well its my 2 year anniversary about finally having the courage to go see a ts escort.

so far the closest i came to what my fantasy was has been out of town providers visiting my area

but thats not what i want i want something local because i honestly can not stand the anxiety that comes with meeting someone for the first time. but so far when it comes to local i am 0-4. you may be asking so why didnt you write any reviews about these bad providers huh? well thats simple cause i dont want that karma coming back to haunt me.
plus this whole escort thing is a gamble anyways so you gotta take it for what it is. thats why i wont leave a review unless it was atleast a decent one

the 4 bad experiences all do have current ads on backpage philly as i type this so i suggest you try to get them to prove who they are best you can without sounding like a pic collector or someone who plays games (gl with that)

a provider currently posting from philly backpage and even has video proof that im not counting since i never got to see her fully, tried to set me up but i am very cautious so luckily i avoided it (please be careful)

so how do you avoid a bad experience? obvious choice is to stick to someone well reviews but philly really dont have any. second choice is asking for a pic. but thats when it gets ugly and you can thank all the pic collectors for that mess, so anytime they do send a pic its either gonna be not a good angle to see anything or from a older ad. just tonight i asked a provider to send me a picture of how she looks right now at this current moment, so she sends me one and of course its from a super old ad, so instead of just telling her that i know its from a old ad cause i did not want to make her upset, i ask for a dif one and  everyone she sent was of course  from a old ad. i guess i should of told her i can link you to the ad with these images but i did not want to offend her. little did that do cause she still was offended by the end of it and for that i apologize.. so wtf are we spose to do. man it sucks being on the down low.

if anyone has tips on to get a provider to send a current image without her going off the wall on you please let me know cause i want my next provider to be my final one and make it a regular thing like a massage  

thanks for reading

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What is the point of having a review system if guys think like you and only write reviews when they are good?  Maybe there are guys there that have seen the girls you are referring to and are thinking the way you did and did not write a bad review.  If they had, you would have known not to see those girls.

MisterBeef brings up a great point. Maybe there are guys who have seen those girls since you and are thinking "why didn't someone give them a bad review and spare me the trouble"? Information on the boards lasts only as long as its on the first page. Reviews stick around. I think you should review those girls. You talk about karma, what about the karma of knowing an escort is bad and by doing nothing allowing her to continue to rip off others? Who would you rather help, guys on TER who help you, or the scammers that are ripping you off?

As for your dilemma, I recommend you go see Aleksandra right away. She's not too far north of Philly and I'm sure she'd do an outcall to you. I've linked her reviews.

I live just outside Philly and have been seeing TS's here since about 2006.  I did not post any TS reviews until early 2013.  Before then my experiences were OK to good by and large.  Just did not want to post reviews on my then handle.  However, the rip-offs started in Jan. 2013 and I figured out how to get a new handle and have been posting reviews ever since.  I think I succeeded in getting 1 scammer and her sometime colleague not to return.  

You need to post reviews.

In Philly the pickings are slim.  Gemma is a 10 in looks, but not GFE.  However, she is not a ripoff.  Ashley is a 9 in looks when she takes care of herself and is generally a great performer when she's not distracted.  My first 2 times with her were out of this world.  The last was a major disappointment (but it was very late at night).  

TS Aleksandra in central NJ is a great performer and very nice young woman.  Her reviews are dead-on accurate.  You won't regret seeing her

I don't want to sound like a dick but mrgoon you get what you deserve. Not posting reviews, good or bad, is asinine. Seeing non-reviewed providers is risky and for you to perpetuate it makes no sense. Man up let everyone know who NOT to see as well as the good gals

i wish i could but i just cant. also all the girls mentioned are to skinny im not into that. only option left in philly it would seem is yuri but her reviews are not that good and she is pretty far away from center city area.

http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=177582

 
i seen tons of ads for years with no reviews yet so i understand the frustration but what can you do

Don't waste your time with Chase/Yuri.

But it really sounds like you want it both ways. You complain about the lack of reviews on the women you want to see/
and then refuse to write a "bad" review because it would make you "uncomfortable"...in my humble opinion you need to  
man the fuck up.
 This site works because people get involved. On the board or writing reviews the more info we all have the better off we all are in this hobby. That means praising the girls who deserve it, and unfortunately exposing the scammers/ fakes and phonies. I met with a girl a year or so ago..had a mediocre time and wrote a review that was honest but not mean. It's do-able. I would have prefered to forget the whole episode but I knew someone else could benefit from my misfortune. You don't have to rip a girl a new one to give a less than stellar review..just tell the story of what happened and move on.
  Hell, if nothing else it gets you free V.I.P. time! Seriously though...do the right thing dude/ write your reviews good bad or indifferent, then we ALL win...
   

omg guys my prayers have been answered from the most unlikely place ever.. Craigslist! yes craigslist the place you are warned about to stay away from.

i seen a ad and it was not pics i ever seen before so i text she texts back, i made alot of request and put her through hell and back and she was cool all the way through. she is amazing and the only escort i will ever see.  

how do i ad a review of her since she has no ter id? (by far the best experience of my life)

ty in advanc

Yea right

He proudly claims he puts her through "hell" for a booking (and I am sure during it as well). Yeah, maybe he is the reason he's had so many disappointing sessions.

first off i have never put through any person i seen through this before and only reason i did was because of nothing but prior disappointment. not to mention i never seen her ad on backpage or any other site and that was first time i seen it on Craigslist. and dealing with Craigslist you gotta go that extra step for cautiousness

she understand fully where i was coming from mainly cause she knew she was real and had nothing to hide plus i gave her dbl her asking price for all the bs i put her through  

and the bad experiences had nothing to do with me just them providers lying about size and ff and Photoshop or fake pics

so when i say search is over thats 100% facts. she has everything, pretty face, fat ass, nice tits, and a big ass tool that is ff and she loves to top. she truly 1 of a kind and i def recommend her to anyone if not based on she is as described for her personality as well. she is very understanding and is great to talk to

 
so how do i leave a review

first off i have never put through any person i seen through this before and only reason i did was because of nothing but prior disappointment. not to mention i never seen her ad on backpage or any other site and that was first time i seen it on Craigslist. and dealing with Craigslist you gotta go that extra step for cautiousness

she understand fully where i was coming from mainly cause she knew she was real and had nothing to hide plus i gave her dbl her asking price for all the bs i put her through  

and the bad experiences had nothing to do with me just them providers lying about size and ff and Photoshop or fake pics

so when i say search is over thats 100% facts. she has everything, pretty face, fat ass, nice tits, and a big ass tool that is ff and she loves to top. she truly 1 of a kind and i def recommend her to anyone if not based on she is as described for her personality as well. she is very understanding and is great to talk to

review is in just gotta wait for the site to post it.

END OF MESSAGE

Your right! Being cautious is the smart way to play this game. Glad you found your genie! They have put you through enough B.S. so now it's your turn. Plus your buying a service and you wanna make sure your not running into the same B.S .                    Although,some would tell you to "read the reviews first" I think we all honestly have figured out that,reviews aren't always what they appear to be.  Bad or Good,these guys are gonna go anyway!  Hey,that's another story!lol.  Glad you found your Genie and remember you owe no one an apology in here! You owe no Tranny or anyone a review! .......  Jingle balls,baby!