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Usual PPM
Nycborn 22 reads
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Ended up just giving her usual PPM.  Instead bought her some sexy lingerie which she modeled for me. All in an expense overnight with hotel show dinner etc. But a great time.  Spent more than 24hra with her without getting bored.

Nycborn798 reads

Just started dating a SB. We are going to do a overnight soon after dinner and a show at her place.  I have been giving her $400 per meeting.  Would you give more for an overnight?

Thanks in advance for your assitance

If it's reasonable go for it.

This could go either way and you should discuss with her.
On one hand, it's a single date and your PPM is not per-fuck. You're also taking her our on the town which could be expensive. If you expect to part ways in the morning I wouldn't necessarily offer more. But if you want to spend the morning shtupping in bed.. consider an extra incentive.

Did the two of you just organically decide to do a sleepover as part of a bigger conversation about having fun together?  

 
Or did you send her a direct request to stay overnight on your next date?  

 
If it was part of an organic conversation, and she has not specifically asked for more allowance, I'd assume no additional is expected. But I would also make sure to give her a gift or some more cash (maybe another $100? certainly not double allowance) as a thank for her extra time and attention. Making her feel appreciated may be more important than the actual number. And as someone else pointed out, we want to stay away from the paradigm of X money for Y time - that's for escorts, not people dating.  

 
If you initiated the request "out of the blue," you may want to ask her if she needs any additional help for staying with you for the extended date.  

 
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The Cat

I never did an increase but that is because I'm not paying for extra meals.  Breakfast along with dinner.  Alcohol going out for drinks or bringing it home.  Especially if we go to a concert.  Now, if she's taking time off work for us to do this, it's another story.

Nycborn15 reads

So much for your advice.  I think I will give her a little more.

Nycborn23 reads

Ended up just giving her usual PPM.  Instead bought her some sexy lingerie which she modeled for me. All in an expense overnight with hotel show dinner etc. But a great time.  Spent more than 24hra with her without getting bored.

It means you both like each other.  It's not just sex and money.  Or some attention and some money in her case.  A lot of girls like an older guy giving them attention.  Buying them things.  The sex can be fun or just what they say give a guy anyone who bought them dinner.  

I'd say keep at it from time to time.  She sounds like a keeper.

"Spent more than 24hra with her without getting bored."

 
I think this needs to be emphasized.  You made sure this was a mutually enjoyable experience.  You paid attention to her and stayed "in the moment" during the date.  That's what two people on a date would do, rather than a John hiring a hooker to be available for sex for 24 hours. She was not just an appliance you took with you for a day, left in the hotel room until you needed to use her.  

 
This is the very essence of Sugar Dating, and I expect it's what draws most of us (if not all) here, even more than the sex with a hot babe.  

 
Thank you for showing us how it's done!  

 
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The Cat

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Thanks for the sage advice and support.

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