I know it's not a popular option, and I'd prefer not to get lectured, but I would be willing to travel and would certainly tip grandly if I could find a cute t-girl who likes to give loads. Any info would be very appreciated.

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ten secs of pleasure is not worth death.  get some sense knocked into that skull.

Really sweetie - that's a really bad idea unless you either have a death wish or absolutely know the background of your partner.

Meaning a history of clean tests.

But sadly there are a lot of girls who will top bareback. Which is why there is a saying "50/30" - by age 30, 50% of TS girls will be dead.

Sigh,
TS Jamie  

(PS I do bareback porn - but it's with tested partners - check out our videos!)

And who are the omnipotent, 'they' that fed you them?  10%+ of the population can't even contract HIV due to immune cell receptor mutations and state of the art transcription inhibitors can keep a large percentage of the infected AIDS free.  The transfer rate of HIV does not even come close to 100% (one shot, one infection) and I would highly doubt it surpases 15%, though this I do not know.  Currently potential vaccines are being designed to immunze humans from this dreaded affliction, while these doomsday oracles read the tarrot.

50/30 is TS lingo, not a literal statistic or science fact. Even the Houston Tgirls I knew would say 50/30 alot. Its a saying to remind themselves and anyone else thats in listening range about the consequences of unprotected sex. Not to be takin "literally" but just to be advised and play safe. At a certain point years ago it seemed many Tgirls were dying off too young. I have known a few who have died already and it is heartbreaking. And they did not reach 30, my friend.  It is a question they ask themselves. Do I want to live to be 30? One we all should be asking ourselves too. Just how long do you want to live?  The actual numbers and ratios are not important. The message of safe sex practice is. Understand the message Grasshopper!!!

As stated by you, they are a fabrication.  They are an attempt to trivialize a life and death illness by inventing a slogan with no basis in reality.  

I think truthful data works better for the thinking person.  Only a thinking person is going to consider the consequence of their actions.  Unfortunately some people are unthinking and neither approach works for them.  Slogans usually appeal to someone already of like mindset to the goal of the slogan.  The purpose of a slogan is to eliminate thought, not stimulate it.  That's why they sound catchy and are easy to remember.  It is like a jingle in a commercial.  The jingle in the commercial is not there to get you to weigh the facts about a product, it is there to get you to obsess about the product and I would hypothesize that it would only increase the barebacking behavior by further stimulating obsessive though about your compulsion to bareback.  At best the effect is nil.

Once again I am amazed that on a forum where just about everything is dealt with in a "whatever floats your boat" vein, the mere mention of bareback sex brings out such vituperation.  C'mon folks, we are all adults here and all make our own decisions.  Bareback should be a personal decision and not the cause for finger wagging.

Well yeah the effect is nil on those who decide to BB anyways and those who have passed away. For the rest of us, nothing wrong with a reminder no matter how that reminder is brought before us. So would a slogan/jingle keep me reminded? Maybe, maybe not. Its the thought in this case that counts. Some need slogans/jingles to function. Others may not. Comes down to how does a cliche bcome a cliche basically. Bottom line is I am in favor for anything if it keeps one person from making a life threatening decision. Even a slogan or a jingle.

Getting better , Grasshopper! Proud of you!!

Ummm sorta! It is a personal decision anyways. The problem with the BBing mentality is this. Once a provider is known for BBing and a few hobbyists can and will verify it, there could be a flow of traffic her way by those who want to secretly go in that direction.  Now say you BBed with a young lady and then I come in the next hour or two to see her to for the same purpose. Then later that evening She gets a call from JimBob. Now shes BBed 3 of us in a days time. A couple months later we all are not feeling quite spiffy and we get checked. We find out some very bad news! So do we come to this board and raise hell cuz we got BBed and infected? Do we stay silent and continue looking for BBing? Do we bang our wives and girlfriends afterwards? I sure hope not.

It starts with information. Then it goes to fighting off that urge. I was BBed 9 years ago. Honestly, I should not have. I got caught up in the passion with someone I liked being with and vice versa. It sounded fun and it felt awesome to feel it actually happen. But lets keep our heads on us here. I got lucky, I have been tested many many times since then and I am clean. But here is my point from a dice throwing perspective. Eventually we all crap out on a dice table if we choose to throw them. Just as it's bound to happen when BBing that we are with the wrong person that 1 more time and its history for yourself and possibly for anyone you sleep with afterwards. One more dice throw won't hurt!!! Right? Wrong!! I can see where getting Barebacked can be addicting very fast.

Part of me agrees to master list BBers and another part of me says thats a horrendous idea. But I have to say, if it were not for human nature to be sneaky and want to experience BBing just once it would not be an issue. But we all know that urge to try it will eventually overwhelm someone and I rather not be the person giving out that kind of information. I am afraid people will seek BBers on the downlow and this site would be that information source to get someone infected. Bad enough the allegations of some providers is on here because once its mentioned, I promise you someone has already been too curious and has called one of these allegeds in hopes of being barebacked. Not going to lie, when I read one on here that Topaz tried BBing someone it piqued my curiousity tremendously. But I know better to put myself in that situation ever again. Trust me, the urge exists even in myself.

All said, my vote would have to be a NO. We should not have that feature listed. I see the point of both sides of why or why not list that information but for better judgement I hope people understand my logic.

Sylynce agian you are right on.

In an escort setting playing BB is just asking to catch something.  Yes the transmission rate of HIV is very low, it is a very delicate virus.

But IT ONLY TAKES ONCE.

As providers we take the risk of some ancillary infection, but we take all the precautions possible and hope for the best - and that's why you pay us well, because even without knowing, you might kill us.

Sure I miss the old days of bareback sex, I think everyone does.  The intimacy of exchanging fluids makes sex different, at least it does for me.

But we simply can't do it these days without taking serious precautions.  And in a causal sex environment the parties have no assurance of the outside activities of the other.

And I assume the guy who wants to bareback is single, because as nasty a whore as I can be at times, anyone risking their wife's life as well as their own needs to seriously examine their motives.

So let's hope for a vaccine or at least readily available accurate rapid test kits.

Have fun, play safe - and if you don't please don't date me.  

Hugs,
TS Jamie