Howdy. I'm a young guy visiting LA for the first time from a rural area. I've always wanted to experience a TS but there are no opportunities at home. I'm new to this process and I'm somewhat intimidated. I've found a couple providers I'm interested in seeing (well-reviewed and reputable) but I'm not sure how to actually make a connection. I feel like I've done my research on the finer points, but it's tough to get good advice/instructions for a complete beginner. Is it best to call or email? Regardless of method of contact, what should I actually be saying to her before we've met? It's important to me that she know it's my first time, but how do I tell her before I meet her without it sounding business-like? I feel like if I could just get over the hurdle of setting up a meeting, I could make my dreams come true, but I don't know exactly how to get started. Your advice is greatly appreciated.

If you research here, you will see that a similar post gets posted about once a week for LA or NYC, newbie/first timer looking for advice. Most get unanswered because there the short list either really does not exist or they won't share it.   You will get more input from a list of providers you think you might like to hang with reviews or no reviews.

Yeah, I've noticed. No intention of being "that guy" who posts and abandons the thread. I'll start with just a couple of my picks and see where it goes. I've seen a lot of posts from you about the LA area, I appreciate your help already and any advice or guidance you can offer.

Natasha is a great Vers provider.

I've seen Victoria twice. I'm a verse and each time I went in expecting to do some topping but she is very much an alpha sexual being and I ended up bottoming both times. I'm a similar age as you and trust me, if she likes what she sees, she'll put you through the headboard. Seriously. She's an insatiable voracious top in her heart of hearts...so if you're into bottoming she's a god send, if you're set on being verse I'm sure she'll oblige but it's not her preference (again relating to whether you're her type or not). With that said, she comes back to my area in July and we have eachother number's saved. When I get that text I'll run to her hotel as it's nice having a good provider with whom expectations and roles are inherently understood haha. Go for it!  

i have seen Natasha quite a few times, she's tall and thick, 5'10 with amazing curves and about 7-8inches
she's down for whatever your in the mood for, never rushed great personality and she loves what she does. Definitely not a Victoria experience, but Camila definitely does, i'm usually not into bottoming because of the discomfort, but she somehow made it an amazing experience, still not sure if i would go back because i like to Top my girls =]

Thanks for your post, it was just what I needed to hear! I sent you a PM about some specifics. Looking forward to getting together with her soon.

I actually don't have VIP...you can ask me anything on the forum and I'll respond here.

Bro, just an FYI, you had better have more then a couple of back up dates lined up to call in case your first choice is out to lunch when you call, email, or ride by her place on the bike your borrowed from the Dog ringing the bell on the handle bars. This is true EVERYWHERE you will ever go to meet a date for sex. GG or TS. LA is full of beauty's, so your trip should be fun, just saying that waiting till you get there is not the time to find out that the cell phone towers of your phone company are not working.

I have a three wheel bike taxi with night headlights and a bell if you want to take the 2am East Hollywood tranny tour?    Let me know.  I book up on the weekends so be sure to hit me up sooner than later.

I'll keep it short and sweet, since I'm working on a full review, but I saw Victoria today and she was amazing. Can't believe I waited so long to take the plunge. I had a great time once we got comfortable and I'd recommend her. We got to chatting near the end of the session and when I told her I found her on TER, she told me she loves getting together with guys from TER and asked me to write a review. Suffice to say, if anyone else is in my shoes - go for it, you won't be disappointed! Thanks to all for the encouragement, reviews and general positive vibes.

Congrats man, finding a good provider is key...its natural to want to change things up but if it ain't broke don't fix it. Told you she's a keeper. I'm guessing my tidbits were generally accurate as well? Aka...she's in the market for a new headboard? Looking forward to the review.

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