All I did was send a nice e-mail asking her when she was coming back to my area and I got a serious attitude reply. Was legit looking to book overnight, which is why I wanted a rough idea of timing. But she really turned me off. Won't see her now. Prob won't even beat off to her anymore.

Any suggestions for someone hot who is good for an overnight?

It's a business. These ladies get bombarded, so don't take it personally. Easy to get mad over a e-mail or unreturned call, but much harder to rebuild a burned bridge with a lady you would like to meet. Things can roll around your way again, in my opinion.

Thank you. And, believe me, I'm not a sensitive guy. Even I have been rejected before (and to my face! and it wasn't business!)  It was just a real turn-off what she said and the attitude she gave. I understand it's impersonal and they get bombarded. It seems to me easier for her to not reply at all or to write something short like "idk when."

I am satisfied to burn the bridge.

But for you more sensitive guys out there, don't take it personally.

Trust your gut.  Take her response totally seriously --- not with regard to your self-opinion, but to her as a prospect for someone to spend a night with.

And forget the opinions of some of the guys here.  Some are far too diffident toward even the worst bat-shit or sociopathic providers who continuously abuse and rip-off decent but gullible guys.  I'm no psychologist but suspect that some girls cannot reconcile their grandiose narcissistic driven self-images with what they grudgingly do to make a living.  The good ones are very rare and should be shown appreciation and treated well.  Let all of us know who they are, whatever side of the divide they are on.  That is (or should be) the purpose of this board.

well said

awesome girl - awesome attitude - awesome everything.  has to be much more to the story b/c she is as cool as it gets.  

sorry but someone needed to stick up for her ass, which might be the best ass on the planet.  she rocks.

b

Perhaps she is, but as the saying goes, you don't get a second chance to make a good first impression. I don't know what may have been going on with Foxxy that day, but it's not out of the realm of possibility that she did indeed respond in the manner that was described. Sucks, but that's why you don't do anything to piss off customers in a service industry, even if you're having one of the worst days of your life. She probably doesn't feel it's a big deal ("there's plenty more where he came from"), but to the guy who was the target, it's a very big deal indeed.

I was in Vegas a few years ago, around the first time she started doing porn (or atleast when I first noticed her).
I actually met her through another porn star, who I had met. Long story short, I called the chick that I had many previous encounters with, to try to set up a meeting for a few hours with both of them.  The plans fell through because they had something come up. I had to leave the next day and I really appreciated the way she (the provider o was familiar with) tried to make time to see me.  So before I left, I sent her a nice gift. To show my appreciation.

The next day, I got a text from an AZ number and it was Foxxy, asking me why she didn't get a gift. I told her it was because I didn't know her, but if I did know her, and the situations were similar id probably do the same thing.  So her and I talked for quite a while (period of months), and she was cool as fuck, we actually talked a LOT.  She called me one night and told me she was coming to Detroit on tour in a few weeks, she asked if we could get together. I said, "well sign me the fuck up!" (She is sexy as fuck)

The day before she got to Detroit, I got called away on business and had to leave the state. I called her to let her know I couldn't make it. No answer, so I left a msg. Followed up with a txt, just incase she didn't check her msgs. The next day I got a VERY rude voicemail and txt from her, cursing me out for blowing her off. After I had notified her before she even got to Detroit! I did talk to her after and it got straightened out, but it really just totally turned me
off to her.  Everytime we talked after that she had a huge attitude, so I quit talking to her.

My attempted connection went south way to fast when I tried to connect with Foxxy, I can also understand why so many providers, traveling or high profile get a bit jaded.  They do deal with idiot scammers all day long and have potential clients schedule and then never show, etc.  So, if I was in their shoes, I'd probably have a similar attitude.

What I think providers do need to not forget is that every inquiry via phone or email is not a scammer.  I myself am not married but considering many clients are married and have a very limited window for communication, session scheduling, actually meeting for the encounter, definitely needs to be considered.  

Maybe I'm off base but if I was married and wanted to have fun, the plan could change very quickly based on whats going on at home, etc.  

Again, just food for thought.......It is definitely an element in the flake factor that needs to be considered by providers because some guys have every intention of meeting then find out the PTA meeting at school conflicts with their plans........

Dog

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Hi everyone,

I haven't posted here in forever...I just so happened to be online to ask the moderators something and I came across this thread.

You know I am originally from Hawaii and I have lived in Vegas since the end of 2006. I didn't really know many people here, except for my friends whom I already knew from Hawaii. My old roommate knew Foxxy and she was probably the first TS I met since I moved here. Almost ALL the other Tgirls I met here I've met through her. In fact, when I go out to clubs, bars, etc.--most people know her and I've always heard nothing but great things about her. This is why I'm so shocked to hear all this.

Granted, there are two sides to every story and being a friend with someone is different from being a prospective client. Trust me even the greatest person in the world will not get along with everyone and although I didn't see or hear the communications you all had with her, I am very surprised to hear all this. What exactly did the email say? What did you say to her and what did she say back?  Was this your first communication with her or your 10th time asking to book an overnight that never materialized? These are the things that will keep it all in perspective.

Think about it...if you just sent her a nice email and it was your first time inquiring with her, why in the world would she be so rude? That would be like kissing 2 grand goodbye and it doesn't make any sense business wise. I'm not denying she could have put you off but I think almost every girl in this industry has put a guy off at one time or another and it's not always for no good reason.

Trust me if you look at a girl's reviews they often have a pattern--a girl who is a bitch from hell will NOT have consistent 8's, 9's and 10's in her reviews...especially if she has pages and pages of them.

9 times out of 10 it's not really worth it to have an opinion on here, but I thought I'd add my two cents because she's always been a great friend. Totally must be another "Foxxy". Maybe you were talking to "FoXXXXXY" or "Foxxee" or something LOL.

Aloha,

Brooke

Think it's always worth adding your thoughts to this board. Consistently good reviews vs a few guy's bad experiences. That's part of what is great about this board. Think next time I'm in Vegas, I'll send her an email just to see for myself, as that is often the only way to settle a question here.

Peace!