfied & happy always tryin 2 better the experience never assumes anything just strives 2 make u wanna crave her more & more - I know that's how I feel & no games no tricks - meanwhile she's hotter than ever & boy can she CUM lol Thought more prov would respond 2 this post