Transsexual
I believe we need...
LATSDog
posted
1 / 19
LATSDog
posted
4 / 19
LATSDog
posted
6 / 19
great idea
berog
posted
7 / 19
LATSDog
posted
11 / 19
...that said, many TS women (and we don't know if this is the case here, or a CD just "lookin for fun") ....are in various stages of transition... pre, post, etc... some have had the opportunity to be gifted with better natural features and build on those with facial & body feminization modifications, total electrolysis, and so forth... some are **just beginning**, and some have not had any such grace, nor opportunity....
...as a TS woman that is also deeply attracted to other females (GG's and TS), I myself would also admittedly have a difficult time, if someone had a real hardcore shadow going on...
but here's some additional thoughts that apply across the spectrum of gender and attraction and erotic fun...
...years ago I also suffered some slings and arrows here as an unknown (even though I had been in very under-the-radar erotic arts for years, even at that point)... someone dialed up the board, and asked for a 411 on me.... I had no reviews, and another provider posted they saw a shadow in one of my pics online, and that I must be a fake... (it absolutely wasn't true)...
...as I have done most all of my own photography work over the years, i would *never* present such a thing in a picture, much less in person, and I ultimately offered to provide every form of proof to the TER, including my legally "F" status, as well as references, etc, and i successfully escalated a complaint which prompted the executive admin here to fairly quickly remove the entire thread, and all traces of it...
I hadn't had anything even remotely resembling a "shadow" for years at that time, but all it took was the written word by someone that had never even met me, or to be called a fake here, and as a girl that actually takes my lifetime commitment to erotic arts very seriously - it actually damaged my normally active "numbers of new inquiry" one spring, for weeks, if not months... if someone is passing themselves off with bad photos, or worse, in terms of either a mismatch or total misrepresentation, yes - I personally agree that is **not** good, or an even remotely ethical way of pursuing good marks in erotic fun or erotic companionship arts, and, at least here on a reviews forum, and definitely one of the fastest ways to run people away, and have awful things said about them... but to search for the worst just to post and make fun of them... as Tia said... please gentlemen... ...and we truly never know... a week, a month, 6 months, or a year from now, that same girl (if she really is a TS woman in transition), could surprise everyone, have such issues be then resolved, and that takes a great deal of time, patience, and most importantly, a good deal of $$$.... she may have been pushed out of home, family, job, and came to some manner of erotic arts or another, as the only means to complete (or even begin a real transition).... and this is still the dominant factor as to the large number of TS's in erotic arts and pornography... ...it's a tough balance to walk for most of us at one point in time in our lives as special women that will elect to undergo what is one of the most difficult, socially controversial, dangerous, and expensive transformational processes that a human being can possibly withstand, especially in a society that is still largely hostile to our kind, in many places.... just be sure you post for the right reasons and not just because you're A) trying to make yourself look good by making someone else look like hell, just for a few sick laughs & cruel cracks, or pissed off that (could be any of us girls at one point in time) didn't meet your perfect expectations... ....soon, I must post similar thoughts also more in defense of myself, and also to call into question people's motivations about why, and what, they post here, and in what manner it is done... here's why... I am a very mature woman... over 40. I have accomplished with my mind, natural features, self care, and years of hardcore training, swimming, dance aerobics, yoga, etc... what many, if not most TS women will wish to achieve with feminization surgeries, or having had the benefit of beginning early transition when the change of hormones force the physical developmental curve to follow in terms of even bone structures in the late teens or 20's... I had no such advantage, and still, have done extraordinary things in more than 10 years of life in companionship & erotic arts... most recently someone posted a review that made me look like nothing more than a slop and a typical transactional escort, as well as calling me "kind of weird", slapped both my age of maturity (even though they knew my age going into it, my voice (known for being sweet and sexually arousing) my physical condition as "maybe my cock slipped into her a bit too easily".... and good god.... i swim at least 5 days a week during spring and summer, and train ***hard*** the rest of the year.... i may be loose for an index finger, but beyond that...? f'ing bullhockey.. ...and really, why would a first time reviewer on this board say such a thing other than to make me look bad and themselves look good in response to what ? Maybe i wasn't the 25 or 30 year old girl they really hoped for ? Really ? here's an example.... the person cracked down on me for my voice... so here's what someone wrote me via private email, just this week, after the very first time we ever spoke together, *and* they are a (married to GG) first time seeker as well :
"Angela, I wanted to thank you for taking the time to chat the other day. I really enjoyed it and it makes the thought of meeting you in person even more real and exciting. Hearing your voice and how sweet and warm you are has lessened my apprehension greatly. Also if you don't mind me saying the sexiness of your voice stirred some rather intense feelings and urges. Especially when I looked your pictures again."
