just curious, why do you think the first review was such a disaster?  and the other three gushing?  could it have been a different gal using alison's pics??

http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=204790

Review 1 was in June, review 2 in December. Maybe she got on a workout program and did some soul searching...

It was right after her first review and when she quoted her rate, which I believe was well above the average rate...$400 if I recall, I brought up the review.  She said she would not see anyone if she knew they were going to write a review. At that time, she was anti anyone who would write a review.  Who knows why. It sounded like that client leveraged writing a review for a discount an pissed her off.   Two sides to every story. I have no idea if that's true but that was my take.  Her youtube clips look nice, wish they were longer

Helloooo, Gents & Others...  

 
Just a moment's food for thought, as this particular part of the thread seemed something worth responding to, loves....

 

I do not know the provider in question, so I cannot speak on another's behalf, nor will I ever do so unless I personally know them, or have been told it's ok to do so....  So...what I wished to respond to,  is the part of this conversation which I have seen repeated over the years at different times in this and other forums...  "The "no recent reviews" question"...

 

in support of other providers,  I have not for example,  had a review since January of this year... well more than 6 months....  

 

....and of the 6 or 7 that over time have been written about me, they are all spread out over a 3 or 4 year period of time...  yet, I am established, lifetime committed, and still present...

 

So - in the mind of some seekers (either very new, OR very experienced) does that automatically mean that I, for example, am no longer a valid quantity, or that I have dropped off the map, or that the nature or quality of the connections I make have changed ?

 

I would argue that this question is not necessarily a good gauge of accuracy for a variety of reasons, and again, I can only speak from my own experience... so....I'll share....

 

...many years ago, I was trained into an upscale, but extremely low-key/under the radar/anti-drug/very clean/ agency environment...  

 

...and that was long before I became totally independent... and during that time, I can count on less than one hand the reviews that were written about any of our girls, myself included.... and at that time, I barely even knew of the existence of the TER... I was simply focused off in my own very private part of the world, so to speak...  

 

...it was actually years after I became independent, that my first review here was even written... but I was still very active in my own circles, and I am not a 20-something girl, nor ever tried to be -and that did not mean - for even a moment - that I was not still actively making exceptional quality, and still most often, lasting connections, and many special friends....  

 

...to be honest, many have now been with me for years, and most of whom, have either been deeply experienced all around the world before connecting with me,.. and clearly including some new seekers that I seem to have exceeded their initial expectations... (based on repeat dates and personal feedback, and quality of time that we've spent)...  

 

.....and as someone that is a mature public society woman, and the extreme opposite of any of the stereotypes,  and that I also run with an entirely straight/hetero/married/corporate/military & genetic female friends kind of  social crowd,  my levels of "discretionary needs" are often just as high, if not higher, than most that seek my company in some ways....  

 

so....for me, it seems as much the specific demographic of kinds of people I connect with - mostly always extremely discretionary, some very public, most very married, and/or very corporate, and all very, very, appreciative of the highly discreet nature of my postings, for example - and consistently, for years now...  

 

...and yet, for some reason, most of my own 'special friends' over time, are just not the kind of people either interested in writing reviews, or absolutely do not wish to engage themselves with any such forum, and for a variety of extremely valid personal and/or professional/discretionary reasons....which I would never fault them for, either

 

So...does that lack thereof, or time between, *always* necessarily make a provider a 'bad' one, or an 'inconsistent' one, or "no longer worth looking into" ?  

 

I would just simply have to argue "no", that could not possibly ever be true, 100% of the time....  

 

...yet - I do see such questions arise from time to time, and have even felt sorry for some of those providers, that may have had similar circumstances, or maybe a variety of other reasons,  or for not having had either a "lot" of reviews,  or maybe long periods of time between reviews,  or other potentially valid personal variants, loves....

 

I have always continued to do what I do with love and respect and genuine passion, whether I have been reviewed, or not... and that is, and has always been my way, and my personal level of commitment to my arts as a companion & erotic artist, and it truly hasn't changed.... and I will simply, (and fairly quietly) continue to do so, until I retire from it....

