The only regrets that I have are things that I had an opportunity to do, but didn't. I don't recall ever thinking to myself, "Well, that was a bad idea," or "I wish I wouldn't have done that." Now there have been occasions where the trans girl I was with was too large for me and we just found other ways to accommodate each other, so I still wouldn't have those thoughts on my way home. For me, when I bottom with a trans girl the level of intimacy seems to be much more intense than when I'm with a cis girl. Just having her inside me is a completely different emotional sensation than me being inside her.
I've been seeing some tops trans that absolutely destroy the bottoms and a part of me finds it really hot I've never bottomed before and a part of me really doesn't want to do in fear of I would want more, typically the thought you can't miss what you never had. My question to the community to those who bottomed did you guys regret it? Did it get to a moment of clarity for you like damn I wish I never opened that door cause now I can't stop. I'm really 70/30 70 not wanting to bottom but 30 I'm open to it a little bit.
Sounds like you could be talking about potential sex addiction (no judgment) which is an entirely different topic. I like bottoming because I can “top” any time I want without having to fork over roses. I like the power exchange and the physical sensation obviously. If it was cheaper or around the same price I’d also do this with cis providers who peg, but that is significantly more expensive and a lot want you to bring your own strap on as well.
As for my early bottoming adventures, the only things I regret are not doing enough research beforehand to properly enjoy it, and not taking into consideration the “size” of the girls. If you are interested learn how to properly prepare (more than just cleaning out, stretching too) and don’t go for the hung/dominant girls right out of the gate. If you go into your first bottoming experience with what you just described you will likely not enjoy it and could potentially even hurt yourself.
Yea I would say sex addiction is definitely a struggle for me, I typically don't do nothing for about a month or so till I get the itch to have a great release and when I do it definitely reignites the desire to have fun again in the following week or 2 until I fight the urge off but I'm single no kids no responsibility it's kind of a fun thing for me but then always a trap of addiction like you said the bottom part I guess is just the curiosity of reading reviews from others about the feeling they get from it
I love it. I’m heterosexual but giving in and being fucked by a TS is a turn on for me. My O is fantastic and the afterglow is excellent. The girl I see regularly also has an O. Nothing better.
Any chance you might want to refer us to your girl? Sharing is caring you know!!
Technically, the first time I "bottomed" was with a GG who was INTENSELY kinky, with a shit ton of ropes, gadgets, all sorts of equipment (TER: 138109 - I'm reasonably sure she's long retired) and when she mentioned "strapon" I kind of said, "Ummm ... okay, I'll TRY it" and it was indeed an intense experience, but I didn't think I was going to repeat it. (I saw her again some months later, but kept it as a strictly GFE type encounter, and she was truly lovely at that.)
But the whole pegging experience lingered in my mind. Sometime some months or years after that, I stumbled into some porn video of some fine TS lady stroking her cock - that was all, just a brief clip of some well endowed lady stroking a hardon, and it had me utterly fascinated. The lingering thoughts slowly turned into obsession.
When I finally did get a woman with a big hard cock to do me it was yet again more of a freaky experience than one of sexual pleasure. I walked/drove away from that encounter thinking, "Holy Shit! What did I just DO???" (I think maybe I would have just "liked" it more had she been of average endowment, and this gal was pretty aggressive - she clearly liked to fuck!)
But it had me hooked. Gradually, I started seeing fewer and fewer GGs and more and more Trans ladies. As time has gone on, I've shifted from versatility toward being 98% bottom. Part of that is encroaching elderliness with attendant borderline ED and impotence, but also, I like the lady I'm paying to put in most of the work ☺.
Any chance you might want to let us know who your regular lady is? Sharing is caring you know!!
The only time ive had any regret is way back before the prep came around. Always was super worried condom would leak or something of that sort.
If there is something in life you want to do, do it. No sense in living vicariously if you dont have to.
Addiction is only for the weak willed. If you want to stop, you will.
As Voltaire said “Once a philosopher, twice a pervert”. You get a pass on anything the first time if it’s done in pursuit of knowledge….
A resounding HELL NO, about bottoming. I don’t regret it at all. It’s so fucking awesome.
Voltaire was a subtle insightful rebel. Another memorable one I heard, though not attributable to Voltaire --- "It's kinky only the first time to do it."
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Want one attributable to Voltaire? ... OK here's one that's still relevant today about religion --- "Those who can be persuaded to believe absurdities can be compelled to commit atrocities."
Take the time to learn the terminology... "do you regret being bottomed" should read; "do you regret being topped", or "do you regret bottoming"? To ask "do you regret being bottomed" is asking if they regret topping someone who bottomed for them. By learning the terminology you will less likely cause confusion if you decide to pull the trigger. If you've never had a girl friend finger you or use a toy on you and massage your prostate, you may also want to learn the pleasures that can be obtained via the prostate... Lastly, the thought you can't miss what you never had, is not accurate, Freud said we all covet what we see... Good luck!
... though literally opposite. Sorta like "I couldn't care less." ... "I could care less." Posts ate often syntax FUBAR. You have to read between the lines and even then you're not sure sometimes.
Honestly, everytime I tell myself “last time” but eventually find my self craving it then making the same choices. The girl (s) I usually see are amazing even though I only go once a year or so now days. In the mean time I usually just go to parlors for cis services.
We all say, “this is the last time.”
Pervert, addict or just having fun who gives a shit? As long as you can afford this hobby go for it. If you start using you rent money to have sex then seek counseling.
