...unless escorting is their job. But even hookers can desire a sugar arrangement.
There is a lot of critical advice in past posts, and I encourage you to do several keyword searches here to get the full context of that advice. But I'll give you the top-level items here:
1. Stay away from monthly allowance. It never works out in the long run.
2. Allowance is paid for a date (ppm) and should never be an hourly rate.
3. SB's are not hookers/providers/escorts. Sugar Dating is DATING. If you want to fuck a hooker, hire a hooker.
4. I'm not married, so getting away from the SO is not my expertise. But there are many methods cited in past posts regarding things like:
- Burner phones
- Day use hotels (one member her sugars in his RV!)
- Anonymous payments, or at least payments your SO won't see
- Having a conversation with your wife about an open marriage/polyamorous lifestyle.
- Finding "legit" reasons to go out on your own for 4-8 hours or even 1-4 days.
Finally, I'd guess that at least 65% of the posters here are married or have a SO. So it can be done. Read up to find out how.
Life is good
The Cat