Transsexual
So, what's the deal with you must join her site ($) before she will consider any possibility of seeing you in person, and that is no guarantee either?. More screening. If you don't have sufficient $, but pass the test of being young, muscular and fitting the male exotic dancer stereotype that they adore, you are in like Flynn for a freebie. Lesser mortals must jump through the hoops and still will be rejected if you do not "make the grade", the only exceptions to the rule are the Hollywood big bank boys (think Charlie Sheen/Wayans/Murphy on the down low) and Trust Fund punks. They will tolerate their crap, while the working man goes begging. God forbid they lack any perfection, ethnic issues and such, you are never getting the chance to cross those portals. I have reliable reports about many of these physical "dream girls" arrogance of choice on the "Jungle Telegraph" as to how they operate, and I have never hesitated to say how this double-standard pisses me the hell off. My ca$h is just as green as the rich boy's, so obviously there is something else going on in these transactions left unsaid (except by me!). Basically, they will not deal with anyone they would not "normally" be attracted to in "real life". They are having the cake and eating it too!. Just the selected few who pass muster that are borderline must pay through the nose for the "privilege", and they make it clear they are "doing you a favor", what most describe as inadequate service is simply that disrespect in action. Paris is brunette, there are 2 blondes and a particularly evil redhead that operate like this. Do not even try to flame me on these issues, I did not initiate them, I am merely analyzing and reporting them, the behavior is 110% a choice the girls make, if you are going to point fingers, point them at their selfish, vain and unethical ways instead of "killing the messenger". If you are butthurt about being made the f**kn clown, that is all on them, not the person who points out the pain. In a universe of fake ad's and grifter ways, these behaviors are just more irritants that have to be navigated like the proverbial minefield, and it is the seeker who gets it in the neck, never the carriers of beauty that flagrantly advertise, yet have not-so hidden agendas as to keeping the Fools in check to do their bidding, while they kiss the buttocks and behave shamelessly with those they deem to be superior to them and/or a crush "bad boyfriend" model they let screw over them which they cry about later and peg "all men as being pigs", when they limited their choices in the first place. No, it is their image they let in, not us all men in general. We need not take the rap, we do not deserve it...
Frankly, I hate it, I am forced to improvise, adapt and overcome to suit my tastes. It is a hellish minefield. I have been lucky only in that my one ATF calls me when she needs my very expensive "attention" (Ahem = ImaFoo 
. The others of my fancy do not give me the time of day, I don't make their grade. The ATF knows better, as twisted as that is and sounds. So, therefore...C'est La vie, C'est La Guerre... 