 

Just food for thought, and maybe just because someone is either "new" to reviews, or maybe has a good one and a fair one, or a good one and a bad one, or maybe months, or even a year between reviews, I would always say also find out for yourself, first...  Make the call, do various kind of diligence (of course), before making the leap, but my all means, never discount all of them, just because  a particular forum or another says "not to" or "doubtful" just because of trying to use this particular factor, as a 100% entirely accurate gauge of reality, for either "this provider or that one"....  

 

....the truly bad ones, flakes and fakes, and washouts will eventually weed themselves out, fall by the wayside, or be exposed,  and it will always take some unfortunate experience on the part of a seeker,  or seekers,  to discover that,  and then share that information with others...  and this is the truly good part about forums like this one,  which I ideally believe are supposed to be able to both support, and protect, all of us here, in our various endeavours...

 

No offense intended to anyone, this is a personal sharing and opinion to give additional perspective, and only from my own and not another's personal experience, and I would never wish to flame, or be rude, or untoward towards anyone here....not ever... this is not my way.  

 

Intelligent, mature, and openly warm discussion and dialogue however, always is...

 

Most Sincerely, & Safe Travels Always, All...

 

 
TheAngelaGirl        

-- Modified on 8/28/2013 6:13:01 PM

Wow.  
I don't really think time between reviews is an issue and I don't think that was the initial point of this post. I pointed it out in my post because I think a lot can happen in 6 months. This was my real point. Perhaps my attempt at a little sarcastic humor was lost? I know from girls I've seen over the years that they often don't have recent reviews, some only have one. Girls can drift in and out of the business, preventing them from getting reviews. Does this make them bad providers? In my opinion, no and it won't stop me from seeing them. I go out of my way to see unreviewed girls too, and always try to write a review after I see a girl (unless it's a repeat).

I do, however, think bad reviews are an issue. Note I say *reviews*, as everyone can have an off day and sometimes people just don't click. This hobby is a two way street and there are bad customers as well as bad providers. The girl in question in this post had an initial bad review but it obviously didn't stop others from seeing her and giving her very good reviews. I look at the reviewers if I am considering seeing a girl. All of the reviewers of this girl have posted a lot of reviews. Most of them are good reviews including those from the reviewer who posted the poor review of the girl mentioned in this post. That tells me they likely didn't click. I often throw out the high and the low review when I look at a girls reviews anyway. The truth generally lies somewhere in the middle in my opinion. As you said, the bad ones eventually washout or are exposed...

TER has saved me a lot of trouble and has helped me to have a lot of fun. However, I still use my judgement when it comes to the hobby and reviews are only part of the picture. As I said above, I will go out of my way to see unreviewed girls and have seen girls that have bad reviews or old/ inconsistent reviews. I've been burned by this philosophy before but have also been rewarded! I guess the more girls I see, the better I get at sniffing out the bullshit. There is, unfortunatley, a lot of bullshit in this business..

....and.... I know that I sidetracked the thread somewhat... one of the reasons I decided to engage that particular point was, as I had said, a question I had seen come up from time to time about "recent reviews" in the more general sense of providers, globally, over time....  

 
to be honest, within the last couple of months I had at least 3 different inquiries by either direct phone or email, in which I was actually asked (once, rather rudely) how or why is was that I did not have any more recent reviews, than within the last 6 to 8 months.... and to the extent that those inquirers seemed somewhat fixated on that particular concept, until I was able to briefly explain in person my own view on this subject, and allay their concerns that I was still active and available and positively oriented towards continuing in making nice connections....

 
...so I decided to risk being extremely open here & shamelessly sharing about myself here in the forum, and addressing that single question in particular - and again - no offense or rudeness was intended to you or anyone here, and as much intended for additional readers or new seekers, to give a somewhat different viewpoint....  

 
...or, at very least, explain from at least my own perspective of how, or why, sometimes that different companions may, or may not, have recent reviews, or even any reviews at all, and I deeply appreciated what you said here in this last response... I found it warmly open, honest in personal perspective, intelligent, and no - the attempt at some light sarcasm was not entirely lost on it, love...

 

 

Most kindly,  

LoveRespectAlways,

TheAngelaGirl