Here's my problem.....I met a mature semi pro escort, almost one year ago and I've seen her about 8 or 9 times and we've always enjoyed our time together.  She insists I call her by her real name and also gave me her private phone number. We talk alot before our sessions, which can last for 3-4 hours and she insists I pay only for an hour. Lately she has been acting up and not returning my calls or perhaps not as quickly as I would like. She called me 2 weeks ago and we set up a meeting and I have not heard from her since.
Not even a call back to tell me why I was stood up.

What's the best way to deal with her.....she's a non pro in the sense, she does not escort regularly and is pretty laid back about length of time for a session. Infact I'm the one always trying to move things along. She's a sweet lady and I would hate to just move on, to the next woman, much as I've done in the past with alot of the younger ladies.

How would you suggest I handle this?

Thanks.

to the extent that she has decided to break off the relationship, and that's what this is basically, a relationship.

It might have started as purely business, but there are enough telltale signs there for anyone to see what has been going on.

It is possible that she had some medical or family emergency and that's why you haven't heard from her.  

If she calls you back and explains her absence, what is your attitude towards her?
What kind of relationship do you want anyways?
Do you see her as a girlfriend or even more?

In other words, what exactly is the problem you have?

It seems your relationship went above and beyond the initial context. Perhaps she felt that things were getting too emotionally intense or were otherwise overstepping set boundaries and decided that for her sake and/or yours, she needed some space. Obviously she could have told you this, but for now it may be best to accept and respect the fact that she, for whatever reason, cut off contact. Just speculating, of course, but given the circumstances it seems likely. The other possibility is that it was a family or personal emergency, in which case it is still best to move on and let her contact you if and when she can.

XoXo,
Marea

Please, be completely lost no more,

When in doubt - do nothing. You were unceremoniously and callously dumped - if we can even call it that. Semi pro or not, it seems she didn't feel she owed you an explanation before severing the relationship.

This is what can happen when you pay people by the hour. Like any old tradesperson, they can vanish, just like that. As long as there is a paying relationship, it's more than likely that she felt that she amply provided for the fee she obtained from you.

As harsh as it may seem, as long as you engage in paid encounters, you may have to "move on." This is not a long-term relationship prospect, it's paid sex. And you got more than you bargained for, literally and figuratively.

Please nurse your wounds and go on - or better yet, have someone else do the "nursing,"
the Love Goddess

first, try some good cursing.

Then: it's a new day,
get a new lay.

(May turn out: not worse thing.)

That's a great response, LG!