First and foremost, welcome to the bowl. There are broadly two types of relationships with SD’s. There’s a PPM (pay per meeting) which is where you pay here every time you see her. This is broadly the preferred method for most of the folks on this site for obvious reasons. That is where you see the 200-300 range described. There is also an allowance setup. This is where you set up a recurring guaranteed amount every month regardless how many times you see her. There’s pro’s and cons with both and with a little research thru this board you’ll come across answers on both. As a general rule, get to the initial meet and greet ASAP as this is the only way you will know if she is legit and more importantly if it’s someone you want to see on a regular basis. Try to avoid getting too much of the money discussion till you meet although sometimes it’s unavoidable. Lastly, if you are using SA to communicate, do not, I repeat DO NOT engage in any discussion around PPM or BCD activities on the site. You will get banned very quickly and there are 100’s of posts on this board of even slightly innocuous things guys have said which gets them banned. Everybody is aware of the general nature of the re.action ships but refrain from anything of the sort on the site. Spend some time looking they all the strings of chats on this board as there is a wealth of knowledge around the do’s and don’ts of being in an SD /SB relationship. Would strongly suggest doing the research prior to engaging.