That’s a very good point you bring up. Do you tell women you’re married and not looking for commitment? I go through the same things in my head, and although many of my women fall in love and fuck me for free, I’ve yet to have them try to break up my marriage or tie me down. I do worry about it, but knock on wood, it hasn’t happened. I always encourage them to keep an open relationship so we don’t get bored of each other too quickly. I’ve also noticed younger girls are much more likely to appreciate this. I like the girls that are afraid of marriage as much as I would be if I were single and knew what know now. When they’re late twenties, they get more clingy. I also like non-Asian women. I’ve found Asian women to be the most clingy although this might be because I’m Asian and fit their idea of a marriage partner more than I would fit a Latina or black who never imagined being with an Asian.
I’m just hoping 10 years from now, when some of these girls might be looking to settle down, nothing bad happens.
To be honest, I have never paid a SB less than $500.
One time (as inspired by this board) I negotiated a $250 meet with a goddess - but after a great date I just had to give her $500.
We literally rooted for hours and we really connected so I wanted to do right by her - but there was another reason - having a developed and completely segregated personal life I try to keep aspects of these meetings as transactional as possible and although I have been offered no charge encounters in both the sugar and pro worlds - I ALWAYS pay (and not just a nominal amount).
Not too many years ago, I kinda fell for an exceptional provider. She ended up insisting that I not pay for a date around my birthday, then again for a date that was mostly not fucking, et al... A few months later, she ended up at my door and I was very lucky not to have my personal life unravel.
I suppose what I'm trying to say here is that I like to keep the lines clear about what type of relationships these are. The closer I pay to zero = the greater the chances are for one of these gals to think she and I are having an affair...
You swinging dicks that are single don't have to deal with this and if I were in your situation I would do exactly the same but I'm not and the way I'm rolling is working for me - so far...
That’s a very good point you bring up. Do you tell women you’re married and not looking for commitment? I go through the same things in my head, and although many of my women fall in love and fuck me for free, I’ve yet to have them try to break up my marriage or tie me down. I do worry about it, but knock on wood, it hasn’t happened. I always encourage them to keep an open relationship so we don’t get bored of each other too quickly. I’ve also noticed younger girls are much more likely to appreciate this. I like the girls that are afraid of marriage as much as I would be if I were single and knew what know now. When they’re late twenties, they get more clingy. I also like non-Asian women. I’ve found Asian women to be the most clingy although this might be because I’m Asian and fit their idea of a marriage partner more than I would fit a Latina or black who never imagined being with an Asian.
I’m just hoping 10 years from now, when some of these girls might be looking to settle down, nothing bad happens.
about some other posts you've written. I do get it, and the bottom line I guess is, whatever works for you is what is right for you. My situation seems to be so unusual that I guess nobody here can relate. My wife and I are poly and both accept and encourage each other to live life to the fullest. I hang out with her BF frequently. One of my SBs house sat for us once and went on a vacation with us also. So I don't have to keep my worlds separate or my activities hidden. One part of the agreement I've made with my awesome wife is not to spend too much money, as she and I define these things. Hence my need to pay much less than you do for Sugar Dating.
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