Ergo, Colonel! Issue resolved. It's a FANTASY...

And you can be attracted to any kind of fantasy, as long as you realize that some fantasies are not optimally translated into reality - at least not like in these videos.

Also, let's not forget that many commercially produced images incorporate carefully calculated fantasy elements. Indeed, I think you would react differently if you witnessed sexual violence perpetuated toward someone in your environment.

But wrong? No, I don't think so. As discussed in the thread, many women also have rape fantasies, complete with hunky Fabio "I can't believe it's not butter" ripping their clothes off in the most forceful manner. But these imaginations always takes something into account - a willing "victim". Heck, I'd like to sign up for being raped by Jim Morrison, Johnny Depp...and even Mick Jagger...where do we old hippe mamas line up?

Let me know if your fantasies get more persistent or intrusive, though,
the Love Goddess

I repeatedly have this fantasy. Not so much of an actual "rape" which I find vile and disgusting but the act of a man taking control, forcing me to limits I would not normally concede to and being the aggressor in a situation.

I have a few gentlemen who have discussed this type of fantasy with me and because I trust them I have enjoyed some very erotic times with them.

None of them has ever hurt me, done something I did not want them to do or actually "raped" me. However, I did maintain a safe word if I ever felt that it was getting out of hand.

It is not odd to have these types of fantasies. I am naturally very dominant in life but actually very submissive in the bedroom. Finding someone you can share your fantasies with is what this "job" is all about.

Good luck.

~Rae

Here's the thing.  If you are having urges to savagely rape women you do not know, and who really are not consenting to the situation beforehand... urges that are difficult to keep in check... then perhaps it is time to reach out for help -- get some counseling, talk to a trusted confidante, something along those lines.

However, that does not seem to be the case in your situation.  If the lines of fantasy and reality are not blurred for you, then you are just fine.

A very close friend of mine has fantasies of this nature.  He is the mildest, sweetest young man you could ever meet -- truly.  These fantasies really disturbed him, because they were the antithesis of who he really is, and how he really feels about women.  However, in my opinion, I can understand why any man would have these fantasies.. how HOT would it be to have complete dominion over a woman's body, whether or not she has given it to you?  How hot would it be to do whatever you wanted to a woman without needing to ask her, or to pay her... you could just take it from her.  Rawr.  I should stop now, because I am getting myself all wound up (though I fantasize from the other position, that of the victim).

Anyway, in summation, you are perfectly normal.

and acting out these fantasies with a consenting partner, is that still, if she says "no" "don't" or "stop" the play must end. And yet how can you play the role without those words?