i guess it is time for me to move on to my next hobby(still dont know what that will be) . just not getting a thrill out of the ts thing anymore , it all just seems to be the same bs, one out of ten providers give you good service and the rest are just there for the cash, and because we expect very little  when we get more than horrible we think its good!! well i dont think its good anymore, i think it is a waste of time and cash! good luck to you all out there in TER land! and please be careful and safe. Steve

I think you are 100% correct.  Best wishes, Steve.  You're on to bigger, better, and more enjoyable adventures.

but you're part of the problem. All you guys that keep patronizing these online bandits who consistently lie and give bored to bad service and charge 200+ for the honor.

I stick with local girls I've cultivated. I presume everyone online is lying. I never pay 200 or more.

If more guys would not keep pay these knuckleheads it would be a lot better. But you're right guys keep on lining up paying 250 for a condescending hand job.

I agree about the poor service most TS provide, which is the main reason I have seen only four or five TS and over 70 GG providers

IMHO, I agree with the general poor service/attitude.  You certainly need to confirm at least the services before you arrange a meeting and even then the odds are that you won't get what you were told you would get.  I have also found that a good majority of the pictures of the girls, whether on EROS or CL, are airbrushed to the max.  If you are going to shell out $$50 for a session, you should expect to get multiple cups.  Unlike with GG, this never happens with TS girls, at least in my experience.

why don't you just stick to the 10% that you enjoyed?  we will miss your postings as they were always good to read and informative

i agree,feel the same way a lot of the time and then see some beauty and the thrill returns.the problem is most of the time its just not worth it
good luck uncleevan

100% agree truth be told there is only a few good...not excellent,but good providers....nobody worth more than 200$,but it is our fault is we pay those higher prices for a mediocre ,full of attitude service.They charge all that money because of suckers that are wiliing to pay!!!

It's a fleeting hour with her done in secret.  Even if it's a beautiful hour you can't tell your friends about it.
    Twice a month of doing that is six grand a year.  And no pretty girl to call up and invite for brunch or to a ballgame or a Sunday afternoon drive.  Can't blame the girls really.  The way it's set up is doomed to be fucked.
    Next time I call a t-girl escort I think I may ask her if she wnts to go out for an hour.  It might be a better memory.  
   
   

     

You hit the nail right on the head!  I'm actually doing just what you mentioned - pay for a date.  Yep.  A no sex, lets have dinner and talk kind of date.  And guess what, its actually kind of nice...

threshhold higher... it is better to have some girls that you can count on, and at a decent rate, but the excitement of a new, sexy provider is so thrilling...

personal, longer lasting relationship...

I'll let anyone here take me out to dinner and a movie all for $250!!!

can we make out in the movie theatre...

Holding hands in the movie theatre.  That's what we want to do with a pretty girl.
    Watching "The Apartment" and sharing popcorn with way too much butter on it with Star for example.  For a couple hours I can be C.C. Baxter and Star can be Miss Kubilik.  
    All we need is some prick to play Mr. Sheldrake.  

First - Steve - it's been a pleasure reading your posts on this board and I do hope you will continue to drop in from time to time.

I see several negative comments regarding prices though so some comments on that.

I can tell you guys that when girls read comments like a couple in this thread it takes the fun out of providing.  When it's obvious many gents see us as sperm depositories to be used and discussed like a bad meal, it sort of takes away the incentive for girls to go out of their way to do anything other than milk the cash cow dry.

It's up to you guys to do your homework.  There ARE quality girls out there.  There are girls who actually LIKE doing this.  Date them.  Don't patronise the skanks and then complain about it afterwards. The majority of the girls on TER are top quality or they wouldn't be here.

Professionals don't come cheap.  You get what you pay for - if you want a bj in your car cruise your local "track." But if you want to spend an evening with a courtesan, if you want her to give of herself and her emotions - then you have to expect to take care of her accordingly and not leave her feeling used.

Do you guys want to know why I started escorting?  It was because I was dating men who didn't value me.  Guys who used me for sex and didn't give anything back.  I reached a point where I decided I was done giving it away.  And a "star" was born...  Giggle.

