Helloooo, Gents & Others... 
Just a moment's food for thought, as this particular part of the thread seemed something worth responding to, loves....
I do not know the provider in question, so I cannot speak on another's behalf, nor will I ever do so unless I personally know them, or have been told it's ok to do so.... So...what I wished to respond to, is the part of this conversation which I have seen repeated over the years at different times in this and other forums... "The "no recent reviews" question"...
in support of other providers, I have not for example, had a review since January of this year... well more than 6 months....
....and of the 6 or 7 that over time have been written about me, they are all spread out over a 3 or 4 year period of time... yet, I am established, lifetime committed, and still present...
So - in the mind of some seekers (either very new, OR very experienced) does that automatically mean that I, for example, am no longer a valid quantity, or that I have dropped off the map, or that the nature or quality of the connections I make have changed ?
I would argue that this question is not necessarily a good gauge of accuracy for a variety of reasons, and again, I can only speak from my own experience... so....I'll share....
...many years ago, I was trained into an upscale, but extremely low-key/under the radar/anti-drug/very clean/ agency environment...
...and that was long before I became totally independent... and during that time, I can count on less than one hand the reviews that were written about any of our girls, myself included.... and at that time, I barely even knew of the existence of the TER... I was simply focused off in my own very private part of the world, so to speak...
...it was actually years after I became independent, that my first review here was even written... but I was still very active in my own circles, and I am not a 20-something girl, nor ever tried to be -and that did not mean - for even a moment - that I was not still actively making exceptional quality, and still most often, lasting connections, and many special friends....
...to be honest, many have now been with me for years, and most of whom, have either been deeply experienced all around the world before connecting with me,.. and clearly including some new seekers that I seem to have exceeded their initial expectations... (based on repeat dates and personal feedback, and quality of time that we've spent)...
.....and as someone that is a mature public society woman, and the extreme opposite of any of the stereotypes, and that I also run with an entirely straight/hetero/married/corporate/military & genetic female friends kind of social crowd, my levels of "discretionary needs" are often just as high, if not higher, than most that seek my company in some ways....
so....for me, it seems as much the specific demographic of kinds of people I connect with - mostly always extremely discretionary, some very public, most very married, and/or very corporate, and all very, very, appreciative of the highly discreet nature of my postings, for example - and consistently, for years now...
...and yet, for some reason, most of my own 'special friends' over time, are just not the kind of people either interested in writing reviews, or absolutely do not wish to engage themselves with any such forum, and for a variety of extremely valid personal and/or professional/discretionary reasons....which I would never fault them for, either
So...does that lack thereof, or time between, *always* necessarily make a provider a 'bad' one, or an 'inconsistent' one, or "no longer worth looking into" ?
I would just simply have to argue "no", that could not possibly ever be true, 100% of the time....
...yet - I do see such questions arise from time to time, and have even felt sorry for some of those providers, that may have had similar circumstances, or maybe a variety of other reasons, or for not having had either a "lot" of reviews, or maybe long periods of time between reviews, or other potentially valid personal variants, loves....
I have always continued to do what I do with love and respect and genuine passion, whether I have been reviewed, or not... and that is, and has always been my way, and my personal level of commitment to my arts as a companion & erotic artist, and it truly hasn't changed.... and I will simply, (and fairly quietly) continue to do so, until I retire from it....
Just food for thought, and maybe just because someone is either "new" to reviews, or maybe has a good one and a fair one, or a good one and a bad one, or maybe months, or even a year between reviews, I would always say also find out for yourself, first... Make the call, do various kind of diligence (of course), before making the leap, but my all means, never discount all of them, just because a particular forum or another says "not to" or "doubtful" just because of trying to use this particular factor, as a 100% entirely accurate gauge of reality, for either "this provider or that one"....
....the truly bad ones, flakes and fakes, and washouts will eventually weed themselves out, fall by the wayside, or be exposed, and it will always take some unfortunate experience on the part of a seeker, or seekers, to discover that, and then share that information with others... and this is the truly good part about forums like this one, which I ideally believe are supposed to be able to both support, and protect, all of us here, in our various endeavours...
No offense intended to anyone, this is a personal sharing and opinion to give additional perspective, and only from my own and not another's personal experience, and I would never wish to flame, or be rude, or untoward towards anyone here....not ever... this is not my way.
Intelligent, mature, and openly warm discussion and dialogue however, always is...
Most Sincerely, & Safe Travels Always, All...
TheAngelaGirl
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