Answers to your questions, Neona65,

1. Well, what heterosexual male DOESN'T like a hot girl "licking the area under a man's testicles up to the anus?" I'd say the answer is BOTH - the area is extremely sensitive and you're probably one of the few women he's ever encountered who's willing to go the extra inch, so to speak

2. Tiny beautiful hands - don't despair; use a prostate dildo, a butt plug or even a special prostate vibrator that is curved at the end. Available at a well-stocked adult toy store.

What a gal, what a gal,
The Love Goddess

I am a provider who is very skilled at oral and it is my favorite activity.  I have recently started licking the area under a man's testicles up to the anus and fall just a little short of actual rimming.  (maybe one of these days that will be on my menu).  Anyway, I've noticed that when I stimulate that area it makes the man's erection harder than it was getting with other stimulation.

Is it because I am stimulating that area or is it the guy is just excited that I am in that area causing him to get harder?

Also, I imagine its been asked repeatedly but is there a way to stimulate a man's prostate without inserting a finger in his backside?  I ask because my fingers are very small and even though I have tried a few times with different men, I have yet to be able to actually reach the prostate and would like to know if there's something else I can do to do that for him.

LG ." Well, what heterosexual male DOESN'T like a hot girl "licking the area under a man's testicles up to the anus?" I'd say the answer is BOTH - the area is extremely sensitive and you're probably one of the few women he's ever encountered who's willing to go the extra inch, so to speak
2. Tiny beautiful hands - don't despair; use a prostate dildo, a butt plug or even a special prostate vibrator that is curved at the end. Available at a well-stocked adult toy store.


 What LG said is right on the spot.
Don't expect to read about it in your reviews.
 Many of us are much more shy in public than private.

lilli"i have even experienced a man reaching orgasm...and a mighty powerful one at that...from my tongue delicately exploring his anus."

I always stop her, before I have a orgasm from her rimming, or other related techniques. I like it as foreplay,leading to my quest for the ultimate O. I have no doubt I  could easily O if I let her continue more than a few minutes..I agree with the delicate tongue.
I reserve it for my special times with special women.  I've never had her tell me no,or stop that, when I started rimming her.Usually she will say "Yes OH Yes That feels so good", over and over . Occasionally she will ask for Greek if I explore just right. I'm not really into Greek. If she's asking for Greek,I will rim until she begs.
Once she starts begging, in the heat of the moment, her wish is my command.
It works both ways . The right women have had me begging, and their way with me.

hi Neona...hope you don't mind getting two cents from another provider...*smiles*

fellatio is also my favorite sexual activity, and i also derive great pleasure from being as attentive and thorough as possible. the answer to your first question is simple...it is both the psychological high of you going above and beyond to please him, as well as the intense physical high of the sensation itself that causes a heightened arousal when you orally attend to certain areas. if you ever decide to cross the final frontier into rimming (which i highly recommend btw), you will notice an even more intense arousal in most men. to my initial surprise, i have even experienced a man reaching orgasm...and a mighty powerful one at that...from my tongue delicately exploring his anus.

ha, yes i have a friend who always stops me after 2 or 3 minutes because he does not want to cum that way...yet he always pushes me down there, so i guess those few minutes are worthwhile, lol.

i agree with you that it is an act best reserved for special people. it is not something i would even consider with most men...(for me, it is just so passionate and intimate). but with the right man it is just inconceivable not to please him in such a way. however unlike you i do not like to receive. the sensation is not pleasant but more importantly the psychological aspect is an overwhelming turn-off. i wish to serve, not be served.

"unlike you i do not like to receive."

I would never  ask a employee to do something I won't do. I often show them,I can do their job.
I don't have any  problems requesting they do their job, much longer than my demonstration.
Fortunately everyones different. I enjoy giving and receiving.

Just wanted to report back that I tried actually rimming tonite,  the guy didn't last more than a couple of minutes once I started.

So I think I have found a new trick.  thanks for the advice LG and everyone else in this thread.

Question of clarification: Was that comment about rimming? Or DATY too?