That is what i would consider the "normal" and most often characterized reactions to me, my voice, my natural features, AND my maturity... so.... just be sure you are here, and posting for the right reasons, not just to put yourself up, and someone else down, in the process. You could really hurt someone's life, repute, business, true character, or chances for making it thru this process.
Most sincerely & LoveRespectAlways, Namaste'
TheAngelaGirl p.s. Tia Rocks.
-- Modified on 2/25/2014 4:03:08 PM
Yes, tgirl comes with various stages and appearances. Ok, even the girl mentioned above is a crossdresser. There is no need to mock him/her. It's very clear from her photos. She does not try to hide or lie, so there is really nothing wrong with her ad.
Tia knows that I love and respect her, and she wouldn't take the risk to speak her heart unless she meant what she was saying...
...that said, many TS women (and we don't know if this is the case here, or a CD just "lookin for fun") ....are in various stages of transition... pre, post, etc... some have had the opportunity to be gifted with better natural features and build on those with facial & body feminization modifications, total electrolysis, and so forth... some are **just beginning**, and some have not had any such grace, nor opportunity....
...as a TS woman that is also deeply attracted to other females (GG's and TS), I myself would also admittedly have a difficult time, if someone had a real hardcore shadow going on...
but here's some additional thoughts that apply across the spectrum of gender and attraction and erotic fun...
...years ago I also suffered some slings and arrows here as an unknown (even though I had been in very under-the-radar erotic arts for years, even at that point)... someone dialed up the board, and asked for a 411 on me.... I had no reviews, and another provider posted they saw a shadow in one of my pics online, and that I must be a fake... (it absolutely wasn't true)...
...as I have done most all of my own photography work over the years, i would *never* present such a thing in a picture, much less in person, and I ultimately offered to provide every form of proof to the TER, including my legally "F" status, as well as references, etc, and i successfully escalated a complaint which prompted the executive admin here to fairly quickly remove the entire thread, and all traces of it...
I hadn't had anything even remotely resembling a "shadow" for years at that time, but all it took was the written word by someone that had never even met me, or to be called a fake here, and as a girl that actually takes my lifetime commitment to erotic arts very seriously - it actually damaged my normally active "numbers of new inquiry" one spring, for weeks, if not months...
if someone is passing themselves off with bad photos, or worse, in terms of either a mismatch or total misrepresentation, yes - I personally agree that is **not** good, or an even remotely ethical way of pursuing good marks in erotic fun or erotic companionship arts, and, at least here on a reviews forum, and definitely one of the fastest ways to run people away, and have awful things said about them... but to search for the worst just to post and make fun of them... as Tia said... please gentlemen...
...and we truly never know... a week, a month, 6 months, or a year from now, that same girl (if she really is a TS woman in transition), could surprise everyone, have such issues be then resolved, and that takes a great deal of time, patience, and most importantly, a good deal of $$$.... she may have been pushed out of home, family, job, and came to some manner of erotic arts or another, as the only means to complete (or even begin a real transition).... and this is still the dominant factor as to the large number of TS's in erotic arts and pornography...
...it's a tough balance to walk for most of us at one point in time in our lives as special women that will elect to undergo what is one of the most difficult, socially controversial, dangerous, and expensive transformational processes that a human being can possibly withstand, especially in a society that is still largely hostile to our kind, in many places....
just be sure you post for the right reasons and not just because you're A) trying to make yourself look good by making someone else look like hell, just for a few sick laughs & cruel cracks, or pissed off that (could be any of us girls at one point in time) didn't meet your perfect expectations...
....soon, I must post similar thoughts also more in defense of myself, and also to call into question people's motivations about why, and what, they post here, and in what manner it is done...
here's why... I am a very mature woman... over 40. I have accomplished with my mind, natural features, self care, and years of hardcore training, swimming, dance aerobics, yoga, etc... what many, if not most TS women will wish to achieve with feminization surgeries, or having had the benefit of beginning early transition when the change of hormones force the physical developmental curve to follow in terms of even bone structures in the late teens or 20's...
I had no such advantage, and still, have done extraordinary things in more than 10 years of life in companionship & erotic arts... most recently someone posted a review that made me look like nothing more than a slop and a typical transactional escort, as well as calling me "kind of weird", slapped both my age of maturity (even though they knew my age going into it, my voice (known for being sweet and sexually arousing) my physical condition as "maybe my cock slipped into her a bit too easily".... and good god.... i swim at least 5 days a week during spring and summer, and train ***hard*** the rest of the year.... i may be loose for an index finger, but beyond that...? f'ing bullhockey..
