The Erotic Highway

Some bots
lester_prairie 12 Reviews 70 reads
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Some are bots used by the service to give the appearance of a buffet of girls.  No need to respond since the poor sucker just thinks they are real girls.  Others are likely girls who are overwhelmed with responses.  They probably couldn't reply to every contact even if they wanted to.

I've had 4 POTs in the last week that respond after a couple of messages with:

1) Hey I really like your profile, I want to know more... or
2) Here's my number give me a call  

But then block me, before I can even read the message.  Its not like the message sat for days and they maybe found someone else, its like relatively right after they send it.  I got 2 of each.

I followed up with the two that gave me their number.  One responded and the other didn't.  I am getting escort vibes from the one that responded, but I've got nothing against escorts so I am playing it out to see what happens.

The other two really confused me, so I am not sure what's going on there.  I lumped all 4 together because of the blocking occurring so fast.

Likely not a real trend, but I haven't been blocked like that before. lol.  Usually just it followed a message of "Not interested" or my initial message without an explanation.  Both of which, I am okay with.  This trend confused me.  Anyone else get this?

GaGambler125 reads

It's often hard to tell if a POT has blocked you or has simply deleted her profile.

 
But yes, this happens to me all the time.

I am not sure.  One looked like it, but she responded to my text (she gave a number). We have been trying to arrange a meeting, but my travel got in the way.  She's been sending (unsolicited) nice photos of herself in a bikini.  Hard to ignore.  The other seemed long and gone, and then suddenly her profile was back. Either deactivated and came back or was suspended and let back in.

The other two, well I'll just never know and frankly I stopped worrying about it when the bikini photos came in. lol.

Most of the time when this has happened to me, if I’ve been interacting with them over mail, the message history is there in both my inbox and sent items, but their profile pick is greyed out with a circle and a diagonal line.  

In this most recent instance, the whole message history is gone. Which leads me to believe she’s hidden herself from me. Or might that also be the case in a deleted or deactivated account?

I've had similar experiences of getting blocked soon after initial contact.  As Gambler said, you can't tell if they blocked you or deleted/deactivated their profile. But recently I got yet another in a loooong stream of requests for an online arrangement. As you know, I think that's a contradiction in terms and should be banned by SA Admin as it was in pre-pandemic days.  But I digress.  This one SB told me she would only consider meeting irl after at least 2 weeks of online.  She wanted $150 for nudes and Facetime.  I very politely declined and told her I only provide a$$istance the old fashioned way, in person and in cash.  Not only did she block me, but she first sent me a parting message that said "Bye loser!"  That sort of gratuitous meanness is so uncalled for!  I shouldn't give a shit but I do.  Guess I'm very thin skinned.  But it reminded me of a conversation I had with a lovely SB who recently returned into my town and my life.  She wants to be more active on SA, but says that 80% of the men she interacts with are mean jerks and she just doesn't want to expose herself to that shit. For example, one guy said that if she doesn't reply instantly she shouldn't be on the site.  She has a life, as in a job and a home life. Yet they expect her to basically kiss their feet simply because they are offering money.  The level of unkindness she has experienced and was reporting to me really shocked and surprised me.  As many have said here before, if you are simply a polite gentleman you're way ahead of the majority of men on SA.  But it sucks that you have to sift through so much dirt to find one gem, for both the SDs and the SBs evidently.

Nvm on my “hide” question. But I’m still curious on the circumstances where the Mail chain disappears completely vs. remains with “profile no longer available”.

Some are bots used by the service to give the appearance of a buffet of girls.  No need to respond since the poor sucker just thinks they are real girls.  Others are likely girls who are overwhelmed with responses.  They probably couldn't reply to every contact even if they wanted to.

I buy into the idea of Bots on Seeking Benefits, or other low-conversion sites. But I don't think SA has bots. At least I've never seen a reason to think there are bots there.  

 
-Fake profiles from scammers? Yes.  
-Insincere profiles from IG models? Yes.
-Fake profiles from Asia or South America (likely created in a Profile Farm)? Yes
-Online only hopefuls who read some BS blog or TikTok vids? Yes
-FemDoms who want  to capitalize on men with money (but just don't get that sugaring is NOT femdom)? Yes

 

But I don't feel that SA is actively creating or endorsing some "women" to create a profile just to bolster the appearance of 5-10 women for every man on the site. They don't need to do this.  

 
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