Nearly Every  super gorgeous 10/10 type profile I open in the LA/OC area has this text in the seeking section or something similar to it  

“ … looking for a memorable time at the THE event-nights”

“… only contact if you are part of THE event nights …”

Any clue as to what these might be — a high end pimping service ?

You will get someone who will reply with how to join their super exclusive dating club.  For a few of course

I did a quick text search for "the event" on Google and in profiles within 30 miles of LA and could not find any references (other than an old TV show called "The Event).  

 
Can you please DM me with some profile links? I'll take a look.  

 
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The Cat

Maybe they were caught out by SA as promoting commercial activities, or whatever, but I believe that the profiles currently promoting THE events are a rebranding of the previous LOVE events.

I've been seeing the term, seeking a date at The-Nights. The description I found is "If you're "seeking a date at THE-nights," it likely means you're looking for a partner to go out to a vibrant nightlife scene, typically characterized by energetic music, dancing, and a lively atmosphere at a club or bar often referred to as "THE" spot in a particular area."

I used to see the similar taglines talking about the "LOVE community" or "LOVE events" or "LOVE nights".  As others have said, seemed to be a scam to get you to sign up for some kind of service and either the profiles were all fakes or maybe some kind of kickback to the profile folks for signups.

Sounds the same, but the surreal part to me is that "THE community", "THE events", and "THE nights" are absolutely impossible to Google, so the profile kind of points you at a thing but gives you absolutely no way to actually look at, connect with, or get sucked into the thing.  I dunno, maybe the hook is getting sent a link after you start talking, but it just seems really stupid to me to use a tagline that doesn't let you go find it if you're idly curious about what it means.

Whatever ...

So I noticed this too! Chatted with a girl off the site on telegram about this and she sent me this:

First and foremost, I apologize for any inconvenience in having to address this twice. I am a representative of THE, an exclusive and close-knit upscale sugar dating community.

THE's recent launch is called NightHustle where we facilitate dates between a member and a love girl, private dates at a time and a place of your choosing, yet making sure that both the parties are protected from various forms of exploitation that may concern you otherwise. You may also fly in girls from all over the world using Flypals.

THE is a distinguished community where our sugar girls (THEgirls) host intimate and private events filled with engaging activities. It's important to note that each event is a one-on-one experience; no group activities occur, ensuring complete privacy as no two members interact with each other during these gatherings. THE stands as one of the oldest and perhaps most renowned private upscale sugar dating communities.

Our presence spans multiple cities across Europe, Asia, and the US, encompassing over 75 tier-one cities worldwide.

THE caters to individuals who seek only the finest companions and unparalleled experiences and have the financial means to support such a lifestyle (Membership fees start at $4000 with members typically spending around $2,500 per night at these events).

If you wish to know more about the events, the kind of events that are usually hosted, what events are upcoming in your city, how we make privacy as the single most important aspect at THE, how the network works, about the THE girls and how they are enrolled and various other things or if you wish to enroll yourself, please reach out via Telegram at NIGHTSofTHE. Joining us could very well be the best decision you ever make concerning your sugar dating life. We promise it will leave you grinning from ear to ear!

Sounds like a huge scam.

The atrempt to flex with both vocabulary and an attempt at elevated grammar is a a dead giveaway to me that this is a scam

If you have to work that hard with your words to sound worth 4000$ then I'm gonna take a pass.

What this describes is not Sugar Dating. This just a high-end escort site masquerading as sugaring. It's the opposite of Sugar Dating where a nice, older guy with disposable income meets and dates (more than just fucks) a nice, pretty woman from the neighborhood who likes the company of older guys and appreciates the financial help (and sometimes life-building skills), they provide.  

 
That is why Seeking wants to ban it from their site. And I'll suggest it's why we should always avoid, if not block (and possibly report) such profiles.  There are other sites to find and hire high-end hookers and I am happy they are around! But Sugar Dating sites are not the place for this...

 
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I agree with Herb.  If this is not an outright scam, it's something that gives seeking, and us, a bad rap.  As a scam, they really only need 1-2 people to pay them 4k and they are in the clear.  

 If it's not a scam, that's a lot more than most high end bookers charge to make your first appointment.  One, who's name gets flagged here, wants 1k up front and that goes to your first booking.  So there's no risk since they do leak some of their talent.  I booked Mia Lelani a few days after sending the money and just had to pay her the remaining $500.  Not $4000 for some membership bullshit.  

Shit like this is why seeking has a bad public image.  Granted, their rep is their own fault initially.  But they were trying to clean it up by separating from escorts.  It's also extremely foolish in general to allow another business to advertise on your platform.  It's like Target letting Walmart post ads on their website.  

Legit sites that offer high end escorts are in the news a lot.  Just look at all the shit Matt Gaetz is accused of.  Not here to start a political discussion, but we want to keep our hobby low profile.  We need to keep this type of playtime separate boys.  And the girls who legit want to spend time with us will appreciate your efforts.

Thanks for the explanation  

As I guessed, high end pimping service

I don’t have vip on here to DM, lol

But you should see atleast one pop up on the very first page - try Newport Beach w like 10 mile radius

Just a few days ago:

"I help elite men to find arrangements and dates with real vetted women.
No long chats, No bs.
All is willing to do a call and video before meeting.
These are not average internet girls.
They are vetted and real."

Of course the type and number of red flags here are obvious.  I was considering replying just for the fun of wasting their time.  But nah,, too much work for too little amusement.  My question is, how the fuck did they get my telegram number/id/whatever and find me on there?

How did they get your contact info?  That's a great question.  

 
I get any number of spam texts daily on my Telegram, What'sApp, and Google Voice apps. But almost all of them are the standard Pig Butcher script.  None have appeared to have any specific info about me or my sugaring life.  

 
Perhaps a past-scammer?  

 
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The Cat