...and really, why would a first time reviewer on this board say such a thing other than to make me look bad and themselves look good in response to what ? Maybe i wasn't the 25 or 30 year old girl they really hoped for ? Really ?
here's an example.... the person cracked down on me for my voice... so here's what someone wrote me via private email, just this week, after the very first time we ever spoke together, *and* they are a (married to GG) first time seeker as well :
"Angela, I wanted to thank you for taking the time to chat the other day. I really enjoyed it and it makes the thought of meeting you in person even more real and exciting. Hearing your voice and how sweet and warm you are has lessened my apprehension greatly. Also if you don't mind me saying the sexiness of your voice stirred some rather intense feelings and urges. Especially when I looked your pictures again."
That is what i would consider the "normal" and most often characterized reactions to me, my voice, my natural features, AND my maturity... so.... just be sure you are here, and posting for the right reasons, not just to put yourself up, and someone else down, in the process. You could really hurt someone's life, repute, business, true character, or chances for making it thru this process.
Most sincerely & LoveRespectAlways,
Namaste'
TheAngelaGirl
p.s. Tia Rocks.
-- Modified on 2/25/2014 4:03:08 PM
...that said, many TS women (and we don't know if this is the case here, or a CD just "lookin for fun") ....are in various stages of transition... pre, post, etc... some have had the opportunity to be gifted with better natural features and build on those with facial & body feminization modifications, total electrolysis, and so forth... some are **just beginning**, and some have not had any such grace, nor opportunity....
...as a TS woman that is also deeply attracted to other females (GG's and TS), I myself would also admittedly have a difficult time, if someone had a real hardcore shadow going on...
but here's some additional thoughts that apply across the spectrum of gender and attraction and erotic fun...
...years ago I also suffered some slings and arrows here as an unknown (even though I had been in very under-the-radar erotic arts for years, even at that point)... someone dialed up the board, and asked for a 411 on me.... I had no reviews, and another provider posted they saw a shadow in one of my pics online, and that I must be a fake... (it absolutely wasn't true)...
...as I have done most all of my own photography work over the years, i would *never* present such a thing in a picture, much less in person, and I ultimately offered to provide every form of proof to the TER, including my legally "F" status, as well as references, etc, and i successfully escalated a complaint which prompted the executive admin here to fairly quickly remove the entire thread, and all traces of it...
I hadn't had anything even remotely resembling a "shadow" for years at that time, but all it took was the written word by someone that had never even met me, or to be called a fake here, and as a girl that actually takes my lifetime commitment to erotic arts very seriously - it actually damaged my normally active "numbers of new inquiry" one spring, for weeks, if not months...
if someone is passing themselves off with bad photos, or worse, in terms of either a mismatch or total misrepresentation, yes - I personally agree that is **not** good, or an even remotely ethical way of pursuing good marks in erotic fun or erotic companionship arts, and, at least here on a reviews forum, and definitely one of the fastest ways to run people away, and have awful things said about them... but to search for the worst just to post and make fun of them... as Tia said... please gentlemen...
...and we truly never know... a week, a month, 6 months, or a year from now, that same girl (if she really is a TS woman in transition), could surprise everyone, have such issues be then resolved, and that takes a great deal of time, patience, and most importantly, a good deal of $$$.... she may have been pushed out of home, family, job, and came to some manner of erotic arts or another, as the only means to complete (or even begin a real transition).... and this is still the dominant factor as to the large number of TS's in erotic arts and pornography...
...it's a tough balance to walk for most of us at one point in time in our lives as special women that will elect to undergo what is one of the most difficult, socially controversial, dangerous, and expensive transformational processes that a human being can possibly withstand, especially in a society that is still largely hostile to our kind, in many places....
just be sure you post for the right reasons and not just because you're A) trying to make yourself look good by making someone else look like hell, just for a few sick laughs & cruel cracks, or pissed off that (could be any of us girls at one point in time) didn't meet your perfect expectations...
....soon, I must post similar thoughts also more in defense of myself, and also to call into question people's motivations about why, and what, they post here, and in what manner it is done...
here's why... I am a very mature woman... over 40. I have accomplished with my mind, natural features, self care, and years of hardcore training, swimming, dance aerobics, yoga, etc... what many, if not most TS women will wish to achieve with feminization surgeries, or having had the benefit of beginning early transition when the change of hormones force the physical developmental curve to follow in terms of even bone structures in the late teens or 20's...
