Just some quick notes on some interesting insight from the younger set.
So, I’ve recently hooked up with a couple of hot 18 year olds.  Not sure exactly how or why, but enjoying life to the fullest!   For fun, I’ve been quizzing them both on their SA (Seeking) experiences.  An upshot:
They both get between 25-50 messages per day…if they do a long weekend somewhere, they are looking at an overwhelming 100+ or so messages Monday morn.
The culling process seems to go something like this:
1) Photo, handsome, younger guys first
2) Prospect of money
3) Something clever, especially mentioning an item from their profile
Turnoffs:
“Hey baby, what’s up” …you get it, the 1-3 sentences of crap
Second: what appears to be a paste in job – yeah, they sense it.
Third: any mention of sex or how you are so important
Fourth, the long winded story of your life.
When asked directly why they picked me from the chaff: looked OK, my EU lifestyle caught their interest, and I didn’t seem like a total jerk
LOL

Which is why they are jerks.

That eliminates 90% of the competition.

The rest is a bit of good fortune.

Seems when fortune goes one's way, it comes in buckets!  Just added a third, hot 18 yo to the mix!  Now, this is breaking new ground for me since I've never been able to juggle more than two and will probably find a way to fuck it up along the way.  lol
Tapped her brain a bit and got essentially the same culling process.  Oh yeah, all three mentioned that Net Worth was an important consideration in their minds - which is funny since obviously anyone can list anything.
Of course, I'm not saying their mental processes are any different the 'older' ladies, but I never gave it too much thought until now...but the content of my messaging has significantly shifted when directing comments to this subset and apparently with good success!

with girls under 30.  They put handsome, younger guys first, which is not in their best interests.  It shows me they are REALLY looking for a traditional boyfriend, but with money, not a SD who doesn't want any strings with the relationship.  They should be on Match.com, or other "dating" websites, but these don't usually incorporate money or financial depth into their dating profiles.  The girls over 30 understand the nature of a SB/SD relationship better, and I have found I'm less likely to run into problems in this age group compared to girls 18-25.  Too much drama with the younger girls for me, and the sex is generally much better with the more mature women anyway.  Just my take from my own experience, which was proven out by your post showing their priorities in finding a match.  Thanks for sharing this experience. It tells me nothing has changed lately on SA from my perspective and I should continue on the same path when looking for new SB's.

I have found just the opposite, true college coeds can be the best. Single mothers, both young and old tend to have the highest "needs" while college coeds often do this just for spending money, they rarely get attached as they aren't likely to want anything serious with some guy 30-40 years older than them.

 
I don't have anywhere near as much experience with SB's as I do with hookers, but my "number" of SB is well over a hundred now and I have found that as long as you don't let the "tail way the dog" you can have VERY successful arrangements with the younger girls. I will concede you do have to be the dominant one in the relationship to make it work with the young girls. I would not advise guys who are easily "pushed around" by women to concentrate on the younger set, but as long as you exude the aura that they can easily be replaced if they get too demanding, I think you will find the young ones can be the best, especially if you want to avoid "needy and clingy" women who always have an emergency regarding their kid, car etc.

 
Oops, something I do want to add. If you spend a lot of "outside time" with your SB's then I would also have to concede that the 25 and up crowd are probably a better fit, but if you just want to have a few girls in your rotation that will come by and fuck your brains out a couple of times a week, college coeds can be the ticket.

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As I look back, one of my early SB's that I really enjoyed was a co-ed, but she was a foreign student from Norway, and way more mature than the typical US college girl and presented herself in a way that she could pass for a DDG 30 yo. She lasted her entire senior year until graduation, then returned to Norway.    

 
Other co-eds I tried were just a disconnect for me.  I couldn't even listen to the same music as them.  Lol   I do enjoy going out in public, so I fit your exception.  

I find it very weird that waitstaff and most other people look at us like we are perhaps a married couple when I go out with women 30 years younger or so than me. I pretty much have to go out with teenagers before I get the "dirty old man" looks. lol

 
I will concede that with only a few exceptions I really don't get a lot of pleasure in taking girls "out" who are in the under 25 age range. Personally I think about 27-32 or so is my sweet spot for an SB that I enjoy both "in" and "out"  

 
Now when I am out of the country, especially when in Latin America those age preferences go out the window, Since language is usually a challenge anyhow, and the drinking age is only 18, I don't have any issues taking the younger ones out at all.

