Some pussies with providers are tight and some are loose. Is the looseness by the pussy caused by excessive sex or are people born with it? Some people tell me if a provider has a loose pussy they have sex with too many people but I thought that it was elastic and that wasn't true at all

Dear Gentlemat,

The vagina is basically a muscle which relaxes and contracts TEMPORARILY depending on hormonal conditions, sexual arousal or distention by force. Sometimes the pelvic floor has been slightly relaxed by damage during vaginal childbirth, meaning an entire body of a newborn has passed through and some relaxation of ligaments and pelvic floor muscles has occurred (the pelvic floor is what holds the vagina in place, among other things.) For a penis to do that kind of damage is physically impossible, no matter how many times a woman has intercourse.

Now, some vaginas expand slightly due to sexual excitation, which may feel looser than a vagina of a woman who is not sexually excited at all. In addition, some women get so aroused that they lubricate profusely, which can feel like a "looser vagina" to some men.

So yes, you are right - it is elastic and it's not true at all,
The Love Goddess

Although not always I have found a correlation between smaller women and tighter pussies.  Is this accurate?  Do small women have shallower vaginas?  I have seen very fit medium framed women that feel kind of sloppy.  Is there a correlation between a woman's frame type and wall tightness?  Can child birth stretching be overcome from kegel exercises?

Dear HankTheBoss,

Not really a correlation - repeated childbirth and a relaxed pelvic floor is more the issue. Kegels are very good for all sorts of things and also for both genders in terms of genito-urinary problems; however, if someone's pelvic floor is completely relaxed from childbirth, Kegels can sometimes be insufficient.

Everyone should do Kegels - guys too,
The Love Goddess

This:

"some vaginas expand slightly due to sexual excitation, which may feel looser than a vagina of a woman who is not sexually excited at all. In addition, some women get so aroused that they lubricate profusely, which can feel like a "looser vagina"   "


I love it when a woman is this turned on. I notice a placid just going with it demeanor at this point.

What many don't know I guess is if your administrations have gotten her this far it's only going to get better. In my experience this is the plateau reached when a woman is basically primed for multiple orgasms.

The great think about multiple orgasms is she will get more engorged internally as well, tightening up, and the more orgasms she has the more forceful her muscle contractions become.

Now the beauty in this is if you can get her this far and you have good control you can Figure out the pattern. I can call orgasms like a pool-shark calls shots at this point.

Then I can time my orgasm for a simultaneous release with hers.

That is absolutely incredible!!!!

Sex is good stuff.

A provider just uses way too much lube...

It may be due to soreness or discomfort but it's just too much.  This results in a complete lack of friction or, for lack of a better word, traction during intercourse.

One needs some friction to make things happen.  I find that a little lube inside the cover is useful along with just the right fit.  The male needs to move a little inside the cover to create friction for him...  the cover needs to grip the shaft to stay on.
skb

Love Goddess,

I have never disagreed with you before but this time I have to say something...

Ignore the impact of childbirth for now. We know that dicks come in all shapes and sizes. Why wouldn't we also expect that pussies would come in different "sizes" as well?

It almost seems that you are trying to avoid saying that pussies can come in different sizes. You couched the discussion in terms of "amount of lube" and then jumped to "childbirth" being the major factor in apparent pussy tightness.

I'm not making any assumptions that "smaller girls have tighter pussies," or anything like that. But given the wide variety of everything else we see in the human body, wouldn't we also expect to see a variety in pussy size? Absent of childbirth, or amount of lube, why is it taboo to say that some women might indeed have larger pussies than others? And that a larger pussy might manifest as feeling less tight?

It amazes me how us Johns get all emotional about a working woman who has a loose or tight pussy. If her pussy is really loose, fuck her harder. That determines how mmany years or decades she's been working. If she's tight, good for her. that won't last long.

Well when you get older and your sensitivity is reduced so even the thinest cover makes it near impossible to feel things, I'm sure you will be looking for a tight one. LOL

Dear PittPanter,

The human vagina is an elastic muscular canal that extends from the cervix to the vulva. Although there is wide anatomical variation, the length of the unaroused vagina is approximately 6 to 7.5 cm (2.5 to 3 in) across the anterior wall (front), and 9 cm (3.5 in) long across the posterior wall (rear). During sexual arousal the vagina expands in both length and width. Its elasticity allows it to stretch during sexual intercourse and during birth to offspring.

So if you are talking about an unaroused vagina, the difference is NOT large. But during sexual arousal, some women have larger control of their PC muscles, thereby making their vaginas feel tighter. Other women tend to focus on relaxing their PC muscles and do the opposite of tightening them, thereby making the vagina feel looser.

So your assumption that unaroused vaginas are hugely variant in size is wrong.

Hope that settles it,
The Love Goddess