...........what makes you a repeat hobbyist? In preparation for my upcoming Southern California tour (which kicks off this wed.) with my Asian TS girlfriend Sariaya,we would like to know what makes you CUMM back to a provider for 2nds,3rds & more? Please be as descriptive as possible!! Pics,body, attitude,reviews,price,functionality,services.....what are the main determining factors & why? I speak with a lot of fellow shemale providers & this is a question that we usually ask among each other. I'm also quite confident that some of the ladies that frequent this board would value your input as well. So what are you waiting for?!  Let's hear it fellas!

Great question. I think that it was asked a long time ago.
I should say that it is rare that I see someone more than twice, mostly because there aren't that many real good ones based in NYC and none based on Long Island and it isn't that easy for me now to make a special trip into NYC.
That being the case, the few that I have seen more than once have the following qualities-
Looks are important but not the most important thing. Most important is attitude. I need to be with someone who I feel comfortable with and what makes me comfortable is when I know the provider is happy to see me and truly wants to make a real effort to make the session special. That was one of the things that impressed me most with TS Rachel. I mean when someone wants to take the time not only to respond to emails or PM before the session but with a real conversation and asks questions about what is important, that means something. Reviews are important for a first session, not for a repeat.
Price is also important for a first session but if the first one was great, then I would be willing to pay more for the session on a repeat. Functionality is also very important for a repeat.
I hope that I was detailed enough.
Good luck on the tour.

1st is service advertised (or talked about) is service received.  Any lies about size, function, or anything else makes them untrustworthy and a potential problem later.  If I paid them what they asked for or advertised, then I should receive the agreed upon service.  For those guys whose dicker down the price, I think the service should also be dickered down.  I would say about 1 out of 4 girls (25%) give the service they advertise.

2nd is looks.  Scratchy face is a major turnoff.  Hair legs is another.  I like a girl with a cock, not a guy in drag.

3rd is attitude.  We know that sex for most girls is routine and probably boring.  In any customer service postion you can fake it.  I like a girl who seems into me, though she probably is not.  Smiling can go a long way.  One of my best times was a really ugly girl, with a mans voice, and a dirty house...but her attitude and enjoyment (fake or real) made it great.

4th is cleanliness.  I read one review from a guy who stated, "...smelled of unclean cock".  Been there, done that.

5th is good reviews.  Rarely will I see a girl with bad reviews.    Though I have had one of the worst sessions with a girl who had some of the best reviews in the business.

I believe it's all about connection and compatibility that will keep them coming for more. A warm, inviting as well as a relaxing environment also are huge factors.

You brought another factor that I believe seems to be somewhat underrated but also very important. Location! location. I know a couple of great girls that have all the mandatory qualities that most hobbyists desire but they are in a rough side of town,far away or their setting is messy & unorganized. Does this really matter or can you overlook it if the girl is simply that amazing to be with?

I have been seeing transsexuals since 1992. While every girl that I have sessioned with looked exactly like they did in the photo, these are the reasons why I have never seen them a second time:

I find out that she has a roommate and I'm told for a few dollars more she will join in on the action. I know it sounds hot, but it never goes down like you think it would.

She tries to get me to cum as soon as I walk in the door. I could probably count on one hand that number of times that the session went the entire hour.

She can't get it up or her cock is nowhere as big as she said in the ad. Therefore, I wind up paying $200.00-$300.00 to get my dick suck or suck on her flaccid one.

The only English word she knows is "tip".

I'm an overweight guy and I get told that I'm too big to fuck. Even though all the pro dommes that I have been with didn't have that problem when they did me with a strap on.

Its because of these reasons why I haven't sessioned with a transsexual for over a year.

Personally, I wouldn't go to a rough section of town.  It's not worth the trouble.  First requirement: An attractive provider would get me to try someone for the first time.  Second requirement: A fun time, as in good sex, would prompt a repeat visit for me.  If you're tsBrooke from Vegas, you definitely meet the first criteria.

Its all about a girl that seems to be into it and doesn't rush you in and out. It's nice if the girl is hot and I guess that is what gets you there but someone who is warm and sensual counts a lot. actually talking to me and trying to be pleasant is nice offering a guy a drink and talking before and after the session is big.  Kissing is big deal as well . It's all about the warmth of the session

Two best experiences I had was with Catherine in NYC who diss appeared a few years back but she was a sweetheart I actually liked her as a person the other was Cynthia in queens she is another doll and a real sweet lady

Of course being the same lady in the pic is a must if the lady is dishonest about pics it's really one and done for me provided I don't walk out

Get well soon,,,
an example of a classy lady who I'm sure has a ton of repeat client friends!

