I met with a 35 year old today whom I met on SA.  She has 2 little kids (under age 5) and no sitter available today so we opted to meet at a park and have coffee/smoothie while the kids played.  

I don't post my photo and I didn't know if she would like me or not.  When I arrived, she was already there and called me over and gave me a great hug.  She was wearing a really cute skirt.  I liked her.

We talked for quite a bit and she was a little aloof.  But her kids wanted to go on the swing and I told her she should get on one too.  She said, "you just want an excuse to touch my ass" and I said, "absolutely!"  So I did!  

Anyway, it seems like after we had "played" she loosened up some.  We moved back over to a park bench and she moved her purse away from where it sat next to her.  I assumed so I could slide in so I did.  I put my arm around her and she immediately laid her head on my shoulder.  I caressed her shoulders, back of her neck, etc.  At one point she looked me right in the eyes and was moving in as I moved in and we had a long passionate kiss for a few minutes.  She moaned about 7 or 8 times during the kiss.   Wow...

I looked at her and I said, "I had a big question but I guess it's been answered".  And she said, "What was that?"  And I replied, "If you want to see me again".  She smiled and said, "Yes, its been answered"

Later she mentioned she had 2 days a week where her house will be empty and we can do "whatever"  I said, "whatever...and smiled and she smiled back"

Don't know what kind, if any, "sugar" she might want but I had a really nice time with her.  If this works out there is a good chance I won't see anyone but her.

I'm really curious if she found me attractive/desirable or not.  She did mention she mad met a couple other people in the past and knew right away it wasn't going to work.  The one person she did see, it went on for a few months and then ended when he stopped coming to town

Just really keep the "bat shit radar" in full alert. I've been having a blast but you have to realize that the ladies in the sugar world are not for the most part stable.

If course we play in it. So are we stable? Lol

Now let me see if I get this straight... Your first date and she brings her kids? Then you share a passionate kiss, while maybe her kids are around, ok.  Seems like an act of desperation on both parts. I would be careful with this one. Enjoy her but I'm not feeling this one.

You guys are reading the situation all wrong.  The kids were under 3 years old.  They were off playing on the gym when we kissed.

She is as normal as the come.  Not BSC.  As I found out talking to her tonight....I think she may be one in a million.

Should have said that before. I'd still keep one eye open. And it's great that you feel that she's "Normal".....Good Luck

She's over a 9 hot and under a 4 crazy. Better be careful. Might be a tranny. Lol

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She is more like a 8 body and 9 face.   But I have 20 years on her and so far I don't think there will be any sugar involved.

I am also quite cynical on this because a similar scenario had happened to me which cost me $700 for rent shortage and holding my throbbing d*ck and blue balls to deal with. Effacing kunt with a child was way past due for rent and played me like a violin but I didn't go into it totally oblivious to the potential of zero ROI.  

Cut a long story short, it was some b*tch who was DDG but had dripped a womb turd already! I went with the Zangari method on this one so a couple of dates, plus some shopping at Macy's (thank Gawd wasn't Saks or Neimans as she was a country bumpkin for So. cal) had already cost me $400 without getting anything in return other than your typical PDA, hot and heavy petting like teenager in heat. It was my own stupid fault though because at the outset I was being to chivalrous and had told her to call me, if she needed anything! BIG MISTAKE! Then she brings on me that she needed $1750 immediately to pay the rent she was behind by 2 months. Should have walked away there and then, but I told her that since we had not consummated the arrangement (at least I had some balls!) I couldn't or wouldn't help her out by the full amount. I really felt bad for her crying over the phone and sent her another $300 and thereafter got totally ghosted on.

I could slice, dice and analyze this till the cows come home but I was too green back then and my stupidity cost me 700 and a bunch of wasted time. I am convinced that the baby daddy was still doing her back then when I was wining/dining her but hindsight is 20/20 and the experience is invaluable.

Bottom line: do I think that is what is going on with you? No, not necessarily but I've both seen and heard of this sort of stuff happening much too often in the P4P realm. From my own experience, younger women are not on that site to look for BFs and LTRs but I won't discount that possibility by a full 100%.

Met this Indian girl from SA, 19 years my junior. I'm 50 she is 31. She is divorced for 4 years, never has the topic of $ come up except when I mentioned most of the SA girls are p4p. We have not been able to do the deed but we have sexted and were trying to set something up. Problem is, she has a lot less to lose than I do. I am thinking about breaking it off because after fucking her she might get feels and be bsc. My real attraction is that she is free pussy. I know that pussy is never free and I am going to pay somehow. Breaking it off might be the best. Escorts are so much less complicated.

Maybe and probably not an actual bill asking for money, but an even more expensive bill when she goes BSC over your "betrayal"

Sometimes, giving her money whether she wants it or not defines the relationship and is MUCH cheaper in the long run.