Or get a cheaper apartment! Lol
Zero regrets. When I first mustered up the nerve to see a TS provider it was because I was very aroused at Trans porn especially with the submissive aspect. I’m more dominant in my daily life and with women so being able to just submit was very intriguing. Thankfully I picked an experienced top, big cock too which was interesting, and she broke me in properly. Now I love it. I rarely see female providers and almost exclusively cough over roses to bottom hung TS ladies. Love it
I would have to say this is something I resonate with on the dominant side that I'm side 90 percent of my days dominant it was nice to experience some dominant ts times
I don't regret my experience being topped, but I've only experienced it twice. My main regret is that my life circumstances made seeking out that experience and others complicated so I have not been able to indulge my desires much. Well, things have changed and I'll hopefully slut it up this spring.
After the first time I was topped, I did not regret it but I definitely had mixed emotions about it and the whole trans experience. Years later, I saw another trans escort and was topped again. I enjoyed that experience more than the first and had absolutely no regrets about it.
To me it’s a line that I’d never said that I’d cross over but once I started topping trans women, I realized that I was missing out. Once I started bottoming I never turned back!
The only regrets that I have are things that I had an opportunity to do, but didn't. I don't recall ever thinking to myself, "Well, that was a bad idea," or "I wish I wouldn't have done that." Now there have been occasions where the trans girl I was with was too large for me and we just found other ways to accommodate each other, so I still wouldn't have those thoughts on my way home. For me, when I bottom with a trans girl the level of intimacy seems to be much more intense than when I'm with a cis girl. Just having her inside me is a completely different emotional sensation than me being inside her.
My first few visits with a TS, I was adamant in telling them I wanted one, and only one thing - for them to teach and perhaps even “force” me to orally worship them. I said I was not interested in being topped. Well in my visit with TS Amelia (retired) she basically said “you’re not leaving this apartment with your virginity”…. I then had a similar experience with TS Carmen. After 10 minutes of oral she asked if I was ready to get fucked. I said not really and I only came suck her cock. Her response was “ shut up and get on your stomach”
Both times I was genuinely scared… like genuinely! But obviously I was turned on too and they must have known since I never physically fought back. Eventually I started seeking out dominant TS who are bullies in the bedroom. I’m hoping to one day see TS Nicole
I love the shared story. However, if you asked these ladies to force you, how is that not willing?
Gotcha!
I asked for “forced oral” but I was clear that I’m not there to be take it in my ass.
I saw the review. But she asked you first and you gave consent. So, you werent forced into it.
For the vast majority of my involvement in this hobby (started before it was a hobby), I was a top but in seeing the looks of pure extasy on the TS womans face I wanted to see what it was like. I started watching videos and it looked simple enough but I soon learned it wasnt and was quite painful. Finally met a provider that helped me get over the hump and have enjoyed it ever since, albeit sparingly. My concern is physically, does it alter the ability to defecate normally after a time? do you lose sphincter control?
Yea I still never gave up my v card yet after reading everyone's posts I just felt like I shouldn't do it a part of me wants to try to be dominated like that but just like experiencing giving oral and dominated in that way it became a little to addictive and im sure it would be the same if I bottomed and I do fear as well that I would want that every visit I have and run into that same concern of can I control my bowel movements after multiple sessions continuously
Your concerns about bowel movements are nothing to worry about. In fact, I’m at a point where I don’t even need to wipe afterwards anymore. I just open my cavernous sphincter and everything drops out then I cinch it up tight. Perfect!
Same here. I also switched to a bidet and i save 1000s on TP.
Thank you for the response. Perhaps I will stick to the smaller ladies to avoid the Bidet installation.
I appreciate the info. I don't think I want that level of evacuation.
The mentioned concerns are nothing much to worry about. Ask a woman who's done anal her entire life, even a porn star known for anal, double anal and so on and they won't say they had to wear depends adult diapers earlier becasue of it. The same thing with gay men who've bottomed their entire life.
Yes, some people need adult diapers when they grow older, but they fall into a predisposed category. By receiving anal it may increase a persons chance of needing them by a small percentage, but that's if they're in the predisposed category already. Bowel problems are much more common due to digestive or other physiological disorders than physical ones.
Thanks for the response and information. I will do some additional research that hopefully will allay my fears and concerns.
Man up and ask your doctor, if I take cock in my ass a lot will I have problems later in life...
The only regrets were the times the girl topping me didn’t take care while entering. I’m tight, and I don’t bottom a lot, so I need someone who knows how to get in without pain. To that point, I avoid anyone 7” or over. I’m curious about a larger unit, but too wary to risk it.
i had been interested in the idea of trans girls for years but wasn’t sure where to start that part of my life. After talking with a past GF that was always kinky we started to try some pegging, fist with anal beads them a butt plug along with a thin vibrator. Eventually she bought a strap-on with interchangeable dildos. worked our way from small and thin to larger thicker ones. after these experiences with her i decided to start looking online for TS’s. wasn’t to hard to find some in the MA area. found one with a long list of great reviews (lavina) and set up a meeting. she is big (thick and long.) i actually struggled more with the oral side. she was aggressive with oral but took her time topping me. she had a wedge pillow that really helped things along. she fucked me very slow for ten minutes or so than slowly build up the speed and moved onto a hard pounding that i loved. the entire time she looked into my eyes with an intense passion.
since than ive been with a handful of others and i prefer to be the bottom. i find the urge to come back to me every few months. NO REGRETS
I love it except for if you cough or sneeze for a few days afterwards......
cracking up most!