Being genuine and truthful about what to expect and for the areed upon avertised rate.

I have a couple of ATF ladies I see, they always accomodate, are allways ready, freshly prepared, functional, smooth and the take the time to bring enjoyment to me by being friendly.

They dress as asked or as discribed, and the place is clean  orderly and know one in the bathroom.

Functional,

Well while I understand your frustrations with dealing with lackluster TS providers I believe you comparing pro dommes with strap-ons to trans women with real cocks is like comparing a 1978 Pinto to a 2012 Mercedes C250. By no means am I making excuses for a provider's lack of performance. That said, a female strapping on a replica cock that is already erect & fucking you is in no way shape or form as difficult as a T-girl having to be sexually stimulated to rise to the occasion to penetrate you. There are some providers who will not see a hobbyist if she isn't physically attracted to him. Lucky for me, I'm  naturally a sexually person & even if I'm not aroused by my guest I will try my best to make him feel comfortable & watch a porno that gets me aroused so at the end of the day, everyone walks away satisfied & full-filled.

Well the three things that are a make or break for me personally in my decision making for going back to a provider are cleanliness, attitude, and service.

Cleanliness, on more than one occasion when i pull out of the provider the condom has had that brown streak on it... immediate turn off. Ill become flaccid in less than 10 secs and ill just leave. In one case the provider didn't even acknowledge the lack of cleanliness and just acted like everything was cool.  

Attitude, It's really a pain when the attitude of a provider is negative or stuck up. I dont mind if your dominate or whatever, but when the attitude is "im doing you a favor" type thing that just puts me in a bad mood and ruins all thoughts of me returning.

Service, funintexas said it best if something is specified in the ad, then that service should be expected.  With that being said i try to avoid ad's that say something like "I'm sexy and you will have a good time(gives their stats) call me now." They don't tell you what type of service is to be expected creating a loop. Now if the donation is on the low side you may expect the service to be lower, however if the donation is higher around $$$ the service should be on point. The times where the service is not accurate or they lie about whats advertise heavily outweighs the ad's that deliver in my cases.  One provider actually told me that even though she bottoms she expects the size of her clients to be no bigger than 7 and will refuse if it looks bigger.  Maybe that should be included in the ad...

All of the above + taking the time to ask pre session how you can spice it up even more to make this session that much more erotic, fun, and satisfying.  It could be as easy as changing the color of your lingerie, wearing a different outfit to start off, maybe a mini massage after the two of you are worn out, or a wonderful bubble bath prior to leaving    Just ensure the towl you provide is fresh and not damp or on the floor    etc......

Hope this helps......

Not in any particular order ...

1.  Physical attraction - All ads have a photo and can be considered "window shopping".  While browsing ads the ones that prompt more follow-up are the result liking what you see.

2. Services - she has to offer what I am seeking.  For example, doesn't do anyone good if I want a top and she is a bottom.  Includes being honest with performance needs and abilities.

3. Initial contact - Understanding the many phone calls a girl might get there still should be a pleasant inviting voice on the other end of the phone.

4. Price - Has to fit one's budget.

6. Location - Doesn't do any good if she is 100 miles away.

7. Delivery - Both parties are satisfied ... no need to explain.  Figure it out.

8. Cleanliness - Hygene and living space.

9. Honesty and integrity - Understanding that if she truly is looking for repeat hobbyists and the hobbyists is looking to repeat there are no games.

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OK, I'll play:

Beauty:  Needs to be as near a "10" as possible with pride in her appearance. I need to enjoy the visual aspect, otherwise why am I going to be motivated to take the plunge?  Hell, I could use the time to troll bars & such for average girls. A girl who may be a 6 can raise her score by making the effort, knowing how to dress, wearing her heels, etc. This includes the "truth in advertizing” as in she should look like her pics, I mean really look like her pics, not 7 foot tall with size 13 feet (Hiding such facts smacks of dishonesty). This includes hygiene, should be as great smelling, smooth and depilated as if about to do a photo shoot for Playboy, Penthouse or even Victoria’s Secret.

