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The Erotic Highway

This is a trend, sadly
sweetman 93 Reviews 48 reads
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Soooo many girls on SA now insist on a meetup fee.  And they expect it to be paid in advance via a payment app.  since I categorically refuse to do this, I've been unsuc cessful more often than in the past.  I think there's a lot of misinformation ab out Sugar dating and SA going around on social media like TiokTok which has these girls thinking they are gonna get paid for eating dinner.  And  some of them are simply scammers with no intention of actually meeting you hoping you will send them money.

carlhungus825 reads

I logged on to SA for the first time in maybe a year, at least.

Not quite as many POTS show up in some of my saved searches compared to the past.  In the past, it seemed that searches listed more POTS than I would ever have time to finish viewing.  Now, a couple of my searches come up with 7 total profiles or more, but not a full page.  I figured that is because some of my past search criteria included $ considerations like "Negotiable" or "luxury" or whatever they used to list.  That's all I can think of, anyway.

After I found a search that yielded several pages of profiles I got to viewing them.  The one that caught my eye that I figured was worth sharing wrote what I thought sounded good at first, but then went downhill fast.    "I do PPM..."  Alright! Like it!  "...including the day of meeting whether it goes well or not."  Pass.  "It's my time I have offered to spend getting to know you."  There's more POTS in sea.   She is good looking, but with her words, not for me.

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sweetman49 reads

Soooo many girls on SA now insist on a meetup fee.  And they expect it to be paid in advance via a payment app.  since I categorically refuse to do this, I've been unsuc cessful more often than in the past.  I think there's a lot of misinformation ab out Sugar dating and SA going around on social media like TiokTok which has these girls thinking they are gonna get paid for eating dinner.  And  some of them are simply scammers with no intention of actually meeting you hoping you will send them money.

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AnotherDonJohn51 reads

I have no problem with ponying up the cost of gas and a nominal “getting ready” fee ($50- 100 max) for the M&g after we’ve sat down at the table. It’s not enough to pay her to eat with an asshole but it’s enough that she’s not taking an outright loss. Believe me I think I’m worth the time lol… but they only know that once they meet me and I don’t want some broke pretty young thang thinking twice that night because she can’t get to the date… it’s a similar principle to sending an Uber for her plus a little makeup/ dress up  premium. When applied judiciously (and no prepaids!), this has yielded me a few long term SBs, but it’s also led to a equal number of walk aways, the ones Sweetman alludes were just there to eat. No biggie, that’s an acceptable loss and sunk cost. Plus I usually insist on sitting side by side at the meal to talk, and so I usually get to cop some feel (Which is helpful screening the curvies) which has some value. So def don’t be firing off $50 cashapps sight unseen…

My best success with this transpo reimbursement (21 yo pawg) told me after a few dates that the C- note screens out the broke guys because she had experienced a few guys who are only pretending to have the dough here (no surprise). To give more background, it was a traditional M&G without BCD time and so I wondered if it was loss when she hadn’t explicitly agreed to move forward by a few days later. Could have been she was just a unique SB…

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AsianManNOVA59 reads

I know GaG opposes the M&G fee strongly, but he is not here anymore. :) I am OK with paying 50-100 for her transportation fee and preparation time. It also shows you are for real. Of course I will only pay after the M&G. A lot if times, we go straight to BCD after the meet so this doesn’t happen often anyway.

-- Modified on 12/24/2021 2:12:56 PM

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benwabbles48 reads

I wonder if we should all add a little "disclaimer":

📌 Note: Recently there's a lot of misinformation about Sugar dating and SA going around on social media regarding a fee for an initial meetup. Not talking about a little Uber or babysitter help provided after the meet and greet, but payment in advance with a payment app. If this is your mode of operation, please do not contact me. Good luck!

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sweetman48 reads

I've been tempted to put something like that on my own profile.  But so far I've resisted since it comes across as very negative.  I've read lots of SBs' profiles that have long lists of stuff they don't want, for example don't ask for my private pics without talking to me first, don't contact me if you're not in my city, don't contact me if you're a Trump supporter, don't this, don't that. It's a turn off. I want my own profile to have a positive feel to it.  But I feel ya, this trend is obnoxious!

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benwabbles46 reads

All good points. It would be better off as a check box put in by SA.

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herbtcat50 reads

I have to agree with Sweetman, of course.  

 
I'm not a fan of negative statements or a list of "do nots" in my profile. Just like SB profiles with these, I don't want to appear jaded or like I run a "bang and bail" shop.  It's the same reason I hide my join date.  If POT SB's knew I've been banging 20-somthings for cash for over 8 years (not including 3 years on WYP before that!), well, I don't think they'd see me as that sweet, successful guy with some spare cash who's looking for some companionship and innocent fun.  I'd just be another old slob perv with no game trying to bang chicks on the cheap (which is what I am).

 
When I see a long "no" list on an SB profile, I know she's either a pro/semi-pro, or just looking for fast meetups for max cash/min effort and she'll never be back.  Now there's nothing wrong with either of those, IF that is what you are looking for.  

 
So I accept that I will need to deal with unrealistic expectations like pre-M&G cash, etc. After a while you can see these problems early, usually within the first 2-4 texts.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

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useyrhead46 reads

I haven’t had a sugar relationship for a while. But I’m sure my response to girls with unreasonable demands would be the same now as it used to be.

 
“That sounds like a great arrangement! You should go for that and take good care of any SD who offers it. They are quite rare.”

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