I know we have guys of various ages here but several who are retired or semi-retired.
As someone approaching that milestone, I'd be interested in thoughts both on living this life and how it affects this the lifestyle.
Couple of questions: I do have other hobbies and activites, but wondering about some of the things you do OTHER than chasing pussy, understanding that this pursuit can take a lot of time.
Also, what are the advantages or disadvantages of being a retired daddy? Sure you have more time, but does it affect your image in the eyes of the SBs? I wonder if retirement makes folks more price sensitive. I have a good nest egg but the income will be lower
I'm looking forward to this in a lot of ways, but also on thelookout for surprises.
I noticed a drop-off in DMs once I hit 66. I also cap it 400 per meet. I don't perform nearly as well as I did 15 years ago so I just say bye when the lady asks much higher than that. I occasionally will splurge since I have a play fund from blackjack. But it's still my money and sometimes d rather keep the cash and let Rosy do the trick
My thoughts, I'm not planning on retirement soon, is to make sure you plan your budget for your lifestyle in retirement. So if SBs and pussy are important, plan it just like you do while working.
As far as appearance, it may make a young woman feel creepy. I'm dating a retired grandpa. Or it may be a turn on that a retired silver fox wants to give her attention.
Tip o'the hat to netnoy on this:
This applies to financial and time budgets.
Financial budget: When I made the decision to retire, I had several consultations with my financial advisor, my tax advisor, and my attorney. In fact, as I approached the final trigger pull, I had all three meet together to review my plans, look at contingencies and create hedges against the more unlikely but possibly devastating scenarios in my plan. Throughout all of this planning, I was very clear about what my spending patterns were and what I expected them to be going forward. So I literally have my sugar budget included in my 20+ year plan. In addition, I track my monthly sugar spend just like I do my other expenses like mortgage and other bills.
This gives me the freedom to spend on Sugar without worrying that I may literally be fucking myself out of critical living expenses 10-15 years from now.
Time budget: We all have passions, activities, and obligations outside of banging hotties. No, really! You may need to wait for a post-nut moment of clarity to realize what they are, but you have them as well. Just like I manage my financial budget, so do I create and manage my time budget. I allocate so many days a month to each desired activity; family, friends, community organizations I enjoy, health and fitness activities, and perhaps most importantly, down time. And I let each SB know that as a retired guy, I have schedule flexibility, as long as I schedule at least a week ahead. That means I almost never accept a spontaneous "meet now" request, because as far as she (and I mean every she) knows, I am a busy man. I never want to project the vision that I just sit at home watching CNN (or whatever other biased news source you prefer. LOL!) and yelling at those kids to "Get off my lawn, dammit!"
This all fits the overall manscape/non-simp paradigm as well. We do not exist to spend money on her whenever she wants. Quite the opposite. We are happy to be generous to her when she accommodates our scheduled needs.
As for price sensitivity, I don't see any real impact from retirement. But as I mentioned, I have already baked my sugar spend into my budget plan, and as I advocate for all of us, I only negotiate allowances based on my budget. If you expect your discretionary income, including your sugar-spend to reduce after retirement, then it is vital that you properly account for that in your post-retirement budget and stay in plan.
But even then, you may not have to reduce the "price" as you can accomplish the cash savings by reducing the frequency of BCD dates and M&G's. So instead on one BCD per week, you could achieve a 25% reduction by scheduling one BCD every 10 days.
It's all about the 3 steps of budgeting:
1. Make a good plan based on verified data and expert advice.
2. Execute that plan.
3. Review periodically and revise if needed.
Then repeat steps 2 and 3 going forward.
Life is good
The Cat
I retired just over a year ago. You can't spend money you don't have, so obviously that can be a limit on frequency.
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There are chickies who will do you for the money no matter your age. Yes, you're going to not get them all. But remember, we probably don't have budget for all of them anyhow. There'll be more than enough. My limit has never been my looks or age. It has always been my bank balance.
I've been retired for 10 years. The weird thing is that I now have both more income and more wealth than when I retired. Turns out, I'm much better at managing my investments than I ever was at running my business. So my sugaring budget is easier to manage than ever. As for other passions, I'm an avid, lifelong motorcyclist. Now that I'm retired I have the time and money to curate my collection, ride them, work on them, and do a bit of buying and selling for fun. Staying fit for as long as possible enables me to continue riding both my bikes and my babes.
If you are once a month pussy, at say $400 per meet, kind of guy, I would suggest go supplement your income by doing something fun and make additional money. Is that a possibility? Is your health good enough to do that? I work with someone like that.. Gentleman is 66 and ends up making $500-600 per month just doing side gigs for me and several of my business associates who are in similar business as I am..
If your budget in $4000-5000 a month then you can always consider traveling to foreign countries like Phillipines, Thailand, or even Costa Rica. Pussy is cheap over there.. Go every other month and have a ball.. $1000 will take you long ways.. That's what I would do if I were in the 2nd bucket.. Maybe you can establish a long term girl over there..
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