If a guy doesn't value me enough to take care of me then it means I'm worthless.  And I don't like feeling that way. I LOVE taking care of a man.  I LOVE giving my body to a man who respects and enjoys my company.  And I'd LOVE to find a regular guy to date, but it's sure as heck not going to be a cheapskate.

Do I connect with everyone?  No, of course not.  No girl can say that.  Especially not in a casual hook up.  But I know I try my very best to make every date I have a special time for all involved.  And so do all the other quality providers that I know, both trans and gg's.  Why?  Because IT'S FUN for everyone!

I don't know any t-girl who's getting rich doing this.  My partner and I live a middle class lifestyle.  We have a 1 bedroom apt in a guarded complex in a nice part of town.  Our one car is 6 years old.  We can either buy a new car this year or get one of us our sex change surgery.  We live simply but with student loan pay offs, etc, our expenses still hover around $4,000 a month.

And guys please remember, you aren't paying just for the hour you are with us.  You are paying for the hours spent marketing on the internet, writing and updating ads, posting BS in forums...  (giggle) The $200+ a month in ad costs.  The hour or two a day spent on the phone chatting with looky loos, our $150 a month cell bill our web site, etc.

It's like a photographer may charge you $250 a hour, but he spends like maybe 10% of his time actually taking photos, the rest is business drivel.

So gents please take these things into account when you gripe about the high cost of hookers.

And remember this is supposed to be FUN!  

Hugs,
TS Jamie  

-- Modified on 8/19/2007 6:06:25 PM

I know ALL about the "reach into the popcorn bucket" trick!   LOL

Just a quick comment for the guy who made the comment about wanting more than one pop with a t-girl.

First of all honey, t-girls aren't girl-girls.  You can pound a gg's pussy for an hour and drive her crazy till she refuses to let you stop...  

But if you pound my ass for an hour I'm probably going to be unconcious.  Not to mention unable to date for a week. Yes I know there are a few superstars out there... but the average t-girl by the time you cum, she's done for awhile.

Secondly MSOG evolved out of high end internet dating.  In the past a guy picked up a street girl or went to a bordello.  You paid by the pop and she churned you out as quick as possible.  

For me anyway MSOG depends on the compensation and length of the date.  If you are paying for a GFE date at a minimal base rate of "UP TO" an hour, it's a one pop deal.  You are paying for an unhurried relaxing time, but not necessairly for a marathon fuck session.

If it's a longer date, maybe an evening or all night affair, and compensated accordingly then of course msog would usually be expected.

The best thing is to COMMUNICATE your interest and give the girl an opportunity to quote you a fair rate so she doesn't feel taken advantage of and you are both on the same page.  Remember too, the second pop usually takes a lot more effort on her part than the first.

So have fun and play safe,

Hugs,
TS Jamie

-- Modified on 8/19/2007 7:22:30 PM

Well yes now that you mention it,  the popcorn trick.  Although I'm not sure about all that salt.  
    What flick was that from?  What actor and actress?  I can't recall.

If you go to the menu page of our web site you will see our "dinner and a date" specials!

And if you take me to the movies I'll do a LOT more than kiss or hold your hand.

I'm a veeerrry naughty girl - and that's what you want isn't it?  

Giggle,
TS Jamie

jamie hit the nail on the head with her response...i couldn't agree more, especially sinse i LOVE what i do and try to always give a 10+ encounter to EVERY gentleman i am lucky enough to meet...i laugh whenever i read a post complaining about a less than accommodating provider and then i search her reviews and they are lowly scored or none existent...old saying "You get what you pay for and you pay for what you get"...be SAFE out there everyone...DFK, Rachel

I too have thought about this same thing and I appear to be in a very large group.  I feel part of my problem is that I am older then most who frenquent providers being 45.  However, I am in great shape, 6'3 tall and considered to be very attractive.  I guess I still remember the days when T-girls would come up to me and take me back with them for free or would ask me to stay well beyond the normal time.  Now I am feeling far too much like a "trick" and my ego is decidedly bruised.  I do have a circle of girls that I see, but it is hard to resist some of the new models that come out!  I do have 1 or 2 providers that I have not seen yet, in my 25 years in this hobby that I will see before I decide to hang it up so I will not ride into the sunset until that happens Kim Devine, Vo and a few regular visitors to LA.  Best of luck Steve.  I know where your head is at.