Attitude: A crap attitude can make even the most gorgeous girl as ugly as the Hunchback of Notre Dame (such as a famous “exotic” looking porn star TS that I witnessed in public showing such a self-centered, disdainful attitude towards the males attracted to her, I could see her flashy smile was actually a sneer of near hate. She is not the only one either by a long shot).  If I’m not welcomed like a long lost lover happy to have arrived at her lair, I’m already thinking about leaving. Do I really have to add not being rushed, blatantly mercenary about the donation (such as another “famous” Las Vegas based worker), or being really obvious about having contempt for their clients?  If I get a mere whiff of that, I’m out. Hating men and being in it for the “easy” roses is an occupational hazard, but doesn’t mean I have to enable or put up with such psychodrama by laying out Federal Reserve Notes (!).  I’m not your Psychiatrist; don’t inflict your mental issues upon me (and I have encountered a couple of head cases. Never went beyond the initial “interview”, I have a nose for it). I want to go to XXX rated Disneyland for 2 or more hour$. True GFE is rare, my preference, HME even more so, and is why I’m extremely picky and low-volume as a result. I prefer a repeat experience over tomcatting any day. If I wanted tension and fighting, I’d just get some random average girl to spar with.

Service: Is actually just an extension of “Attitude”. Above average service (and that is not so high a bar to aspire to either, with what’s out there these days) can make up for a multitude of the smaller sins. If you are not into it, or performing as if you are into it flawlessly, the contempt will expose itself sooner or later, and a return is not in the cards. Clean atmosphere, DFK (even light DFK), massage, and pampering can be the final deal-breaker when talking return visits. It’s good to be King and I want to feel like one, even if there are 100 guys waiting in line, I don’t want to see them or even think about them. My eyes looking into yours with no distractions (put that cell on “silent”) is where it’s at.

Also – For the guys:  You need to hold up your side also if you are making these demands. Shower, shave, brush those teeth, use the mouthwash (especially if you are a smoker), evacuate your bowels, clean your ears and fingernails.  Dump the flip-flops and shorts/t-shirts. Put on a coat and tie, use the febreeze if necessary and a very light touch of cologne. Act like a dammed gentleman for an hour or however long you intend to be with her.  You show up looking like a Bum don’t be shocked if she has a negative reaction, and I wouldn’t blame her for it either, if she is a classy lady and not a low-class gold digger, and as I have already said, I prefer a high-class lady, show her some respect. You can always be an asshole later if she disappoints, and at least you will know you gave it your best shot and not blame yourself if she is psycho.  That is normal policy for me, consider giving it a try it also if it is not too much trouble for you, lazy bastard…

(P.S.: also remember there are a few out there that no matter what you do and how well you prepare, will discriminate against you by age, race, physique, etc. so do not immediately assume you are in the wrong.  There are some beautiful girls out there with the hearts of evil scumbag dirt M.F’s.  They won’t change, are broken personalities, and it’s not your responsibility to repair them. They may be looking down on you with contempt now, but nature has a way of restoring balance: The Grand Ultimate in action. Their day will come eventually, and when it hits, they won’t even see it coming)…

One more personal note for the girls: Do NOT claim versatility if you are not.  I am always a top and proud of it. If you are actually a top that looks like a girl, you need to let that be known upfront, or expect unpleasantness, a clash you are bringing on yourself. Again, truth in advertising is paramount.

Rant over. Hope this is the type of feedback you requested. Just my own views on your inquiry.

Love/Lust:
Wulfie

Good question Brooke!

I'm still in the rehab right now, but still check in here from time to time when i'm in the mood.

Actually your question has been answered instinctively by almost all of us, working girls who have been in the business for few years.

In order to survive, we have to equip ourselves with lots of things, that include: maintaining and even enhancing our physical attributes, polish our manners..bla..bla..bla...

But one thing...and this is only one thing that can make a particular girl popular: the famous X factor.

There are girls who are just born and destined to be a good escort..or to become a legendary one if she comes at the right time and place.  

Something that she was born with it.  Her sex appeal..the way she carries herself...the way she talks and treats people..and they way she develops herself into an excellent product.

I think that's the only secret of huge success.  

And if you ask me..how to become that "particular special girl"?
my answer is:
If you have it, then you have it..you just have to flaunt, show, maintain, take care, and even develop the X factor and other related factors to it.

However, if you don't have it than you don't have it.

One more thing: being unique and truth to ourselves, will definitely make us stand out from the rest of our crowd.