Having completed two weeks with the 18 yo trio, things are still going swimmingly LOL.  About the only real disappointment is one of my co-eds appears to be a semi-pro and is definitely less connected, i.e. more “mechanical” as we progress though much of the Kamasutra.  

I dunno if it’s just this small sampling, but all three are very “active” in and around the bed – almost like gymnasts.  My bed is one with a half dozen big decorative pillows (thanks to the ex) and at the end of a long session, nary one of them remains on the bed but are strewn all over the bedroom!  All of them literally jump in and out of the bed as we change positions – it might make a funny YouTube video.  Oh yes, they all like to be photographed and two suggested I set up a camera so I can send them the video later!

Restaurant-wise everything went smoothly with all three, didn’t get any dirty-old-man looks…a few faces of bewilderment…and only one small incident: I like them to dress provocatively (i.e., slutty) and on this occasion the waitress asked if my companion could be repositioned to a different chair so that the Mom with two adolescent boys next table over didn’t have to experience a female anatomy lesson  lol  Can’t say the conversation was much different than with the ‘older’ ladies with the possible exception  when recounting recent boyfriends I was struck as to how they have a number of ‘blow job’ only ones.

The real hit with them is when I open their doors (car and restaurant) and pull back their chair to seat them – the look on their faces is so precious.

About the only complications so far is that two decided to tell their Mom about us and both received some serious tongue-lashing.  But reached some kind of understanding. Oh yeah, two tell me they love me!  We will deal with that as the adventure continues.

which is no surprise since I've said so often enough. I agree that simply not being an asshole is a huge advantage over most of the other SD wannabe's on SA.  I had a wonderful coffee date with a stunning 21yo a couple days ago during which she spent most of her time telling me how rare and wonderful I am. And all I did was be honest with her.  I'll take it!  We plan on going BCD next weekend.

August was another banner month for me.  Wound up having 9 dates with 9 different young women.  3 of them were 18 year olds.  I find a lot of variation in this age group making generalizations difficult.  One 18yo was already a pro with some hard miles on her.  One is a very petite Hispanic girl with very limited conversational skills, but is great in the sack and has the best attitude.  She always says just call me whenever you want me and she never bugs me in between.  But the 3rd is a committed college student with serious goals and quite a brain.  Aside from being gorgeous and tons of fun in bed, she's interesting to talk to so we usually wind up having a conversation over some food after the sexual activities.  

One generalization I can offer though is in total agreement with Gambler.  The younger ones seem much more appreciative of the $mall incentive I gift them.  It's usually the older ones, say 25+, who have an emergency with their car, or their kid or their rent or whatever and are constantly needing money.

Hope I didn’t come across as over-generalizing, but it’s a first for me to have three girls in a rotation and all of them 18!  I’m in total awe of you, so I do read your postings carefully for any tips or ideas!  It’s just with these three, all the same slim body type, similar hair, co-eds, etc the temptation to group their behavior is rather high.

Although I think I have a semi-pro in the mix who equally has apparently seen some harder miles on her so I’m thinking about a replacement.  I know to each, their own – just not so much for me.

Although someone above must love me because I just got this text from a super hot Italiano girl I met earlier this Summer and who has decided to take a gap-year off and come to America for an extended visit.  While she is just 17, very mature and acts like a much older girl.  Of course, in Italy: 17 is way over the age of consent, just need to do some research as to any potential risks here.

So sweets, still in for any advice based on your experiences with this young subset.  I’m just hoping I don’t totally fuck it up!  LOL

Who gave them the "tongue lashing" Mom, or you??? lol

 
Yes, I know that was low hanging fruit, but it's been slow on TER and I'll take em where I can find em .lol

 
Ok, and now for a "semi-serious" question, was your date giving the boys a "Sharon Stone" type anatomy lesson when the waitress was called in, or was she just showing excessive (by mom's standards that is) cleavage to her randy offspring?

