So i go to vegas to party and meet with providers. Im in my early twenties. Sometimes before I meet with a lady Im already a little drunk. So i have no trouble getting hard when Im drinking but I just can't cum sometimes. Why is that? I can stay hard for days but if ive been drinking sometimes I just can't finish.

Also would you call that whisky dick or extacy dick? Im not doing drugs, just drinking. I was talking to a stripper and she said that she would call it extasy dick becasue whisky dick is when you can't get hard? Right?

Dear BoyToy4U,

It doesn't really matter what you call it, extasy dick or whisky dick. It's all the same, meaning that there is no surefire way to control your erection when you are under the influence of a stimulant/depressant drug that has not been administered in a controlled manner. When you take extasy, you don't know what you're getting, unless it comes from a controlled lab. As far as alcohol goes, it's known to affect erectile capacity and ejaculatory function.

As to how your body will react, it's a very individual matter. Some men can't get erect when they've consumed ANY alcohol; others seem to be able to drink bottles of it and their penis still stays up. Others stay hard for hours but are unable to ejaculate. Same thing with extasy, although anecdotal accounts point to the fact that overwhelmingly, extasy contributes to erectile dysfunction.

Whatever you call it, clearly, alcohol in significant amounts is not beneficial when you're aiming for a dysfunction-free sexual experience. Your best bet is to stay as clear-headed as possible, with a good night's rest and healthy nourishment in your system. And as far as the comparison with drugs versus alcohol goes - they are ALL detrimental to your health - none is "better" or "less harmful" than the other.

Lay off the sauce and make your own please,
The Love Goddess

If anyone has used the new "bath salts", sold in tobacco or head shops in approx. 36 states. The affects of the salts are compared to those of coke. From my experience, the salts do not interfere with erection or ejaculation as does coke. I'd be interested to know of other's opinions.

I have the issue where when I am out drinking and have sex later,I get hard and stay hard for a good while,at least an hour,till I cum. If only I could find a happy medium cause when I am stone cold sober can barely make it 5-10 minutes.I have even had times where I cum in under 2 minutes after insertion,thank god for msog with providers