That's my answer

See you all this Summer!

Tia Phoenixx

Ok here are a few things that are sure turn ons and turn offs all of which lead to one and done or repeat business

The opposite of love is not hate it is indifference - if you are indifferent or uninterested so won't the guys who see you.  People who relate to other people always make them think they are significant and important

Fake pics are horrible and dishonest even if you look better than what u advertised

Be clean - I take the time to be fresh and am the one paying for the service so u should be as well to do otherwise is disresptful

" what you got for me" or "you pay more you get more" or "donation first papi" shouldnt be the first thing we hear

Say hello make eye contact smile saying"it's so nice to see you" or "thanks for seeing me" or "you are handsome" all go along way even if it's just a put on

Greeting with a kiss is the best start to a session

Phone attitude is helpful ladies should understand that at times it's hard to understand non English speaking ladies and we are always concerned about our safety as well so don't get frustrated and yell or hang up

you need to be what you say you are - functional versatile etc...

A little conversation goes a long way. Taking a few mintes to understand ur client is a small investment of time that pays big dividends - my guess is that  the majority of guys want u to njoy the experience

First thing is....you really have to like what you do and since we all know this is a business,treat your customers with respect and give them what you offered,you are not allowed to have a bad day...if you dont feel well or not in the mood,then reschedule and cancel appointments,no custmer wants to pay to be with someone in a bad mood or depressed,you are the provider,hence ..you have to provide.
If i was you i would contact Rachel and ask for some tips,she really knows how to treat a guy or a customer,believe me!!!

I have a handful of girls who I will see whenever they come through my town. There are also a couple local girls who I consistently see. My main rationale:

(1) Did they deliver on their promises? Looks, functionality, etc.
(2) Limited upsell. It is the biggest turnoff. I think you are much better off setting your rate and not having additional fees for other services
(3) Connection. This can be manufactured. I'm an average guy and I'm well aware of it. But it is nice when there is a connection.
(4) I'm into the experience. I like to kiss. I like affection. Don't advertise you are open to it and than not deliver.
(5) Humility it goes a long way. There are some girls who just can't get enough of themselves and in certain doses that is great. Confidence can equal sexiness but too much can be a turnoff for me.
(6) Patience. There is nothing worse than somebody who wants you out the door. I understand that is the ultimate goal but if you are advertising an hourly rate, exhibit some patience. I won't go with certain girls because of their reputation of trying to get you out as quickly as possible.
(7) Location. I won't go to certain areas of the city. It is not worth the limited risk that comes with it. If you are in Boston, there are plenty of areas in the city and also outside the city that are safe and easy to get to.

i have a lot of providers who i will see often, number one thing is the GFE, i love it when there is passion and enjoyment on the providers part, i love top girls and always want to see top girls but i have one provider who is a total bottom who i have seen over 20 times because she is just so into it and passionate.also i know it is a lot to ask for but if you are a top girl you got to be able to get hard stay hard and give us the load we are all craving. if i know i am going to get that creamy gift along with all the passion and real kissing DFK, i will always give you a call if you are in town.

Fascinating thread ms tsbrooke

I whole heartedly agree with everything that has been said, yet the question of been totally 'clean' down below can never be 100% guaranteed. We are talking about the anus, which has one primary function really (apart from the fun side mmmm swoony and being pre-op/non-op means there is no other hole down there for you guys to fuck.

I know too many girls and speak from my own experience when I say I get at times paranoid about making sure I'm clean down there, douched at all times, to the point where one is afraid to eat food because of that fear of the dreaded "brown streak". Transsexuals have enough body dysphoria issues to contend with as it is without adding anorexia to it.

You want to fuck me anally for 20/30/whatever minutes nice and strong? yeah? mmmm heaven *and* yet with all that air moving in and out sometimes the sheer physics of phallus in passageway stimulates well... shit happens. No amount of you being mortified can compare to what *I* feel by letting you down.

And on that matter of housekeeping being over LOL, it's been good to read what all you guys think. I'm just glad I don't have to change anything about my service or what I do when I tour America next month. I think I'll do just fine

Aeryn

I prefer to see the same providers in part because of versatility and access. I feel comfortable with someone for whatever reason I like to see them again. If I am out of town I will see someone if they have high ratings and if they are within access. Sometimes I am in meetings all day and don't have time to freshen up before seeing someone so I need access to a shower. A few years ago I saw a very well known porno star whose apartment was by a restaurant kitchen. The workers saw me going in and all I could hear was the kitchen noise in her apartment. Plus the bathroom was a shared one down the hall. It was an awful experience. After that I been reluctant to see providers in areas I am visiting. But might change my mind time I am in the city to see Brooke...

