I know there is one guy here with an RV, which sounds pretty cool, but where are the rest of you meeting with your SBs for BCD time?  I assume most people, particularly the married guys, are using hotels - how do you keep the bills discreet?  Don't want wifey to see the credit card bill and see a bunch of charges from the local Marriott.  I thought about using something like Trivago or similar site where the site name would appear on the bill rather than the hotel, but that doesn't provide a lot of protection if there are a bunch of charges.  

... it's how to pay without leaving an electronic trail that your SO will see.  

I do meet most of my dates in the RV.  It has worked splendidly for me for about 10 years so far.  But I also sometimes meet my SBs at my home.  I am very happily married, in a wonderful, ENM/open/poly marriage.  My wife is totally cool with my sugar dating.  So even though I am free to do as I please without the need to hide my activities from her,  I usually use the RV because my dates are an hour drive away, and they seem to like the RV.  And I find hotel meets to be creepy.  And expensive obviously.  Over the years I've had several extraordinary arrangements with SBs who were happy to drive an hour to meet me at my home, instead of me driving.  So those dates were at home, which is always a huge luxury for me.  USDA Grade A pussy delivered right to my door!  What could be better?

1) You book with your credit card, but settle the bill with cash. Nothing on CC.

Only had 1 uncomfortable situation in probably 40 ladies.

Me too...the numbers are over a hundred, altho most were 5+ years ago when things were different.

I can never use my place, so the issue never arises for me.

These are all valid points.  I would never invite a new SB, i.e., a stranger, to my home.  Otoh, I have invited several who were already long time, trusted lovers.  And it's always worked great.  There's something very special when you have excellent pussy delivered right to your door!

Actually, none of them are valid points.

All very valid points, at least for me. Most of us can't take the chance of bringing a POT back to our own place but for those who can it does offer a lot of convenience and of course a savings in hotel cost. I always try to keep as much of my private life as private as possible. Too many horror stories of gals going off the rails. Also have had a few personal experiences as well, so no, am not going to take a chance some crazy SB is going to try to turn my life upside down.

was not mean to demean a brother on here.

I'm a big fan of Dayuse...but I live in a part of LA not far from downtown, West Hollywood, Beverly Hills, West LA, even Santa Monica. So any given day there are 25+ hotels offering Dayuse rates. Does your wife review the credit card bill? Does she pay the bills? My wife knows, supports and approves of my sugar relationships (among other things)...but if she didn't I don't think she would have noticed the charges.

when you request day-use of a hotel room, aren't you sort of screaming out 'I plan on having an illicit tryst  with someone who is most likely a hooker"?

Oh, you are behind the times!

It is rare for any formula to fit all. Congratulations on having a great situation for sugaring - no SO, private and a private, secure estate. I am familiar with one of Bill Gates' places, and even he has nothing like a quarter mile driveway (at that location).  That said, I think what I posted earlier (the warning) is very relevant for the majority with more middle-of-the-road accommodations.

Dayuse was designed for corporate meetings actually.  We can rent a room for a few hours, meet with clients. Get room service.  I have actually used this for business when we need to meet somewhere neither of us have office space by.  

Had a tryst with a new SB a couple weeks ago. We connected strongly during the M&G and I could tell that she was ready for BCD. I was actually surprised as her profile presents a very sweet, demure woman and her personality in person was exactly the same. 100% zero hooker vibes. But when someone is ready to go, they're ready to go.

I think some of the apps actually have the "screaming hooker" room listed separately ...or they should!

As I just returned from a 7-week visit to Thailand and Indonesia, and I've also spent months in the Philippines, I can tell you what I found, especially in and around the established "adult entertainment" districts.  

100% true on the revenue "reputable" hotels were leaving on the table. I've used a 5-star hotel in DTLA (not the Ritz) for Dayuse activities. Charge is around $170, it's a nice hotel, and the only thing housekeeping has to do is change the sheets and towels after I leave. Takes a maid probably 5-10 minutes (at most) to turn over the room and she's probably paid $20/hour.