Jokers who are folish enough to send harassing messages via e-mail can be reported to their internet service provider , by forwarding the message to postmasters@domainname.(the domain name is the second part of their e-mail adress , such as hotmail , yahoo etc ...
and for the fake appoinments use their numbers on your caller ID do the reverse look up or google the numbers, to protect yourself always e-mail the numbers to a friend ,alert other escorts
of those unwanted people.


By eliminating timewasters who cause stress and aggravation....your service will improve enormously!
If you are really looking to book an appoiment , but did`nt like the vibe ...call to cancell!!!
using any escuse ....there are many!!!!
It is a small courtesy that speaks tons of you
as a real gentleman!!!

or keep on hidding your head in the sand



-- Modified on 7/17/2005 9:33:51 AM

-- Modified on 7/17/2005 9:46:15 AM

of trying to book with a TS provider...there are so many guys that call and then no show that often times when I call to book an appt. I end up not booking.  The provider doesn't know if I'm like one of the masses that call and no show and she may be frustrated from a lack of follow through from others and the conversation has a mechanical feel to it...long story short, I end up getting a bad vibe and not feeling like I will enjoy myself so I end up not making an appt, thus adding to the list of "time wasters" that call and do no more...It is a viscious circle!

Set up a trusting raport with follow up calls and e-mails for advanced appointments.  Go so far as to offer a small, bankwire deposit on the appointment.

#1. Don't call her up and ask her what she looks like or what her measurements are or how old she is. Does it really matter, U are looking at her pic to get her # anyway.
#2. Don't let the 1st words out of your mouth be "what are your rates", if you were a serious caller that would be the last thing u talk about.
#3. If her ad says, "hour advanced notice", don't call her on a Tuesday trying to set something up for Saturday.  
#4 Most of these girls get dozens of calls a day, everyday. They have heard every line you could imagine, so don't bother trying to be slick. You're not.
And finally #5. Don't even bother with "I'll call you back". both of you know you're not going to, so it makes you sound like a Liar and an Idiot.
I almost forgot;Do you really think your going to get her address and not show-up then two weeks later when you get the nads to knock on her door unannounced and uninvited that she is going to see you. Let alone if you have seen her before and come over. Would you really like it if she went to your house and your wife or kids answered the door and she said "I was in the neighborhood and thought i'd stop by". Get Real!

From a caller's perspective, many questions are asked simply for the sake of getting more comfortable with the person on the other end of the phone line.  I notice many people consider themselves 'good judges of character' and delude themselves into thinking they can infer personality traits by phone demeanor.  Frankly as an escort, you hanging from a public meat rack.  Frankly as an escort, you are in the customer service industry and should expect all manners of questions.  Frankly if someone requests an appointment in advance (I always do) you just weigh the merit of the offer and tell them your policy.  I always took, "... an hour's advanced notice" as "Give me at least an hour's advanced notice."  A customer putting up with a series of flaming hoops to leap through to meet is antithetic to effective business practice.

I agree...I guess I wasn't clear in my post.  My point was that when people screw with girls time those of us that are serious about setting up an appt. pay the price as well in having to deal with someone who is skeptical about our intentions.

I agree with dazedandslightlyconfused

But also the nice classy girls pay the price
for the low class providers who do not apreciate
courtesy!!!
If a gentleman is not rude there is no reson to call him back and yell names at him.
I`m aware of the poor quality providers out there
who go as low as stealing and ripping guys off
those eventually get what they deserve!!!


We all need to understand and appreciate the universe and its karmic consecuenses
what we do comes back to us a hundredfold.
lets respect each other, we all are human beings
with feelings and dreams....
peace

-- Modified on 7/18/2005 10:31:17 PM

Heres one for you. I called a girl recently after seeind her ad on eros and asked her how long she would be in town. I could barely hear her on the phone and had a bad feeling about her so I said thanks for the info and hung up. She proceded to call me up and said how she was going to ruin my life and post all over the internet how I was a fag. She then proceeded to call me another 5 times over the next hour and yell fag in the phone and hang up. Maybe I should of told her I had a bad feeling and didn't feel comfortable, but this girl went off the deep end. I didn't say any thing rude to her simply asked a question and said thanks and hung up. Didn't try to book an appointment and am seriously thinking of posting her info on this board so others can avoid her. If she has no reviews there must be a reason.

Now that is flaming !!!!
isn`t it?

I'm not attacking anyone, just describing the selling enviornment.  How does 'Commercial Pageant' sound?  Better?

just remeber not to spit towards the sky,
it may land on your face!!

I am currently visiting in Kansas City , and my first two appointments , both prescheduled and confirmed were no shows , no calls , nothing. I wasted my whole first day.

I've long prefered peeing into the wind.

-- Modified on 7/21/2005 1:33:22 PM

The cut from a sword can be stiched and healed, but the cut of a tongue can never be.

There's no excuse for prescheduled and confirming and then wigging out and not showing up, just as there's no excuse for a girl to freak on someone who does have the courtesy to call and cancel well in advance (in my case, above, over 24 hours for an UNscheduled appointment). It truly does cut both ways, and hurts both other hobbyists and providers. It seems so simple to me: simply be courteous, respectful, and up front if you have to cancel or reschedule.

This happened to me a few weeks ago with dear, sweet Jasmin (who I've known for a while now): I had scheduled a 2 pm session with her in Boston for the next day, we talked twice on the phone, and I tried calling her before leaving for the drive in (a 40-minute drive at the best of times) but couldn't get through. Halfway in, she called me back, and I discovered that she had a scheduling conflict, with someone who would be seeing her for the first time.

Since I was already enroute, I continued in, and she invited me up to her room where she explained the situation and asked if I would mind rescheduling for later, promising to make it up to me. She also suggested that I have lunch at a fine Thai/Japanese restaurant nearby. I appreciated her candor and went out for a very nice lunch (turns out a place that I had been to a long time ago), then went back. We ended up with a great session which lasted well over the alloted time and had the opportunity to chat for a long while afterwards. Yes, it kind of messed up my plans for the day by a couple of hours, but that was only a minor inconvenience. Things can work out if you're open and honest with one another, I think.