When it comes to location, the only thing I really ask for is that I'm not going to get robbed before, during, or after the session.

A majority of the providers that I have seen were sharing the place with other girls. Some of the places were nice. Others not so much. As long as I don't get the roommate trick pulled on me, I can overlook the place not being so nice.

When it comes to travel time, I try to keep it to no more than hour. I won't go into certain parts of Brooklyn or Queens. Although I broke that rule with the last TS I saw.

I have been seeing TS for about 20 years now, and there are a few factors that lead me to be a repeat customer.
1 = Looks, at least be close to the pictures you advertise, don't be a guy in a wig, with a 5 o'clock shadow
2 = Attitude, you don't have to be in love with a client, but at the very least be polite and cordial to them
3 = Honesty, when you agree to a price, and what is going to occur during that session, come thru on
     your promise, if a client pays you the fee you ask for, then give them the session they ask for!
4 = Location, it doesn't have to be the Ritz, but a quiet, SAFE location is a must, a client doesn't want to
     go somewhere where he feels his life is in jeopardy.
5 = Cleanliness, I have never showed up to a session without a thorough scrubbing, teeth brushed, a
     warm cup of tea about an hour before to settle the stomach is good. The provider should also have
     good hygiene, just how you want a hobbyist to be clean, you should be also!
I have seen TS in NY, LA, Phoenix, and Florida, one in NY about 40 times, another in NY about 30 times and now she lives in Chicago and I have flown to Chicago just to see her, and I'm going back again real soon, and both of these girls receive a 50% tip because they are that good. On 3/13 I'm driving 200 miles to see a TS in Ft.Lauderdale because the she met all of my expectations and much more the last time I saw her, and she will be receiving the 50% tip. Karen Cummings from Las Vegas even though her price was quite high received a 50% tip because she was all of the above, and everything I asked for she did, and even went as far as during the session asking if she was dominating me exactly the way I wanted her to.

GFE is the thing with me, passionate DFK, versatile ladies who don't get scared when they see how huge I am. I'm big, I got into the TS thing because GG's won't agree to greek with me in most cases. I repeat with TS ladies who are GFE's, great sex, looks, and friendly. Price is not so much an issue with repeats, but since I have been burned on the VIP upgrade so many times, I don't usually go for expensive dates to begin with. That may explain why the TS GFE is so elusive, or at least not as many opportunities as there used to be, imo.

Simple put, you repeat and come back if you get what you want and been looking for.

ATTRACTIVE LOOKS (good looking face, nice bod/skin, feminent,passable.

PROFESSIONALISM (good attitude, not tricks, genuine honesty about ad and services, no rush, phone-courtesy, delight in person, personal hygiene,non-discriminating)

RATES (affordable donation$$, no additional-upselling, negotiable terms.

FUNCTIONALITY (get/stay hard, can’t perform with a wet noodle, also decent equipment,(over 5 inches”)

PERFORMANCE: performing service in oral, top, bottom, GFE or light kiss experience. Not just willing but expert in oral/intercourse fields.

Some things may be beyond her control and i tiry to accomodate and deal around inconvience best i can.like shady neighborhood atmosphere (girls are poor) difficult lingo, bad hair (forces some to wear wigs)  Some are a necessity ( like protective roommates) So long as it looks like that roommate is well hidden out of sight and
well away from session. Same goes for aggressive dog breeds.  

I believe if both have good connection and good chemistry, everything else would be fine, doesn't matter look, rates or race..Chemistry is what making someone want to see the same person over and over!
Especially when I can make clients Laugh and Erection at the same time, thats kinda turn me on...LOL.
I'm a pleasure so I always make sure I please them first, I do not care whether i'm pleased or no, I just throw it out there and have fun!

Yes, get well.  You are lovely.

I happen to have a thing for Asian T-girls.  I think they are the sexiest thing on earth.  My ATF travels the world and I don't get to see her as much as I would like.  TS Luanne.  Read her reviews, she is awesome.  I'm 62 and she treats me like a boyfriend.  Kissing is the best.  I've told her on numerous occasions, if I were a young man I'd take her away.