I had no such advantage, and still, have done extraordinary things in more than 10 years of life in companionship & erotic arts... most recently someone posted a review that made me look like nothing more than a slop and a typical transactional escort, as well as calling me "kind of weird", slapped both my age of maturity (even though they knew my age going into it, my voice (known for being sweet and sexually arousing) my physical condition as "maybe my cock slipped into her a bit too easily".... and good god.... i swim at least 5 days a week during spring and summer, and train ***hard*** the rest of the year.... i may be loose for an index finger, but beyond that...? f'ing bullhockey..
...and really, why would a first time reviewer on this board say such a thing other than to make me look bad and themselves look good in response to what ? Maybe i wasn't the 25 or 30 year old girl they really hoped for ? Really ?
here's an example.... the person cracked down on me for my voice... so here's what someone wrote me via private email, just this week, after the very first time we ever spoke together, *and* they are a (married to GG) first time seeker as well :
"Angela, I wanted to thank you for taking the time to chat the other day. I really enjoyed it and it makes the thought of meeting you in person even more real and exciting. Hearing your voice and how sweet and warm you are has lessened my apprehension greatly. Also if you don't mind me saying the sexiness of your voice stirred some rather intense feelings and urges. Especially when I looked your pictures again."
That is what i would consider the "normal" and most often characterized reactions to me, my voice, my natural features, AND my maturity... so.... just be sure you are here, and posting for the right reasons, not just to put yourself up, and someone else down, in the process. You could really hurt someone's life, repute, business, true character, or chances for making it thru this process.
Most sincerely & LoveRespectAlways,
Namaste'
TheAngelaGirl
p.s. Tia Rocks.
-- Modified on 2/25/2014 4:03:08 PM
...and, you're welcome, Tia... always.... 
...thanks for also stickin' up for those, that many here would clearly rather just laugh at, or mock at, and some unfortunately, just to feel better about some of their own personally held and maybe also unexplored, or deeply un-reconciled issues... ...even terribly "un-passable" CD's often share a similar internal compulsion as that of many of us TS women... and of course, keep in mind, that most of them will never "transition", most often are deeply secreted, very closeted, or "purge" themselves of such clothing, engagements or desires after sometimes taking suck risks of "just having some fun", but nonetheless... is still just another individual *point* along the *billions wide* literally individual spectrum of gender/identity, orientation, and sexuality.... ...which is why, gentlemen, *please* don't forget - that many of **you** are also ***here*** in this forum, to begin with... because of *your own* attraction to, or fascination with, people of differing gender expressions, and some of you out there, have even mixed and very personally private gender expressions or orientations, and also share some of these *same* characteristics, and seek OUR company, as a form of being able to more fully explore, and experience that for yourselves, from BOTH sides of the skirt or dress, so to speak... ; - } if you were that fellow, girl, woman in transition, just trying to do the best you can with whatever it is you had to work with in terms of physical appearance, features, accommodations, etc, would you wish to be made the butt ( ok...unfunny, so to speak : ), of this kind of terribly insensitive mocking, just for a few cheap laughs... ?
....it's always easier to laugh at another, place someone else down for their shortcomings, than look inside your own imperfect self with real true kindness and acceptance of others, Yes ?
But.... this forum needs more real dialogue, not cruelty, harshness, lack of acceptance....sick jokes go in by the busload in the erotic humor forum.... where, by the way you should see some of the erotic madness of my own (extremely) naughty adventures with father Christmas, that i've contributed there, during the past 2 holidays.... ; - ) ...once upon a time, i heard there used to be more real explorative dialogues, ongoing conversations, less pedantic positioning and politics, and less of what now seem like more of just the ongoing drone of what begins to sound like a continuous stream of passionlessly clinical, and coldly "blow by blow" ( hah : ) sharing every clinical detail of "yep, then she "lubed herself up"... ...wow, whatta turn-on I'm sure *that* line was, in one of my *own* last reviews, huh? ) "and then I came on her tits and far too loose ass like a total pro, and her like a sloppy whore"... kind of stuff, and more opening of perspectives, more honor of all, and I think, as Jack Nicholson once famously said, in the first Batman movie, "What this place needs, is an enema!"
so.... just sayin'.... maybe additional food for thought....
and p.s. Tia still rocks. ...and so does every good, committed, hardcore passionate, honorable, and striving to make it thru this kind of challenging place in life, TS companion and provider...
