If you've been around here since early 2025, you may recall my posts about my aspiring HipHop SB and my 7-week trip to Thailand and Indonesia, ending with a week in Bali.  The plan was for her to meet me in Bali, on my dime of course. And we would have 7 days of tropical paradise fun together. But life happened. She was arrested in a foreign country for weed and thrown in jail. I lost about half the airfare and a bit more on miscellaneous expenses.  

 
It's about 1 year later and she's now been released. I don't know why or how, but she's posting scenes from around the city where she was arrested on her IG account, and she a friend of hers has a go-fund-me account to gather enough cash to bring her home. I sent $50 anonymously.  She has not contacted me, and I have not contacted her. Not sure if she still has the same phone number. I did send two texts to her friend/roommate who initially let me know about the arrest incident and providing me text updates for a while. No reply.  

 
Obviously, I won't be considering investing any more cash into this unless and until I reestablish direct contact.  If that happens, I'm open to see where it goes.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

Those babes are exciting and suck dick like no other.
But sadly, they are from a world with different rules.
Seems if you can work within this environment , it's great,  otherwise you are at bit at risk.
I've been there and had an amazing time but always had people watching over me (at a cost)

These days, still taking care of my 'rotation' which seems an outlier on this forum  

The GoFundMe.  

Just checked. The she's almost halfway there, with $1,409 collected on a $3,500 target.  

 
And after I made the post, I tested her text number again. Not in service, which makes sense considering she would not have access to her phone in prison and there would be no need to pay the phone bill.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

on the GoFundMe to allow for you to recover your losses.  Then you can wipe the slate clean and propose the two of you start over with a trip to a place where weed is legal.