DID YOU KNOW THERE ARE NUMEROUS MEDICAL RISKS FROM DFK, LIKE HEPATITIS,SYPHILIS ,GONORRHEA!!!!!
THEN YOU ASK THE PROVIDER--ARE YOU CLEAN?
WHAT DO YOU THINK SHE IS GOING TO ANSWER?????
WHO IS TO BLAME ? THE ONE WHO PAYS FOR RISKY PRACTICES?? OR THE ONE WHO GETS PAID FOR IT???
SOME ONE IN THE ESCORTING BUSSINES WILL NEED TO GET TESTED EVERY DAY IN ORDER TO GIVE AN HONEST RESPONSE!!!!!
REMEMBER !!!! YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR OWN ACTS!!! KISS YOUR WIFE
DO NOT KISS A PROVIDER!!!!!!!!

Highendts, you seem knowledgable ...
Can you give me some tips on giving a good BJ? I visited Shylin back when she was in SF and tried to go down on her. I really wanted to please her, but I felt clumsy my first time. She was uncut and pretty big and I tried to swallow her while she laid back on the bed. Whenever I bobbed down, her penis head would sort of divert sideways into my cheek. I could see she was unsatisfied, but I didn't know how to get into a good position and rhythm. Can you help?? Is it realistic to want to make a TS cum in my mouth (covered of course).

Thanks - Danny

Sex is a social contract thus both parties share blame and profits for the consequences of mutually agreed upon activities.  

If my wife is a provider, then whom shall I kiss?

Last time I checked, the bathroom door handle that I touched this morning was far more deadly then a few drops of saliva shared with my ATF GFE T-Girl.

Oh, and all disease begins in the colon, not in the mouth.

If your wife is a provider with a STD and you plan on having kids , be ready to explain to them that if they were born with syphilis it was
not their fault !!!!only the consecuences of two adults who mutually agreed upon unsafe activities!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I fogot!!!!!!!! sex is one thing
making love is another!!!!!!!!

It's like how do you get to Carnegie Hall.....Practice practice practice!!!! Use your hands to direct the the penis

Individual anatomy obviously plays a big role. I mean your anatomy not hers.

My technique has been to curl my tong into a trough. That is one of those strange genetic things like attached versus unattached earlobes. You either have the gene to curl you tongue or you don't.

The test is to try to flip your tongue upside down. If you can do this then you have the gene.

The likelihood is then you can curl your tongue into a U shape and "guide" the tool into the back of the throat. While that is happening, you want to envision in your mind that you are swallowing a drink. This will relax your gag reflex and force your partners member further back into the right space.

When you feel yourself gag, swallow harder, it's a natural reflex your throat knows and is the only way I know to overcome the gag reflex. This will overcome the gag reflex and impress your partner.


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That is parental fault no matter how difficult it is to explain.  Difficulty of explaination has nothing to do with assignment of fault.  You are making a weak appeal to my social conscience and failing, not lobbbying an effective argument.

By your rationale, I shouldn't even shake hands with a provider as the human hand is a virtual petri dish smeared with bacteria, viruses, and other pathogens that make your rectum, mouth, and any other bodypart sanitary by comparison.

What can I do with a provider?  Perhaps sit in an adjacent ozone filtered plastic bubble while playing video games and discussing how much better we are than the ignorant folk enjoying human contact?

Herpes can be trans mouth to mouth.... The rest is really exajurated to a point of near absurdity..... Read some facts: (referance links provided, including Columbia University)

Open-mouth kissing, or "French kissing," is considered very low risk for HIV transmission. However, prolonged open-mouth kissing could damage the mouth or lips and allow HIV to pass from an infected person to a partner. Because of this possible risk, experts recommend that you refrain from open-mouth kissing with an infected partner.

http://www.ivillagehealth.com/library/nwh/content/0,,215912_227139,00.html

Herpes is probably the only disease that can be contracted by light (dry) kissing, but deep (French) kissing may transmit other STDs.

http://www.healthscout.com/ency/68/227/main.html

Deep Kissing (French Kissing, Tongue Kissing)
Studies have indicated that the virus is sometimes present in saliva but only at very low levels. There is no evidence that exchange of saliva transmits the virus, even in prolonged deep kissing. No cases of AIDS transmitted by kissing alone have been reported.

http://www.health.columbia.edu/ghap/news/risk_assesment.html

I think only HPV is oral, anal contagious.  There are more than 100 HPV various viruses, the most known being gential warts.  This is very at risk for GG in that HPV in women can lead to cervical cancer.  Since there are so many varities of HPV you are in danger of anal warts, gential warts, anal cancer, etc.  However, this is the stunner.  Condums are not a protection from HPV.  So HPV penal warts can produce HPV in anal exposure, gentital/penal exposure, or vaginal exposure.  Not a deadly virus unless it turns to cancer, but rather a embarrassing virus if you break out in the HPV warts, on penis, anus, or vagina.

Here... Here.. Well said Horizononfire. Wish I'd have said that.

Don't kiss anyone who is yellow and sickly. Hep B & C are blood born diseases. If you have open herpies sores on your dick and fuck a booty with hemroids without a condom you are in big trouble in more ways than the stated risks. If you are married keep you dick in your pants.