I wonder if you live in an area with lots of SBs. My eye is constantly wandering too, I think we can all relate! The variety of sexual experiences is a big reason why I love sugar dating. But my location is very low in numbers, so if I found a gem like yours, I'd go back time and time again and try to make it a regular addition to my rotation. The problem with my approach, is that when it works, as it has been doing lately, I have more than I can handle in my "regulars" with little time and energy for new adventures! Terrible problem to have, right?
My closing rate is low because I always let them know up front it is all about the sex and not about a relationship. However once in a while a gem is uncovered. Like yesterday. A petite Asian with relatively big breasts. At a nice hourly rate (same as low end pros, but not the outrageous ask.) She has a nice day job, so unlikely to be on the verge of being homeless like several I've encountered (hate being asked for emergency funds.) She also hosts, saving a hotel expense. Lives in a nice apartment complex with underground parking for guests. Sweet. . My only problem is my wandering eye. I have trouble going back even though she is a great find. Always thinking about the next catch.
I wonder if you live in an area with lots of SBs. My eye is constantly wandering too, I think we can all relate! The variety of sexual experiences is a big reason why I love sugar dating. But my location is very low in numbers, so if I found a gem like yours, I'd go back time and time again and try to make it a regular addition to my rotation. The problem with my approach, is that when it works, as it has been doing lately, I have more than I can handle in my "regulars" with little time and energy for new adventures! Terrible problem to have, right?
A long while back, we had many discussions on defining a SB "Unicorn." That rare creature that checks all your boxes of desire, compatibility, budget, and more. I won't rehash the details here, but the theme was that somewhere there is a "perfect" SB for every SD. Now since unicorns only exist in fairy tales, we realize that we may never actually find ours in the real world. Yet we never stop searching in the hope that maybe, somehow, someday...
Thus, we face the "Unicorn Delema" that you describe in your post.
She's great! She's FRICKIN AMAZING!!! But - perhaps the next SB will be even better. So, do you lock in with this one for as long as you can, even though you realize that no arrangement lasts forever. Or do you allocate time and budget away from this one to continue your searching in the hope that the next opportunity may show a glimpse of that magical creature no one has ever found - yet?
So true! I have 3 wonderful regular SBs right now. They are each girls that my 25yo self would have been insanely happy with "forever". But I'm talking to 2 or 3 more, just hoping to find that unicorn. Another factor is the desire for fresh new pussy, apart from the unicorn search. I just love the variety!
I connected with a unicorn who wanted $800 ppm on a regular basis and couldn’t bring myself to go broke for her. But oddly.. it felt satisfying in a way knowing I could have this gorgeous creature for just opening my wallet a bit wider. Making me feel I’ve still got something.
I’m probably deluding myself thinking it’s about my looks and charm and that she wouldn’t have done the same for any schmuck with the cash .. but it feels ok and I’ve still got some great regular SBs.
If the allowance is over your comfort zone, she can't be a Unicorn.
I feel your pain... I've had more than one seemingly perfect POT's who just wouldn't/couldn't agree to terms I offered.
In some ways, we may all be better off never finding our Unicorn; it fuels our need to keep finding new POT's and enjoying new experiences. Hell, even a bad experience is better than no experience at all.
The convo has gone as bit off the original topic. But my point is that while our principal goal is to find the juiciest pussies, there are other things that are important. And it's a bit of a confidence builder in an odd way if you know you could have one.. if if you choose not to break the bank on one.
I am as fixated on finding my Unicorn as anyone here... so I get easily distracted...
But yes, there is a tremendous ego-boost when you appear to have the kind of "game" you never had in your 20's or 30s' (or for me - ever!). Even if there is a transactional foundation, the idea that a super-hot, super-sweet, 8, 9 or 10 babe will gladly do the horizontal mambo with you, just pumps high-density endorphins into the old brain box (no pun intended).
My friends that don't "know" are jealous of the chicks I "pull." My friends who do "know" are as well. I have a M&G with a cute, 19-yr old, redhead, freckle-faced, introverted (and so I suspect submissive), spinner on Saturday. She's a ballet dancer and likes romantic dates. I mean.... comon! Does it get any better?
I couldn't agree more! Today I had a visit with my #1 SB, a slim, very cute 25yo who seems to truly adore me. She's the most orgasmic woman I've ever met and open to pretty much anything. Today our playtime was off the charts and def non-vanilla! We also made plans for a ski trip as soon as the mountain opens, hopefully sometime after Thanksgiving. I can't believe I have this adoring angel in my life! Dude, have fun with your 19yo redhead on Saturday, I'll be thinking of you!
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