You all suck. (but guys, trust me, not nearly as good as I do ).... hahahalololol
Namaste'
TheAngelaGirl
-- Modified on 2/28/2014 10:26:11 AM
LATSDog
posted
16 / 19
Hello, Dog....
and... keep in mind... I did cover a few more bases about not only postings, but also in the varying nature and even accuracy of some reviews based on individual perspectives and other factors, differing kinds of dialogues that once existed here in a more explorative and conversational manner, as well as seekers keeping in mind the provider's perspectives, and how some postings, reviews, or other forms of dialogue could be maybe more, ummm... well considered, and even more....than just the specific mockery issue at hand.... and... you already know I respect you.... ...so here's an entry on this end of the conversation as well...
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Posted By: timotl
Let's keep in mind that this forum is made up of many different people who have many different ideas about what "this forum needs".
Very honestly, I view this site and this forum as a tool for commerce. The "blow by blow" descriptions are very helpful to the buyer as they help us to understand what we are buying more fully *before* we buy it. This site is largely from the perspective of the buyer, not the provider. I don't mean to say that it isn't great to have providers here and contributing, but understand that we likely have a very different perspective on this hobby than you do. Just because you don't appreciate the "blow by blow" reviews doesn't mean they don't have value to others.
As far as poking fun at others goes, you're right. I have been guilty of it myself. I realize that to let it all hang out, as the person in the ad in question did, takes great courage and personal sacrifice. I can't speak for others, but I will no longer participate in a thread that is about denegrating someone else. I realize also that the transition takes time and lots of work. I think most of us here have a vested interest in making it easier on the girls as they begin their transitions, after all, everyone starts somewhere, right? -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
For the first part of your response... I DO get it... really... after all, as one of the "items in question" of the "buyer's" mind, of course.... I *have* to... we all do.... after devoting years of concentrated attention to detail in every facet as a woman, a companion, and erotic artist.. of *course* that has to matter.... but... (there's always a "but"... : ), how can it be a fair forum if only.... "" This site is largely from the perspective of the buyer, not the provider. I don't mean to say that it isn't great to have providers here and contributing, but understand that we likely have a very different perspective on this hobby than you do.""....
Of course you do... to a certain extent... but when say, I post a photo on a page for example, I post it from my own perspective of **also** being deeply attracted to other females in general, knowing what *I* am also attracted to in both form, content, and articulation, based on the audience I very intentionedly, & very consciously BOTH *understand*, and, wish to appeal to...
....and so therefore, that calls the entire basis of this particular assertion into question, as valid or not ?
I actually think that was a somewhat condescending way of putting it, love... and no insult intended either.... but just really think for a moment... if that assertion is entirely true, then that would imply that we, as (very special, and often innately *both* gender perspective providers) have little comprehension of what you, the seeker, wish most to find... and yet, in order to be a *good* or at least a decent provider or companion, one has to be able to see *many* sides at once, in several different dimensions, & in some cases as many, if not more perspectives, than I daresay...at least some men in the world can or will, or even wish to - outside of the most simple terms of "visuality" (new word, I hope you like it) and simple, basic terms of straightforward sex...
...and that doesn't even take into account personal biases or individual perceptions which may or not even remotely match up from one person to the next as we've seen in many cases, individual tastes, inaccuracies, exaggerations, pissitudes, distortions, heck, even influence of substances when partaking of both an engagement, as well as who know - even maybe writing or reading of reviews, or stage of a seeker's own personal experience, or good days/bad days for both seeker and companion, & so forth...
I was *not* to say at all, that the "juicy details" don't have a *very* proper place, and are extremely useful in a good deal of the valid decision-making that you, as the seeker, must have and also wish to find for a variety of personal reasons in this process.... yet.... that was also not the whole of what I was getting at in terms of re-expanding the dialogues here in some more gentle ways if that is a good term.... also remember, many of the girls in erotic arts will eventually wish to have a life outside of, or beyond this stage or moment in time, and I think people can maybe say the same things, but maybe less coarsely, crudely, coldly, more elegantly, more respectfully, more accurately, etc..... and that of course is my own opinion and is neither an assertion of "right" nor "wrong", as much as food for thought...
I think that **without** the very real input, opinion, perspective, awareness, and experience of *US*, such a forum could not possibly be as good as it could, or ideally should be... Yes ?
the second half of your response.... all I can say is just *awesome*. LoveRespectAlways to you for that personal self-assertion, and thank you, most deeply, for agreeing with me on that point.
Most Respectfully, and of course naughtily, always
AngelaGirl
-- Modified on 3/1/2014 11:31:59 PM
LATSDog
posted
18 / 19
mina000hartt
posted
19 / 19