I have a problem that probably a lot of men would envy. A lot of men have erectile dysfunction (ED). I have the opposite problem, delayed ejaculation (DE). I can maintain an erection, but I can't come. I've had sex for a hour, and still have an erection, but no orgasm. Usually, my penis is numb and I'm not feeling anything, so I doubt any more would actually cause me to climax. This is definitely abnormal since I believe that most men come after a few minutes. Oral sex doesn't do anything for me either. I can easily come in a few minutes after masturbation.

One woman suggested to me that my problem is from having a small penis so every woman feels loose to me. I can come through masturbation because my hands have a tight grip.

Ok, Chimpokomon,
RE (retarded ejaculation) is not as uncommon as one might think and definitely not "abnormal." You might wish to peruse page 5 of this board. I can only post one link per message, so you'll have to look for it under
DIFFICULTY WITH MALE ORGASM, posted by "dprather."

And then, do check out the attached exhaustive thread on the topic.

You're not alone...
the Love Goddess


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