Not all things should be shared, and ANYTHING to do with a girl of 17 is one of them.  

 
I am not one to judge, and I am the last person who is going to make any kind of judgment as to what age a girl/woman is "mature" enough to be doing this. That said, although the age of consent in Italy is technically 14, the age where it is legal to become a prostitute in almost every country, Italy included, is 18. So please do yourself a favor and do that research you were talking about. You will find that you will open yourself up to all sorts of potentially VERY serious legal problems if you end up sleeping with your young friend from Italy, especially if you end up doing it here in the US.

 
Like I said, I am not making a moral judgment here. I spend a LOT of time in Latin America and I have met a lot of 18-19 year old who have already had multiple children, I remember one Tica in particular that I saw on and off for several years who had a six year old son when I met her at the ripe old age of 19, (yes, do the math), can you even imagine the irony of going to prison for having sex with a someone underage who already had a four year old child? Like I said, I am not here to judge, I just know the ridiculous things that can happen in this current environment.

I heard of one gal who said she was 8 before she was seven.

Go figure.

On the tongue-lashings it was from the Mom's!  In one case her Mom has access to the girl's bank account and noticed the bank transfers, for the other, the Mom became suspicious with her daughter's sudden mood upturn and the fact she put her phone away quickly in her presence.  Yes, the joys of having to deal with Moms!

The anatomy lesson was bc I like (and buy) sheer tops for them, it's a fine line to get just the nips to lightly show vs. the whole enchilada when the light is a bit too bright!  lol

Yeah, in retrospect, I believe I may have shared a little too much.  I was originally taken aback by her age since she said 'I am fully legal.' Not til I asked to see her passport was I surprised in that she could easily pass for 21 in appearance and much more in maturity.  Well, in any event the problem will solve itself next month.

It is kind of funny how some women still look and act like children at twenty or more, while others are fully functioning adults barely into their teens.

 
My issue with the younger girls is one purely based in self preservation. I just don't want to go to jail, and neither do I want any of my friends, online and otherwise, to go to jail either.  

 
BTW speaking of legality, only a handful of US states have an age of consent as high as 18, but all of them do have that as a minimum where it comes to P4P where paying a "consenting adult" is a lesser crime than paying a minor who legally is "incapable of consent" but only where it comes to getting paid. What a dumb fucking system, wouldn't you agree?

I suppose your first sentence encapsulates my feeling about the whole age thing.  This lady may be 17 but she has the poise, dress, manners of someone considerably older.  Girls seem to grow up more quickly in the EU and especially in Italia.  I mean when I see her at a table, drinking vino of course, with a couple of her American GF, the contrast in style is completely obvious.

Any relationship I might have with her would never fall into the realm of prostitution.  I never do P4P, PPM or anything similar. Not necessarily her, but I would for example, continue with a weekly allowance even if not there.

The age requirement issues are vague but I believe using a site like SA means the interstate Fed rules come into play.  I equally suspect there are more than a number of Fed statutes about importing underage (i.e., 18 yo) ladies into the US.

But as time has it, she's turning 18 next month so I won't have to deal with any of the risks or for that matter the condescension from less open people.

Thanks for the kind words. I continue to find the youngest SBs are less jaded, more adventurous, and have fewer and lower expectation$ than the older ones.  And they're SSOOOOoooo pretty! Yes, some have fantasies about how much $$ they're going to get, so if mild attempts to reeducate them out of their GPS fantasies does not work, just move on.  And tbh, I've had more than a few tell me that they just could not hook up with a guy so much older.  Which is fine, I get it.  But there are still MANY very young women who think fucking an old guy like me and going home with 200 in their pocket is a perfectly fine way to spend the evening. And some say they truly prefer older men.  Really.  So I don't think the women I've been dating are looking for young guys first.  Most say they have little use for young guys who don't have a clue about the female body. Here's a good read on the entire subject of young girl/older men
https://medium.com/@Endlessfeels/lets-talk-sex-what-it-really-feels-like-to-have-sex-with-an-older-man-cbefd8022793